jaxxy:


Yes I was going to add that part. Not all deficiencies can be corrected or improved on and not all deficiencies are deficiencies bt rather preferences. Bt even at that some qualities can make up for certain preferences.

Ladycewhy:
I suppose you are referring to "inner beauty" and character .


Answer me this, will inner beauty make you marry a dwarf, as in a real dwarf?.

Kingpele:
I he will never disappoint you ,he will led you to throughout every stage of your life ,submit to Jim and live

jaxxy:


Lol I do understand u bt what i was trying to say is while there are preferences not all are deal breakers, for instance the issue of dwarf u raise I will assume u mean shorter than u and not a real dwarf rite? Some gals won’t marry a shorter guy bt some might still go for same height because of other certain qualities even tho their preference is a taller guy.

Another scenario is complexion, u can’t change ur complexion bt u cud end up liking a complexion u normally don’t like cos of a certain quality present in the person.

I don agree some preferences are non negotiable tho. It must be there. Lol

Toks2008:


Nah to manage sure pass.

Ladycewhy:
I said real dwarf oga.

Some qualities no matter how good can never override preferences. We both agree on that part.


Humans are really strange I tell you. In as much as I get what the op is saying,there is high possiblity that someone will get hurt on this type issue, it takes lots of maturity and contentment to actually appreciate and value the one that is not your type even though you are their type.

Fate only smiled on a few to find their type who also finds them as their type.

jaxxy:


Many people meet their types Type pls. I don’t settle for lesser than I really want even just casually dating. Secondly there not bad or crazy about rejection, u will reject and some will reject u it’s completely fine. There are more than a million other people who are ur type and ure their type atleast based on my experiences sofar. I get mostly what I want and I’m sure I’m not every ones type.

I’m sure the op is talking about obviously things like height, dwarf and all that extreme rubbish bt rather unknown reasons which are actually known to observant people.

Ladycewhy:
Unknown reasons yet divorce rates keeps going up, if people actually beat the unknown reasons stage to get their type, that's 50% of compatibility test passed dont you think?

jaxxy:


50% compatibility is not good compatibility rate for marriage or even a relationship. Anything below 70% is doomed to fail and only good for casual relationships, hookups or friendships.

Ladycewhy:
Alot of things make up compatibility, unknown reasons is more like the hardest part , that thing that can make you like or dislike someone for no reason. It's worth taking 50 percent of the contributory factors.

jaxxy:


The u don’t know urself or what u want. Many people fall into this categories and mess up their partners and relationships.

U have to know who u are to a large extent and what u want to delve into a relationship or marriage. Unknown reasons like I said earlier or only unknown to the less observant.

SimplyFacts:
Go for whosoever appreciates you genuinely.

This one no be my type, that one no be my type,,,, na im make Pocohantas settle for an ancestor las las.

Kingpele:
Hahaha well it believe strongly that every one who truly desire a soul mate ,this is what I understand as your type,most first of all live the way he desired from his partner,If u are a womanizer ,don't seek for a faithful partner until you quit your immoral lifestyle ,if u are lazy don't expect a hardworking partner ,be the best version of what u seek in your spouse and pray and be watchful u will get it,I met lots of girls before I met my wife ,as someone from a very comfortable background all I got was leeches Bcuz then I got money easily from home ,so I spent it anyhow in my university days but I realized that when I met my wife every thing changed for me ,I no longer desire to go to club because she's well mannered, she has this soft way of getting me to change my mind with every wrong decision I want to do in her presence ,I felt something I never felt for any girl ,she is reason I gave my life to Christ ,it above sixteen years I met her and ten years of marriage ,I want to share this to young people ,try to be close to God bcuz he will never disappoint you ,he will led you to throughout every stage of your life ,submit to Jim and live

bukatyne:


What was your type then?

Bellotelli:
In other words, stay with someone that loves and appreciate you more.

Toks2008:
The irony of attraction is so intriguing and a mystery at the same time.

You come across someone who sees you as the type h/she will love to be with but you say the person is not your type...then you start looking for your type upandan and when you eventually find your type, you get to realize that you are not the type of your type. No be juju be dat

This is the situation many find themselves but the heart wants what it wants so the never ending crazy circle goes on and on. And this is also the reason why many people especially ladies remain single for a very long time cos their case is even more complicated. In most cases, a lady will see her type of guy yet will only wish, hope or pray he approaches them and when a random guy who is not their type approach them, nah wahala.

One thing i know for sure is that only very few people come across their type who also see them as the type they desire and many marriages out there are combos of someone marrying another who is not really the type they desire so i strongly believe that it is better to accept the person who sees you as his or her type and configure your mind-set to see such as your type than to be with your type who is trying to configure his or her mind to see you as their type .

Am i even making sense this early morning? Abeg make i go baff commot.