All seems not to be well with this relationship. Are u afraid of asking her why she took her actions. Please as her and not discuss her

Frankly, what are you asking for dude? Advise on how to approach the situation? Damage control? An excuse/support from boys to rationalize your next course of action? Don't just sit on the sidelines & read replies. Let us know!

My take: your girl lacks tact (may extend to lack of wisdom too). She might have felt it proper to not hide stuff from you (technically right) including the wort between her & the suspicious ex. But he's the ex & had his shot; why relive the good times?

For you: did you have to sit there & face the torture of them reliving it? This thing about being a man is knowing when to cut crap short. Your airing feelings here shows you're agrieved. Put a stop to it. Or take a walk next time.

Capper: the lesson isn't just for the guys. Learn from it ladies.

677ano:

step up you game man

tell him

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Ekpoma1:

Come on lets be realistic here. The gal is just your GF n nt your wife. She can still be your ex 2moro. That does nt mean u guyz cant still be best of frndz. 2 me shay, is nthing 2 loose sleep abt. I would only be bothered if only we had weded.

exactly, 

@poster you didnt say who was with you.

Thats disrespecting, just talk senses into her head or dump her lazy ass

Dude, you are obviously sitting in a 'one chance' bus. Do yourself a favour and get down fast before you reach Benin by-pass. I'll advice you form chatting-up an ex(if you have one) for so long a time, then see her reaction. If she acts normal it means you are the stranger in her life.
Be wise man. Shine ya eye.

she's not the slut is your friend

You sat through the so-called insult for a whole hour then got on NL to seek a solution? How old are you?

OP was it a phone bone she was having with her ex?
You know u would really be a sucker if she was phone shagging her ex with u looking on like a mugu

please, answer d question, how old r u? u seem 2 b proud 2 b a btich's btich

naijangel7:

You sat through the so-called insult for a whole hour then got on NL to seek a solution? How old are you?

She was with me and she chatted with her ex for 1 hour!

Are you the boyfriend, fiance', what? Perhaps you're taking the relationship more seriously than

she. But regardless, even if you were just one of her girlfriends it's rude to have company over

and leave them unattended for 1 hour while you talk on the telephone.

hahhaha, funny enough i have been in a kinda similar situation lol, and i really didnt give a hug about the rtship, so when he was chatn with a supposed friend for more than a min, i quickly called my ex and we spoke for a looooooooooooooooooooooooong while, and i even told him i missed him so much i might just visit home to see him , hahahhaha, silly i kno

190:


Says the DELICIOUS skinned turkey

Ignorance

Well, may be for a change.

@OP

You lucky you were there, she would have went home with him/if hasn't already done that.

Something in me tells me u have been toasting dis girl 4 long and now she had an issue with her 'ex b/f' and 'broke up' and she now agreed to date u to get behind d experience with her 'ex b/f' but it seems they are now back. I suggest u have a talk to know her mind, u might have to 4get her at d end, cos it seems she isnt digging u dat much. Sorry anyway.

There is lack of respect in the relationship. Time to wear the pants

who bought ha the recharge card?

I hope its not you!

imagine if they were alrdy marid??

I stil insist! Sum married women should change phone numbers.

She just doesn't see that guy as a real man, cos she she does; haba she go respect d guy