I’ve been dating this girl for 4yrs now , she is 24yrs I’m also 24yrs .. met her when I’m in school,which is IMSU..tho she is not a student but living in the community I’m schooling ,so she is an indigene ..I will say she is educated…now that I’m leaving the school which I will be graduating next year ,really don’t know what to do now because I will be leaving the school and focus on my future and my NYSC service , I’m thinking of breaking up with her now because we won’t be that close again and distance …I live in Lagos with my family while she lives in imo state with her family ….
I’ve been having feelings and pity that I’ve been wasting her time , I don’t really know how she feels or her plan for the relationship..All I know is that I’m not ready for marriage or anything because I’m the breadwinner of my family since I lost my dad and I still have a long way to go …so please I just need advice on what to do ..should I just wait till I graduated and see how it goes or just tell her about what she thinks if I graduated? I’ve once talked to her about if I graduated she started having mood swings about it and very angry at me for bringing up the issue …I’m confused please just your advice

You coming into NIGERIA labour market steered by Buharinomics and u re bugging ur head with woman..

Don't worry, soon u wee get Sense...

Just focus on graduating first. Allow time to determine the future. Relationship of four years is solid and if you both really love each other, you can work things out, but don't pressure yourself. And please, don't promise her anything, just allow destiny to work out things. If the relationship is not meant to work, the distance will kill it naturally after you graduate.

Na wa ooo

Elders only I'm out

Since you have once discussed it with her and she wasn't happy just continue with the relationship when you finally graduate distance would end the relationship and it won't be your fault.

You are asking us what to do

Face your studies and plan about your future!

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I didn't read the nonsense you wrote up there because na woman matter,I just want to tell you that, your father and his ancestors will be disappointed in only if it's not hereditary, stupid boy

What do we call this for fvnck sake
A 24 year old boy feeling he has wasted the time of a 24 year old girl?

Whatever you are doing with the opposite sex when you have no goal of settling down is simply fornication and a little bit of sweet nonsense talks here and there

Op,with all due respect,you no get sense at all .
Na banny wahala suppose be your least Problem right now,base on say na now you wor really know how life for inside labor market be like

Sew your coat according to your cloth.......

i stopped reading at "i'm 24, she's 24"

ori yin o jor pe

Op be truthfull for once

Mummy don talk say u cant marry Igbo girl, that your wife must be yoruba, i lie?

Hmmmmm... Orishirishi

Que sera sera.

Just move on. You don't know if you will still unite with her in the future.

you are pitying her while in reality, she is pitying you.

with time, you will understand this