Iyaebe:
Don't dish out what you can't take, if the reverse was the case you will accuse him of cheating. Find a way to stop this bad habit permanently before he permanently drift away from you

Dclog:
Before I begin let me point this outfit. I am a mess, I can be a mess. I am very non challant about everything in this life, I hardly take anything serious, even me myself I don’t take me serious. Maybe that’s why I do t know how to wear makeup.
I am in to fashion, I sell clothes, so I go to the market most of the time almost daily to shop for prints. As soon as I am in the market, I forget everything my mind is fully in my hustle that I might not even hear my phone ring ( does this happen to anyone else) during this period if oga calls and I am don’t pick his call. Wahala big one. All means to explain to him that I get engrossed sometimes in shopping has proved abortive
So I sought for a solution and got a second phone that probably rings louder hoping this will help my people still nothing oo sometimes I might not even know the phone ringing is mine
Each time I pick up the phone and see all his missed calls i immediately hate myself. Cause he has always warned that I stay reacheable severally I have even lost count and warned that the next time it happens it’s over
In as much as I’m carefree, I care about this man a lot and I hate seeing him mad so I find myself treading with caution Checking my phones at intervals or sometimes even holding it so u would know if it rings.
But somehow he just thinks I am intentionally doing it, he finds it unbelievable that someone will have a phone and not pick calls. Many times than more the iPhone will just move to silence on its own or either by mistake
Now this has caused distance between us. This isn’t something I can fight cause it isn’t intentional but hubby has concluded it is.
Is there anyone that is this carefree with their phones how does your partner handle it, do they hate you for this reason or your guys just walk through it like it’s a norm

sisisioge:
I like simple solutions to issues. Just buy those blue tooth earpiece and wear one whenever you're in the market or the wristwatch. You cant miss those. Good luck.

Mercychen:


I'm sure OP is already so used to the calls that she has unconsciously formed an impression of it and prolly knows when its not an emergency call (Yes, she probably has gotten used to his calls, but she can't know for CERTAINTY which one is or isn't an emergency, thus she should pick the call). Too much of everything makes it lose relevance(no objection).

To your question. The woman obviously cant adjust because it a weakness she has and that she already admitted in her post that she can't help it even though she has tried severally to change (((so every weakness that she can't change after trying a couple of times should be accepted by the man, even though it's ruining their marriage?? Common on nahhhhhhh))) for the man who still has the will power (how're you sure he has the will power??) it will be a lot easier for him to do.

Favfables:



Sweetheart see eh...
There are cases where the man should make the adjustments and there are cases where the woman should...
In this case, it's the woman who has to adjust...

The man calls his wife (for whatever reason) and she doesn't pick up (cause she's busy), if this happens a few times, then the man shouldn't be making a fuss out of it, but it happening very frequently is a big cause for concern!!!

That act could be interpreted to mean lots of things, all of which are nasty and will stand as an impedement to the growth of her marriage (as already observed)...

Na small thing dey cause wahala o...

I think the best thing she should do here is to get a waist bag (the type used in NYSC) and a chinko phone with mega speakers, put it on vibration and never allow the bag to leave her waist at least for the period she's at the market ...

Mercychen:

Hmm... All these just to pick his calls? (((Nope, not just to pick a call, but to save her marriage)))
Some men just to trouble a woman's life. ;Dand bice versa

Anyways, if op can, let her try it and see how it goes.

sisisioge:
I like simple solutions to issues. Just buy those blue tooth earpiece and wear one whenever you're in the market or the wristwatch. You cant miss those. Good luck.

ImaIma1:


She won't hear it when she's engrossed with her shopping. She won't even know that it is her phone that is ringing in her ears.

sisisioge:


It finished then....nothing will work if she wouldnt have the presence of mind to hear the sudden noise in her hears or feel the vibration on her wrist. The guy should follow her to the market then so he can say whatever he wants to say to her directly to her face....hopefully, she wont be too engross to notice him in front of her

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