Hi all,

I don't have any ill intent here and I'm not trying to be a selfish as*hole, I just need your help.

Background:

I'm a mid 20's male looking to build a stable relationship with someone which will hopefully lead to marriage and life.
Graduate, ,
Full time work,
Stable income,
Living overseas

I'm after a soul mate but fear that I am muddying the waters because I've been speaking to a number of girls at a time who I think would be great matches. I want to stick completely to one and have prayed about it. Hopefully, I can get some honest, neutral opinions here.

I know its little information, but I'll provide more as you ask questions.
Please advise me on who to outrightly block out and who to work towards.

Whatever you do, don't ever chose girl number 1 and 2

carry the one with the sweetest pusssssy..

1. Man needs respect.
2. Man needs an available woman.
3. Man needs to feel dominant (making more successes and stuff).
4. Above all, Man never lets off any chance to play Knight-in-shiny-armor.

Forget all you said there, you know as well as we do that you’re going for Girl Number 2; irrespective of what we tell you here

It all about Choosing your lesser demon

Thanks all. I know the decision is mine, but was hoping to get some honest, neutral opinions here.

BItt:
Whatever you do, don't ever chose girl number 1 and 2

Why is this? My sister thinks the same as well. Is it because there is a risk that they see me as a possible way out?