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Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by teemac01(m): 12:42pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
you are looking for validation that from where you dont need it... 1 Like |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by naija1stnigar(m): 12:45pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
paulavon:they are telling you their own standard for life you will only give in to them or take them serious if you don't have a standard for your own life, none of those values they mentioned can take a man higher than good virtues and hard work. 1 Like |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by SimplePlan34: 12:48pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Yes o in today's world u are considered abnormal. I am over 30 and I am not married don't bring women home although I play away match don't drink don't smoke just by myself and the whole area knows me as wired. An incident occurred in my compound where a married man sexually abused a little girl. Men if u see how ppl were expecting it to be me ehh I am just amazed. I just block my ear from side talk. Most ppl don't believe I am Yoruba cos I have not gotten married. They don't see economic hardship as an excuse. |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by Meedon: 12:54pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
This are the kinds of words that pushed me to do things against my will. Mhen, humans are wicked. You can't please them. One is even on my neck, pressuring me to womanize. 1 Like |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by Solatium(m): 12:55pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
paulavon: Don't let them mess you up, i have never tasted Alcohol all my life. I have never smoked a stick of cigarettes for once in my life. i don't womanize,but if i see chance i dey Bleep other babes that catches my fancy apart from my wife,you are normal, nothing is wrong with you,as a matter of fact those who are speaking to you pray the overcome their own addiction just stay in your lane 2 Likes |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by Candycrushy(f): 12:58pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
chatinent: My dear you’re so normal. Do things that makes u comfortable and happy I’m a female, i dont too crave money as well and i dont care if some unnecessary people see it as being weird 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by paulavon: 1:03pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Good to know that I am not alone in this. TooMuchStuff: 1 Like |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by chatinent: 1:03pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Candycrushy: Gbamsolutely. 1 Like |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by paulavon: 1:07pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
I use my time to study, work, listen to educative programs on TV and radio, watch soccer and take care of my family. SeriouslySense: 1 Like |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by Lugianostar(m): 1:07pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
You are termed but pretending @ the longrun? |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by paulavon: 1:13pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
I am a married man with kids which they are aware of. I can never be gay. I appreciate beautiful women but I have self control. Celebrityblog: 1 Like |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by paulavon: 1:15pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
I am a Christian but not the churchy type. As a Catholic I attend mass every Sunday and I do my best to live upright emmyileri: |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by AquilasDei: 1:20pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
paulavon:That alone wouldn't get you to heaven |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by SeriouslySense(m): 1:21pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
You have a very functional and normal Life, which I may add, has further potentials and it seems you know it. And you are lucky, in the sense that, you don't have urges that make you deviate from a stable schedule. Some people like more risks, their brains are wired differently, due to genetics, and early childhood, they are preoccupied with some, should i say addictions, like looking for hookups, desire to be drunk, or drugs. Those activities put one at risk and danger. For example. 1) Psychopaths need the thrills, they are easily bored, and want something dangerous. 2) Some just want to have so much fun, without control. 3) Some love adventure, want to keep exploring without it they become restless. You are lucky in the sense that, 1) You don't smoke, which is healthy for the lungs. 2) You are more at home, which is good for your family. 3) You listen to educative programmes, which means, you are adding wisdom to yourself and will keep growing wise. 4)You study, which means you are growing and you will grow, where you study. 5) You take care of your family, which means, you are bringing up a responsible generation ahead and possibly will have a significant impact on your family. 6) You watch soccer, you need relaxation, you need your time, you need to let go of all responsibility and just pause, forget, so you can come back stronger, so yes, you have made time for relaxation I believe. So their opinions are really not adding any value here unless they suggested something that will bring more harmony to you. paulavon: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by paulavon: 1:23pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
We all need money and I hustle to make mine. When I said I don't crave for it; it's not something I can betray a friend for, lie or steal just to make it. babtoundey: 2 Likes |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by paulavon: 1:26pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
I respect knowledge and intelligence more than money. A fool with money will not go far in life. Fatalveli: |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by paulavon: 1:31pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
I don't judge anyone or look at anyone as bad. My best friend doesn't drink alcohol at all or smoke but he womanizes. I have another close friend who likes to drink and womanise but he doesn't smoke. When we go out he will mock me for drinking only one bottle and call me a woman. I won't even mind him. Falconx47: 1 Like |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by Klass99(f): 1:32pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
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Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by trevorhorace(m): 1:34pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
paulavon: Bro you are on the right track. Don't get influenced by peer pressure. Be happy that your kind is rare. The society and world we live in is already dead in immorality and anomalies. So seeing someone who is still normal would normally spark outrage in the multitudes of abnormal people. You are living a clean healthy life and that's class. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by havigold(f): 1:36pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
paulavon: I am PROUD to say my SPOUSE falls into this HIGH PROFILE and healthy habits as you ... Not a crazy football enthusiast but watches it when necessary And to crown it all his CLOSE FRIENDS are A BOTTLE of GROUND NUTS with BLUES and REGGAE MUSIC.. Health , relationship, financial and business , family life we have been wonderful without the stories of " they said , she said stories 1 Like |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by dalass(f): 1:39pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
paulavon: Its so sad that if one is into different vices, you're normal but termed abnormal when you decide to be different and free from those things.. I've been called "different"," strange" etc. I don't give a flying fvck 1 Like |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by femi4: 1:44pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
paulavon:They are wrong. It's not written anywhere that a man must do one of those three. It's just a myth that's become a cliche I don't do the three also but I crave for money. You need money to achieve your goals in life. You definitely have problem there 1 Like |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by paulavon: 1:51pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Nice one Solatium: |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by 24brains(m): 1:52pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
bukatyne:it reminds me of wayward DJs, wayward HYPMEN, wayward BALLERs, wayward AZAMEN. them no dey hear word, they are wayward and proud. |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by Sagefromtheeast: 1:54pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Only if he's gay |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by Nobody: 1:56pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
paulavon:I don't know what any alcoholic brand taste like and neither was I womaniser before I married. It's all about choices and concepts, and I was a very normal person. People tend to make you feel unworthy if you are not like them. I made sure that any woman that drinks has nothing to do with me. |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by 24brains(m): 1:58pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Candycrushy:make we hook up abeg. Your type is rare to find. I'm financially stable and capable to take care of you and our future kids. DM me lets host a date. |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by Cindy222(f): 2:05pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
chatinent: Awwwn ..... I am so proud of you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by paulavon: 2:06pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Your message made a lot of sense. It is difficult for me to understand from the perspective of someone who does things that puts him at risks. I don't like night life,I like to do things during the day. I drink only one bottle of beer so that I can have control over my speech and actions. I can never be restless, I can stay indoor morning till night as long as there is light and my phone is up. I have a son who can't stay in one place for long, he likes taking risks even if he gets beaten for it.Your message just made me to accept him for who he is. SeriouslySense: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by paulavon: 2:09pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Thanks for the nice message trevorhorace: 1 Like |
Re: Can A Matured Person Who Doesn't Indulge In Social Vices Be Termed Abnormal? by paulavon: 2:11pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
You are a good man..respect NetValueFX: 2 Likes |
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