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Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by Nobody: 9:23pm On Oct 10, 2021

fvck:
So I met this lady and within a month I decided to tell her I'm going to see her Dad,and wants to settle with her, I said I was tired of the delays and search, she was all loving and nice, till one faithful afternoon she called to say she isn't in, cos she doesn't feel same way.

Me I jejely calm down and felt maybe she's playing a game not to look too cheap.

She even suggested we become friends...

Did I bring up the marriage matter too fast?

It only means one thing. You are just a means of passive income

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by DWJOBScom(m): 9:24pm On Oct 10, 2021

You are not wrong to have made the move
Don't let anyone say the less
Take the friendship offered and not she never had any attraction toward you
Move on till you find someone on the same page with you.
Try to read books on relationship pending when another lady that checks your box comes up

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Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by brandsoncharlie: 9:28pm On Oct 10, 2021

IceColdVeins:
Moral Lesson: Have Money before you propose.

Lmao, most women if you like get millions they don't care as far as they're not ready to settle down. That's why tiger woods girl friend and Co limited left their top usa millionaires boyfriends only to be jecking around.
Don't force it bro. Play along if u can.

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by DAMN99: 9:29pm On Oct 10, 2021

Na so una dey do go marry problem put for house. Mtchew

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by JordanMichael(m): 9:29pm On Oct 10, 2021

Belafonte:
You really wanted to marry a Nigerian woman after just one month of meeting her? Amazing

You better go do Thanksgiving for the second chance you've been given to not derail your destiny. Secondly go and visit your parents with serious gifts; their prayers are truly effective in your life.

Werey see yansh he say the girl dey loving.

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by Omoluabiii(m): 9:30pm On Oct 10, 2021

fvck:
So I met this lady and within a month I decided to tell her I'm going to see her Dad,and wants to settle with her, I said I was tired of the delays and search, she was all loving and nice, till one faithful afternoon she called to say she isn't in, cos she doesn't feel same way.

She told you that she didnt feel the same way you feel, and you re still putting your head?

fvck:

Me I jejely calm down and felt maybe she's playing a game not to look too cheap.

She may and may not

fvck:

She even suggested we become friends.

Confusion is what i see,
how old is she?

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by brandsoncharlie: 9:33pm On Oct 10, 2021

2kurupt:
Maybe you no too hold bar (No offence) or she feels that way. Most ladies are open to setting down with the man who is ready financially

. Lol.

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by Godbless3(m): 9:36pm On Oct 10, 2021

Demigod22:
Yes, you rushed everything, as if you are desperate to have her. Barely few months, you are talking of seeing her parents. If I ask you important questions about her now, you won't be able to answer and you want to marry her.

Forget this jare... I have seen people dated for months to years, and the spouse only found out about some certain things after the marraige.
I fit see a girl, study her afar but never spoken to her, get to know alot about her, the parent etc without dating. And if i am certain she is the babe, if i approach her and she give me the time and i was damn ready, i'll difinitely ask her hand for marraige and its up to her to slow it down and not show desperation.

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Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by emmyN(m): 10:05pm On Oct 10, 2021

Belafonte:
You really wanted to marry a Nigerian woman after just one month of meeting her? Amazing

You better go do Thanksgiving for the second chance you've been given to not derail your destiny. Secondly go and visit your parents with serious gifts; their prayers are truly effective in your life.

Werey see yansh he say the girl dey loving.

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by studentofTruth: 10:11pm On Oct 10, 2021

koyyes:

It's a major turn off. And by looking at your moniker,she must have figured you want to get married because you are sex starved.

I pray she breaks up with you so you can re-evaluate your priorities and find what to do with yourself. You are not ready.

Sometimes, I read these words but don't get the meaning behind it: what does sex-starved mean?

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Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by frozen70(f): 10:15pm On Oct 10, 2021

fvck:
So I met this lady and within a month I decided to tell her I'm going to see her Dad,and wants to settle with her, I said I was tired of the delays and search, she was all loving and nice, till one faithful afternoon she called to say she isn't in, cos she doesn't feel same way.

Me I jejely calm down and felt maybe she's playing a game not to look too cheap.

She even suggested we become friends...

Did I bring up the marriage matter too fast?

She needs to be be sure of what you want

She is trying to know if you want her fir sex or marriage

So many men have played women by telling them that they want to marry them, yet use that to sleep with them

So give her time and watch if it will lead to marriage or not

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by TinubuGoQuench(f): 10:20pm On Oct 10, 2021

fvck:
So I met this lady and within a month I decided to tell her I'm going to see her Dad,and wants to settle with her, I said I was tired of the delays and search, she was all loving and nice, till one faithful afternoon she called to say she isn't in, cos she doesn't feel same way.

Me I jejely calm down and felt maybe she's playing a game not to look too cheap.

She even suggested we become friends...

Did I bring up the marriage matter too fast?

NA THIS YOUR USERNAME WEY THE BABE SEE FOR NAIRALAND MAKE HER TO REJECT YOUR PROPOSAL

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Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by tikco(m): 10:25pm On Oct 10, 2021

Everyone saying he's too fast..abeg if it takes him 1million years this lady will definitely turn him..she's got an option already. Guy man meuv abeg.

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by Cousin9999: 10:26pm On Oct 10, 2021

1 month?

So she's fine fine, right? lol grin

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by UncleKoboko: 10:33pm On Oct 10, 2021

fvck:
So I met this lady and within a month I decided to tell her I'm going to see her Dad,and wants to settle with her, I said I was tired of the delays and search, she was all loving and nice, till one faithful afternoon she called to say she isn't in, cos she doesn't feel same way.

Me I jejely calm down and felt maybe she's playing a game not to look too cheap.

She even suggested we become friends...

Did I bring up the marriage matter too fast?

If her body count is more than 2, then she's a WHORÈ!

Never propose to a WHORÈ.

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by UncleKoboko: 10:35pm On Oct 10, 2021

SmellySperm:
I stopped reading at where you said you wanted to marry her within just a month

You're a jonzing guy

His head must be fvck ed

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by UncleKoboko: 10:35pm On Oct 10, 2021

SmellySperm:
I stopped reading at where you said you wanted to marry her within just a month

You're a jonzing guy

His head must be fvck ed up

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by E2000: 10:38pm On Oct 10, 2021

fvck:
So I met this lady and within a month I decided to tell her I'm going to see her Dad,and wants to settle with her, I said I was tired of the delays and search, she was all loving and nice, till one faithful afternoon she called to say she isn't in, cos she doesn't feel same way.

Me I jejely calm down and felt maybe she's playing a game not to look too cheap.

She even suggested we become friends...

Did I bring up the marriage matter too fast?

lol Hungry came for you small or large cash and not else and you want to tie her down once grin

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by Dpundict: 10:39pm On Oct 10, 2021

This mistake is what almost made me a father to another man's baby which would have been born this year and who knows if I would not have regretted it.

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Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by Olunmercy56(f): 11:02pm On Oct 10, 2021

enemyofprogress:
It would end in premium tears like that of Olunmercy56

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by chaloskyx: 11:04pm On Oct 10, 2021

yes you were to fast the lady is not ready to settle down she wants to enjoy life so be her bf and chop her steady while you look for another who is ready to settle down no time to waste

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by Valuc: 12:12am On Oct 11, 2021

I just feel it's either der is somtin the lady said she will give out only wen married. Or der is high competition btw him and some persons that's making him want to quickly permanent the babe for himself by marrying her or the babe is somehow that he feels if he doesn't rush to marry her.. someone might snatch her.Alot has blinded this bros...

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by OdenKelechi(m): 12:18am On Oct 11, 2021

SmellySperm:
I stopped reading at where you said you wanted to marry her within just a month

You're a jonzing guy

But it's a jonzing world nau

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by MrNipplesLover(m): 12:34am On Oct 11, 2021

IceColdVeins:
Moral Lesson: Have Money before you propose.

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by rosalieene(f): 12:44am On Oct 11, 2021

How would we know that you're not clout chasing when your monika is FVCK?

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by Depressed101: 1:26am On Oct 11, 2021

fvck:
So I met this lady and within a month I decided to tell her I'm going to see her Dad,and wants to settle with her, I said I was tired of the delays and search, she was all loving and nice, till one faithful afternoon she called to say she isn't in, cos she doesn't feel same way.

Me I jejely calm down and felt maybe she's playing a game not to look too cheap.

She even suggested we become friends...

Did I bring up the marriage matter too fast?

what you should be asking is how are you going to give thanks giving for jumping this ship successfully

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by Qubrit1: 2:54am On Oct 11, 2021

Belafonte:
You really wanted to marry a Nigerian woman after just one month of meeting her? Amazing

You better go do Thanksgiving for the second chance you've been given to not derail your destiny. Secondly go and visit your parents with serious gifts; their prayers are truly effective in your life.

Werey see yansh he say the girl dey loving.

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by Joe4real1988(m): 4:05am On Oct 11, 2021

virginprincess:
You met someone just a month ago and you are already talking about marriage, if it was the other way round now, Nairaland men would have flooded this tread saying rubbish about Nigeria women and their urge for marriage, mtcheeeeeew.

You make it sound like a gender war. But u see guys here are not supporting such move na. Where in Delta are u from?

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by femi4: 5:06am On Oct 11, 2021

fvck:
So I met this lady and within a month I decided to tell her I'm going to see her Dad,and wants to settle with her, I said I was tired of the delays and search, she was all loving and nice, till one faithful afternoon she called to say she isn't in, cos she doesn't feel same way.

Me I jejely calm down and felt maybe she's playing a game not to look too cheap.

She even suggested we become friends...

Did I bring up the marriage matter too fast?

No, it's time you withdrawal to check if she feels the same way, if she doesn't come back for you, move on to the next girl. One sided love is not good in a relationship

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by Dcaliphate(m): 5:34am On Oct 11, 2021

SmellySperm:
I stopped reading at where you said you wanted to marry her within just a month

You're a jonzing guy

better jonzer o

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by cardoctor(m): 5:56am On Oct 11, 2021

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