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Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by ume1000: 6:15pm On Oct 05
helinues:
grin grin

Correct guy.

Do Nigeria politicians wear ear rings? Yet they are one of the most corrupt politicians on this crust .

Meanwhile, they are mostly accepted at Church and mosque anytime.

Hypocrisy in Religion
that's how homosexuality started continue your yansh go soon dey bring water
Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by Babastrong(m): 6:20pm On Oct 05
Some religion bigots will start using style blaming the nigga now for disrespecting their pastor.
let me stay here and be reading comments.
Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by Babastrong(m): 6:24pm On Oct 05
[quote author=adajoe555 post=106451641]


I just wonder, can he dress shabby to his work place, all these just to trend.[not everybody is employee, most of the people you see are employer even me, they are independent of authority.]
Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by Gfskw: 6:35pm On Oct 05
Really
Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by adajoe555: 7:14pm On Oct 05
SocialJustice:
Lol, ok.



lol
Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by adajoe555: 7:16pm On Oct 05
[quote author=Babastrong post=106477931][/quote]


Whatever, just do the right thing at the right time...
Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by Laeroy(f): 7:18pm On Oct 05
Kingosytex:
A Nigerian man identified as Opeyemi, has narrated how a Baptist church asked him to take off his earring while he was on a groomsman duty in the church.

According to Opeyemi, he left and waited for his friend who fully backed his decision at the wedding reception and there is a mixed reactions about his decision as many wondered why he could not just take them off for a few hours.

Opeyemi, narrating the encounter, he said that he was at a Baptist church in Lagos as one of the groomsmen for his friend’s wedding when he was asked to pull off his earrings, adding that he left the service immediately for the reception as he would never follow such dogma.

He, therefore, used the opportunity to lambaste Nigerians version of Christianity. When people told him that he ought to have honoured his friend and acted accordingly, he said his friend was in full support of him.



https://m.facebook.com/groups/974335622741759/permalink/1962791210562857/

The 38th law of power states that you think as you like but behave as others...

You should have just let sleeping dogs lie....
Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by adajoe555: 7:27pm On Oct 05
[quote author=Babastrong post=106477931][/quote

Do the right thing and save your self the drama. There are somethings one should apply common sense. If you are an employer and your worker dress anyhow to work won't you caution or even send him/ her home to change the dressing, every work place have rules, avoid the unnecessary drama and do the right thing.

The church i attend don't cover head, someone invited me to a church, I went not knowing they cover there head and it's a must, when the usher approached me and told me, and i wasn't with a head tie, I just used my handkerchief and covered my hair to avoid unnecessary drama, sometimes you just use your common sense.
Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by Babastrong(m): 7:41pm On Oct 05
[quote author=adajoe555 post=106479589][ you don't need this lengthy explanation.., we were born alone, we'll die alone, we live our lives the way we want. Not the way anyone wants. If someone actions do not cause anybody harms, i think we should not develope headache with that.]
Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by eguarojeona: 7:45pm On Oct 05
GOFRONT:
Hmmm.....@King

Truely, Religion is the opium of the people of africa..

Btw, what's with male folks wearing earrings even on both ears and then proceed to dreadlock their hair Hanty Anita??

Some even patronize wools and Lush just to keep the dreadlocks. ...

Well, I hope these guys wont run away when God would want to create Menstruation period as a part of their body system since they all want to act like Woman these days.. shocked shockedshocked
If someone bring up Nigerian history with pictures when Nigerian males wore ear rings and weaved their hairs now.When they say you people are not educated you become offended.Sigh.Its people like you who harass youths for tattoos.When out forefathers had tattoos.
Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by adajoe555: 7:50pm On Oct 05
[quote author=Babastrong post=106479973][/quote]


I just gave my opinion, bye
Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by Toni19: 8:00pm On Oct 05
I know the guy, he has mental problem.
Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by fof1: 8:00pm On Oct 05
Kingosytex:
A Nigerian man identified as Opeyemi, has narrated how a Baptist church asked him to take off his earring while he was on a groomsman duty in the church.

According to Opeyemi, he left and waited for his friend who fully backed his decision at the wedding reception and there is a mixed reactions about his decision as many wondered why he could not just take them off for a few hours.

Opeyemi, narrating the encounter, he said that he was at a Baptist church in Lagos as one of the groomsmen for his friend’s wedding when he was asked to pull off his earrings, adding that he left the service immediately for the reception as he would never follow such dogma.

He, therefore, used the opportunity to lambaste Nigerians version of Christianity. When people told him that he ought to have honoured his friend and acted accordingly, he said his friend was in full support of him.

https://m.facebook.com/groups/974335622741759/permalink/1962791210562857/

RUBBISH. The Reverend was very Right to have Sent him Out...as that is What the Church of God Stands for. He is also Right to have apologised afterwards as a Human being to his fellow Man-Woman. We Should Respect Ourselves and Other's Sensibilities too...Does he expect the Church to Lower her Standards because of a Misguided and Effeminate Fellow?

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Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by Babastrong(m): 8:01pm On Oct 05
[quote author=adajoe555 post=106480160]


I just gave my opinion, bye[as an inline reader, i can see that your action of covering your head in the situation rooted from fear, the fear of offending people. Not what you believe passe. Anyway, bye]
Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by Paulo3ree(m): 8:16pm On Oct 05
GOFRONT:
Hmmm.....@King

Truely, Religion is the opium of the people of africa..

Btw, what's with male folks wearing earrings even on both ears and then proceed to dreadlock their hair Hanty Anita??

Some even patronize wools and Lush just to keep the dreadlocks. ...

Well, I hope these guys wont run away when God would want to cheesy create Menstruation period cheesy as a part of their body system since they all want to act like Woman these days.. shocked shockedshocked

grin
Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by NairaMaster1(m): 8:32pm On Oct 05
GOFRONT:
Hmmm.....@King

Truely, Religion is the opium of the people of africa..

Btw, what's with male folks wearing earrings even on both ears and then proceed to dreadlock their hair Hanty Anita??

Some even patronize wools and Lush just to keep the dreadlocks. ...

Well, I hope these guys wont run away when God would want to create Menstruation period as a part of their body system since they all want to act like Woman these days.. shocked shockedshocked

The truth is that as civilized as America the president of that nation will never wear ear pendant. It's just disgusting.
Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by adajoe555: 8:43pm On Oct 05
[quote author=Babastrong post=106480442][/quote]

It wasn't rooted from fear, had to obey there doctrine...
Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by Babastrong(m): 9:30pm On Oct 05
[quote author=adajoe555 post=106481588]
It wasn't rooted from fear, had to obey there doctrine...[ Lol, ok dear.]
Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by rickleye: 9:41pm On Oct 05
GOFRONT:
Hmmm.....@King

Truely, Religion is the opium of the people of africa..

Btw, what's with male folks wearing earrings even on both ears and then proceed to dreadlock their hair Hanty Anita??

Some even patronize wools and Lush just to keep the dreadlocks. ...

Well, I hope these guys wont run away when God would want to create Menstruation period as a part of their body system since they all want to act like Woman these days.. shocked shockedshocked

What I dislike is that the dude wearing the earring does not know the origin . It started from the prison in America and It is meant to indicate that someone was effeminate and available.
Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by Fantazy(m): 9:54pm On Oct 05
Just be happy say God no be man!
Na heavy slaps for dey rain for your brain (head) as you dey waka comot for that church
Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by rolams(m): 9:59pm On Oct 05
Sense no dey ooo. This one is not Omo kaaro o jire atata!
Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by femoDee: 10:49pm On Oct 05
I don't know why we get angry at things in order to assist God. If my way of life is not in line with your belief, you don't need to get angry or rain abusive words on me, except you are a Christian version of Bokoharam!!

If you ask me, the guy is very respectful and matured. Stepping out of the church was a matured thing to have done. Imagine all the distraction that would have caused at that moment when the center of attraction was solely meant for the bride and the groom.

Why not assign someone to talk to the guy necodemusly without drawing any attention if such is against the church's doctrine.

Please let's mind the way we treat spiritual matters. The heart and soul of the guy is more important to God than your filthy anger which is not even helping God.

Someone is already getting angry with this my epistle... No Wahala......
You are simply filling you hell fire admission form by yourself.
sammy329:
undecided undecided undecided undecided
That's not the point, assuming you are in C and S church or Mosque won't you off your shoes.

The guy is just unruly that is all, I'm sure he will be regretting it, but the most childish thing he did is putting it on the internet.
Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by cosade(m): 12:09am On Oct 06
luluosas:
Shut that dirty mouth of yours


Proverbs 12:16
The [arrogant] fool’s anger is quickly known [because he lacks self-control and common sense], But a prudent man ignores an insult. (AMP)
Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by cosade(m): 12:25am On Oct 06
Ammishaddai:

Oga ,you've not traveled so don't sit here typing rubbish you have no knowledge of.

………… Finally, no matter what their (men) reason for wearing earrings, the practice will be considered by some as a statement, to others as cool, attractive, spiritual, or simply a component of your job; the practice is trendy and very common in today’s western culture. To those who feel that this is not really a cultural tradition that should be perpetuated, there is an anonymous quote that goes thus ‘respect people’s feelings. Even if it does not seem to mean anything to you, it could mean everything to them’.

https://www.fashionunlock.com/cultural-background-of-men-wearing-earrings/
Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by cosade(m): 12:31am On Oct 06
thebosstrevor1:


Stop watching too much Hollywood movies.

Go and wear earings in jp Morgan or have visible tattoos, lets see if you will still have youŕ job the next day.


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However, you shouldn’t stop being you; it merely means being mindful of the workplace too. That’s why subtle is much better in most cases.

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Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by princewarri1985: 1:47am On Oct 06
I've had my dreadlock for 10 years now and i also had piercing on one ear too, i was once invited to a church in warri here for a child dedication, and one of the ushers approached me and told me that the church does not allow men putting on earings in to the church, IF YOU SEE THE KIND BAD EYE I TAKE LOOK THE USHER EHN AND ALSO SQUEEZE MY FACE EHN, THEM NON TELL HER 2 TIMES BEFORE SHE DISAPPEAR AND FEAR NON LET HER EVEN LOOK MY DIRECTION AGAIN UNTILL SERVICE FINISH THAT

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