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I Need Help On This Relationship Issues Please. by Kenog4real(m): 4:26pm On Oct 03, 2021
Hello people, I have some concerns about my relationship. The thing is I'm the type that don't get angry easily, I don't complain until there are re-occurence, I hardly accepts things the way they are easily because of the way I perceived things should be (personal opinion). I don't mind if I don't get a birthday gift or message from my partner and also I hardly wish people happy birthday. The word I LOVE YOU doesn't move me like that because I believe the word has been used to deceive alot of people. Although I use it once in a while just to show affection and all but I still believe love is from within. When I give out a gift, I don't care whether the person use it or not because I have the feeling I've fulfilled my heart desires and when I receive gift, I just don't want the giver to disturb me about the gift. The last one is posting of pictures on social media. I post funny things once in a blue moon but my own personal pictures i can go 2 months without showing my face because it's not just my thing. I have the belief that showcasing one's self on social media should be for commercial purposes which is mainly for the populars.

My main issue now is that all these listed points are affecting my relationship as my partner takes all of the things serious as they are part of what makes her happy.
I've been trying to adjust but it seems so hard for me.
Please any advice.
Re: I Need Help On This Relationship Issues Please. by yuping(m): 4:51pm On Oct 03, 2021
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Re: I Need Help On This Relationship Issues Please. by Iamagoodgirll(f): 4:52pm On Oct 03, 2021
Op don't found it difficult to use the words "I love you" if you really do because its expected though not everyday. The truth is that Some girls do see posting their picture as love but it's not

I think if you both are transparent and have common understanding in the relationship all these won't be an issue, please be calm and talk to her about it. Its part of your character and she have to know that and adapt to it that's if it's not your cheating strategy, give her the reason to believe you She'll adjust.

personally if I'm in a relationship with anyone I keep it to myself, I keep anything I value private.
Re: I Need Help On This Relationship Issues Please. by Kenog4real(m): 5:11pm On Oct 03, 2021
Iamagoodgirll:
Op don't found it difficult to use the words "I love you" if you really do because its expected though not everyday. The truth is that Some girls do see posting their picture as love but it's not

I think if you both are transparent and have common understanding in the relationship all these won't be an issue, please be calm and talk to her about it. Its part of your character and she have to know that and adapt to it that's if it's not your cheating strategy, give her the reason to believe you She'll adjust.

personally if I'm in a relationship with anyone I keep it to myself, I keep anything I value private.



Thanks. I don't cheat and I don't plan to. I do post her pictures once in awhile but I get pissed when there is a complaint about me not posting her pictures.
Re: I Need Help On This Relationship Issues Please. by Bornsinner7: 5:13pm On Oct 03, 2021
Ok
Re: I Need Help On This Relationship Issues Please. by helinues: 5:17pm On Oct 03, 2021
Are those things making you happy yourself?
Re: I Need Help On This Relationship Issues Please. by Iamagoodgirll(f): 5:18pm On Oct 03, 2021
Kenog4real:




Thanks. I don't cheat and I don't plan to. I do post her pictures once in awhile but I get pissed when there is a complaint about me not posting her pictures.
talk to her
Re: I Need Help On This Relationship Issues Please. by Kenog4real(m): 5:31pm On Oct 03, 2021
helinues:
Are those things making you happy yourself?

Sure. That's my view to life. If I'm not happy about it, I wouldn't be staying away from doing them.
Re: I Need Help On This Relationship Issues Please. by helinues: 5:41pm On Oct 03, 2021
Kenog4real:


Sure. That's my view to life. If I'm not happy about it, I wouldn't be staying away from doing them.

And how about your girlfriend? Is she also happy about them?
Re: I Need Help On This Relationship Issues Please. by Kenog4real(m): 6:24pm On Oct 03, 2021
helinues:


And how about your girlfriend? Is she also happy about them?

No. That's why I said I need advise.
Re: I Need Help On This Relationship Issues Please. by helinues: 6:31pm On Oct 03, 2021
Kenog4real:


No. That's why I said I need advise.

Which of all those listed is your girlfriend not happy about abi na everything on the list?

It get why
Re: I Need Help On This Relationship Issues Please. by arthurwillia(m): 6:41pm On Oct 03, 2021
Well I’m someone like this too but I make up for it in other places so as not to be too weird or boring
Re: I Need Help On This Relationship Issues Please. by Epositive(m): 7:05pm On Oct 03, 2021
As for the pictures, you can post her after blocking the rest of your contacts. cheesy
A simple 2-line happy birthday wish shouldn't be a problem. Just copy and paste from online birthday wishes if you are too uninspired to smith words on your own.
Re: I Need Help On This Relationship Issues Please. by Isokoson1: 7:16am On Oct 04, 2021
Mehn this is beyond local man logistics

Op u no get problem at all.. That
One no be problem ,if she no like ur style make she park one side ... All those notice me girls self.. ...

Baba run from ur life...

Me I post no modafucka picture
Re: I Need Help On This Relationship Issues Please. by AfroKnight: 7:17am On Oct 04, 2021
angry
Omo I feel sorry for her cos you are not wrong and she is not wrong too. And this is something that she can’t really call offensive behaviour. It’s just your nature.

If she can’t deal with it, let her go.

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