Mary18656:
If you see someone who doesn't speak with their father, mother siblings, you will think they are bad people right?
This is exactly what I will do for my family. They completely made my life a complete hell, from my twenties to my late twenties, they messed it up. I didn't choose this life or work for this life. But they forced it on me
I feel like cursing them but I won't

My plan is to get married at 21, finish at 25, continue to grow.
But no, I'm 27, with nothing, but I'm doing nanny and children caregiver.

There's no single time I don't have a suitor who is ready for marriage but my mum is always against anything good that I want to do, and always supporting my sister when they treat me bad by wanting me to stay in their house and do nothing, not even going out. This is how I waste good amount of my life helping my sisters who were unfortunate to raise their children and all

I'm very depressed now, thanks to them. I wish I could die but I can't kill myself

cooooooks:
Legally, an adult can get married.

You do not need your family to get married.

You really become an adult when you take ownership of your life.

Mary18656:
If you see someone who doesn't speak with their father, mother siblings, you will think they are bad people right?
This is exactly what I will do for my family. They completely made my life a complete hell, from my twenties to my late twenties, they messed it up. I didn't choose this life or work for this life. But they forced it on me
I feel like cursing them but I won't

My plan is to get married at 21, finish at 25, continue to grow.
But no, I'm 27, with nothing, but I'm doing nanny and children caregiver.

There's no single time I don't have a suitor who is ready for marriage but my mum is always against anything good that I want to do, and always supporting my sister when they treat me bad by wanting me to stay in their house and do nothing, not even going out. This is how I waste good amount of my life helping my sisters who were unfortunate to raise their children and all

I'm very depressed now, thanks to them. I wish I could die but I can't kill myself

frozen70:


Don't allow depression eat you up

Get a friend and this time, if he wants to marry you, get pregnant for him and move on if your parents refuse his proposal, do t argue with them

Just follow him and remain loyal to him and his family
Thanks
Your parents feels that your other siblings are better off but they are not God, to decide who you will be

pansophist:
When people think about criminals, ritualists, enemies of progress, and all kinds of disgusting people, they always assume it to be the ''others'', but actually those people can be your parents, siblings, family relations, and more. I know many disgusting folks, and a few of them are family relations. Also, being an adult means that you do not let people lord over you. Normalize telling people to fork off, if they do not serve you anymore. If someone will in good conscience make your life a living hell, why stay there? and yes, that includes your parents.

Mary18656:
If you see someone who doesn't speak with their father, mother siblings, you will think they are bad people right?
This is exactly what I will do for my family. They completely made my life a complete hell, from my twenties to my late twenties, they messed it up. I didn't choose this life or work for this life. But they forced it on me
I feel like cursing them but I won't

My plan is to get married at 21, finish at 25, continue to grow.
But no, I'm 27, with nothing, but I'm doing nanny and children caregiver.

There's no single time I don't have a suitor who is ready for marriage but my mum is always against anything good that I want to do, and always supporting my sister when they treat me bad by wanting me to stay in their house and do nothing, not even going out. This is how I waste good amount of my life helping my sisters who were unfortunate to raise their children and all

I'm very depressed now, thanks to them. I wish I could die but I can't kill myself

Mary18656:
If you see someone who doesn't speak with their father, mother siblings, you will think they are bad people right?
This is exactly what I will do for my family. They completely made my life a complete hell, from my twenties to my late twenties, they messed it up. I didn't choose this life or work for this life. But they forced it on me
I feel like cursing them but I won't

My plan is to get married at 21, finish at 25, continue to grow.
But no, I'm 27, with nothing, but I'm doing nanny and children caregiver.

There's no single time I don't have a suitor who is ready for marriage but my mum is always against anything good that I want to do, and always supporting my sister when they treat me bad by wanting me to stay in their house and do nothing, not even going out. This is how I waste good amount of my life helping my sisters who were unfortunate to raise their children and all

I'm very depressed now, thanks to them. I wish I could die but I can't kill myself