J2381:
I have no idea marrying a woman is now a liability. Like why should a man be footing the bill of his wife, especially if she's not an invalid or mentally challenged?

xynerise:
One opinion among 7 billion people is absolutely useless

Savedday:
9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

Shaolin77:
Nigerian girls are useless, all of them

J2381:
quotes like that are usually said by people who are trying to console themselves. Most times they still fail at it.

What now baffles me is the entitled mentality some of the posters have. Like what toks2008 posted. Imagine the narrow mindedness. "Any married woman who pays her own bill is single". Like her husband is suppose to do everything for her, even pay for her undies and menstrual pad.

Well opinion like this are usually spread by people who have little or nothing to offer in relationships. It's almost same with a whatsapp status I read from one of my female contacts who posted "if I ask you for data and you say no or you post me, I'll block you from viewing my whatsapp status sharp sharp".

Men I really laughed when I read it. I'm waiting patiently for her to ask me for data.

Tiredofbroke:
Please help me only if you make your money online.

I've bought so many expensive online courses that made me go broke...
Please who can help me out to make money online.
I'm getting depressed but......
I don't wanna give up on me...
I still wanna chase my dream's.
I don't want to believe I'm cursed.

I need help Fam! I need help. I'm going nuts.............

mariahAngel:


It is not a must that a man should marry.
As a man, if you cannot take care of a wife (how much more children), DO NOT MARRY!
You’re not entitled to a wife simply because you’re a man. No be by force to marry.
Raising descendants with the help of a woman is not cheap, neither is it free. Not every man can afford to.

EndRape2:
Any man that can not take care of his wife is very useless, very very useless , the painful part is that most of this useless men small money that they are supposed to use and take care of their kids, they will use it to carry side chic

Very useless people .
If it's all about money then I can't see the reason why not to hv a side chic. Afterall yall ar just something to afford.



.quote author=TUANKU post=106247281]Any married woman with such mentality na okpo.

EndRape2:
Any man that can not take care of his wife is very useless, very very useless , the painful part is that most of this useless men small money that they are supposed to use and take care of their kids, they will use it to carry side chic

Very useless people

mariahAngel:

It is not a must that a man should marry.
As a man, if you cannot take care of a wife (how much more children), DO NOT MARRY!
You’re not entitled to a wife simply because you’re a man. No be by force to marry.
Raising descendants with the help of a woman is not cheap, neither is it free. Not every man can afford to.

mariahAngel:

There is nothing wrong if a husband buys his wife undies and menstrual pads.

If you were serious, you wouldn’t wait “patiently” for her to ask you for data, YOU’D SIMPLY BLOCK HER!

michael1508:

I ll still blame you for that,how can you tell me you still have such shallow people on your contact list

J2381:
quotes like that are usually said by people who are trying to console themselves. Most times they still fail at it.

What now baffles me is the entitled mentality some of the posters have. Like what toks2008 posted. Imagine the narrow mindedness. "Any married woman who pays her own bill is single". Like her husband is suppose to do everything for her, even pay for her undies and menstrual pad.

Well opinion like this are usually spread by people who have little or nothing to offer in relationships. It's almost same with a whatsapp status I read from one of my female contacts who posted "if I ask you for data and you say no or you post me, I'll block you from viewing my whatsapp status sharp sharp".

Men I really laughed when I read it. I'm waiting patiently for her to ask me for data.

Toks2008:

You need to see the way I lashed out at her but at the end she still held on to her stance.

Toks2008:
Saw this title on the WhatsApp status of a lady and that quote is from a TikTok video made by one white guy.

In my opinion, by extension, this simply means any man who can't foot the bills of his wife should just consider himself single.

Let me throw it open to Nairalanders...

What is your take on this?

Tokskob2008:
Single to the extent that she can sleep around right? Well that's good too whatever makes her happy.

Heterodox:



Hi

Toks2008:
Saw this title on the WhatsApp status of a lady and that quote is from a TikTok video made by one white guy.

In my opinion, by extension, this simply means any man who can't foot the bills of his wife should just consider himself single.

Let me throw it open to Nairalanders...

What is your take on this?

Sterope:
In this capitalist world, the roles aren't cut and dried anymore. Back then, in ile Yoruba, women worked and still took care of the home. The roles are clearer with the rich. I once read an excerpt (it was on twitter) of a book and they mentioned that one of the reasons the slavers took your women was also because you worked them like men . Think about that for a second. A child on her back and farm produce on her head after tilling the farm with you. The interesting part is you will still see this form of madness in Nigeria.

A lot of married Nigerian women have always paid their own bills. We know them. The ones working in schools, banks, ministries, even market women. The complete separation of roles where the man is 100% responsbile for bills is a foreign concept. The foreigners have even left that behind a very long time ago. Your average Nigerian man is too poor to foot his bill and his wife's bills.

That house chores you don't want to do, you will do it by force

JESHAL:


That's why the foreigners are divorcing at 50% rate, we now have reversing of gender roles there, Their men are becoming Faggotss because their women are devoid of feminity, no man wants headache, you sweep and cook, nurture,give me sex, we want peace not trouble

Sterope:
You can't be more wrong even if you tried harder. Divorce rates are high because women can't be bothered to keep the peace or pretend to. For some, they earn enough to not stay in a depressive relationship . I am not condoning the former.

J2381:
Believe me, every ones in a while such people can come in handy, trust me on this. Lol.

Shaolin77:
Nigerian girls are useless, all of them