slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Their Entitlement mentality is disgusting

True talk bro... It's very annoying.
I'm not saying that it's wrong to spend on a woman but don't feel as if I owe you anything simply because I asked you out.

Ever since she got the small money he sent her, she has stopped calling until she gets broke again.
This is the reason why most naija guys that travel out of the country hardly ever come back to marry naija women but always end up marrying foreign women.

femi4:
Buy you won't help your fellow guy. Ordinary thank you sms, you no see after 3days. If na guy you give that money, he ll send text messages and call you to appreciate

God punish me if I don't give my guys money.

The highest money I have ever given to someone in my life was to my guy.

Kenoxman:
True! Guys are more appreciative of any financial help rendered to them. But ladies? They only appreciate something bigger. I guess cos they have many potential helpers compared to guys. so they often tend to compare. Na so I sent #200 recharge card to one babe,(I do send her card occasionally) though she appreciated but she called it a ''token''. Omo! my hard-earned money a token? Anyway, I stopped sending her card from that day. I now have a rule- if you as a lady is not related to me, any financial help from me will be half of what I intended giving. Say, if I intended giving 1k, na 500h you go get las las. So if you come mess up in future (they almost, always do) e no go pain me.

My G
Omo I dey reason this ur philosophy o, e no bad at all.

yuping:
Nothing Nigeria girls go tell me now one naira I no go drop. If you cannot solve your little problems how are you going to solve big challenges. And I'm not saying that you can do it alone, ones in a while you will need people help, but if the majority of the girls we have here in Nigeria always complain I'm hungry, I don't have airtime, no transport if girls themselves cannot help each other why should we bail them out.

. Don't mind those scammers.....there is a reason why they always claim to prefer having male friends to women.....by the time they bill 20 guys,5 must pay....it's left for guys to start thinking with their brains

Rickmann:



My G
Omo I dey reason this ur philosophy o, e no bad at all.

nothing to reason there mate,simply dont give them shit,then you'll see their ego inflate like a blowfish

Then leave the naija ladies alone na...

U want show us say u by tv 200k

It is more rewarding to help a man.... Men don't forget

Guys should learn to help their fellow men, stop throwing money all about on ladies who are only interested in what you got.

For instance, money that should be used to develop good roads, build houses for the poor, health care etc our politicians throw this money on female Celebrities and slay queens!!! Like this is just extremely annoying! Why can’t you guys think for once

Lescott7:
I experienced something like this in my last relationship. The girl only call me when she needs something from me or when she knows it's getting close to month end. I confronted her several times about that act, she said it's her own style that she doesn't call or chat people first. I had to end the relationship with her last month. I can't imagine someone I call a girlfriend calling me when she only needs money from me.
In all, I made a big mistake, I should just have just Bleep zoned when I discovered that act about her instead of seeing her as someone I can spend the rest of my life with.

Lolz. Bros, you fall our hand o. Haha? You had such a golden opportunity right in front of you and you lost it. I used to have one parole like that, she only remembers me whenever she's broke. The moment I realized her game plan, I added her to the f*ck list. I dey even dey f*ck her on credit sometimes self. No be only her sense dem take build third mainland bridge.

Meek127:
nothing to reason there mate,simply dont give them shit,then you'll see their ego inflate like a blowfish

That 3K for do you better to drink beer, chop suya then kpensh olosho. Anyway, all man know as him go spend money.

ravensckar:
Lolz. Bros, you fall our hand o. Haha? You had such a golden opportunity right in front of you and you lost it. I used to have one parole like that, she only remembers me whenever she's broke. The moment I realized her game plan, I added her to the f*ck list. I dey even dey f*ck her on credit sometimes self. No be only her sense dem take build third mainland bridge.

Lol. I know say I really Bleep up.

suffering:
That 3K for do you better to drink beer, chop suya then kpensh olosho. Anyway, all man know as him go spend money.

I swear

suffering:
That 3K for do you better to drink beer, chop suya then kpensh olosho. Anyway, all man know as him go spend money.

I swear..

femi4:
Buy you won't help your fellow guy. Ordinary thank you sms, you no see after 3days. If na guy you give that money, he ll send text messages and call you to appreciate

Men simpism started from Adam.

Carchoice:


Why do you guys always think guys don’t help their fellow guys? It’s shallow thinking.


Should people come here to talk about how they help their fellow guys before you believe they do?

Many guys that i have known rarely help their fellow guys but will speedily help girls they barely know well just to impress her.

LagosInter:
Tired of talking to naija girls.

They are only interested in talking about their issues-- issues that only money can solve.

No meaningful discussions. Nothing. They will always talk about issues indirectly from hair to data to food


I have an acquaintance, tall ,dark and works in Ogba Ikeja as a sales rep for Tecno phones. I haven't asked her out or anything, she should be around 30 years.
I asked why she hadn't been to work one morning, she said no transport. She indirectly hinted she hadn't eaten too. That the person she called to send her some money had not responded.


I pitied her and asked her to come wait for me at the bus stop by 9 am at Zenith bank ATM at 7 and 8 Ajao Estate Lagos mainland, because I was going out as well.


We met there and gisted a bit and she was complaining about low salary from workplace .I gave her 3k, it was folded.

I intentionally did this to test her sincerity and sense of responsibility (because same morning I bought 43 inches TV for over 200k at Founi LG show room Mushin Lagos.
I was making inquiries for it on this thread :https://www.nairaland.com/6755501/samsung-lg-sony-television-please so I had money


She thanked me and bade goodbye.

She hasn't chatted me since then.

I called her twice after like 4 days, she didn't pick. I haven't bothered chatting or calling since then.


Maybe she was expecting to get 50k from me but only counted the folded notes and saw 3k. Lol.

Lol Oga even with N50 to a 9ja girl wey go soon turn evening newspaper nah waste of money. Except you no work for your money. Better stop giving them anything

Learn to sympathize and post them till dem tire

femi4:
Prove me wrong

Are you minding your fellows?

Men don't help each other.

It's a lie.

Ehn, oya, prove it wrong na.

Deflecting stories.

They'll disagree with you just for the sake of it. Lmaoo. They got no stories to tell. Nada. I said it.

Xilsbridalhouse:
Guys should learn to help their fellow men, stop throwing money all about on ladies who are only interested in what you got.

For instance, money that should be used to develop good roads, build houses for the poor, health care etc our politicians throw this money on female Celebrities and slay queens!!! Like this is just extremely annoying! Why can’t you guys think for once

They should not think. They shouldn't oh.

The Association of Prosperity Feminists Nigeria (PFN) are there to be defunding their members, one phallus at a time.

Aluta!

Magnoliaa:


They should not think. They shouldn't oh.

The Association of Prosperity Feminists Nigeria (PFN) are there to be defunding their members, one phallus at a time.

Aluta!

The rich ones can even go ahead and waste their money, dem go hear am soon! But you see those politicians ehnnn naa their own dey vex me pass!!!

My own advise be say make we dey help our fellow guys no be to dey waste money for ungrateful liabilities

Adejo1:
My own advise be say make we dey help our fellow guys no be to dey waste money for ungrateful liabilities

Why the assumption that guys don't help guys?