Evening Nairalanders.
Please ignore any errors. Thank you.
Ok, here we go.

I am a young guy, in my mid-twenties
So, I have not really been in a relationship before... I used really because I have loved someone before.. When I was 17yrs. I truly loved her but somehow it didn't work out.
PS: it didn't involve sex/romance it was love. And before her I never felt anything for any lady... Maybe crush, Yes but not serious things. In fact I hated the feministic carriage of ladies before I met her. I still talk with her though but the feeling has gone down a bit.... Bla bla... (Enough of that.)

What brought me here
I work in a hospital setting. So I met this girl. She was my patient. And I met her a couple of times and from there I picked interest in her.
PS: I was single but not searching.

But after seeing her I thought she had good character and godliness, so I decided to talk with her and see. I asked about her from a relative (distant) of hers who work in same hospital and he said I can try but she is conc. Christian type.
We started talking though she has traveled to a different state. I asked her out and she told she would think about it. And I kept asking her about it and she told me she wanted to tell me something and it's been more than a month and she "can't seem to the find time" to tell me what she want to tell me.
The problem is that most of the time she doesn't answer my call. Sometimes she calls back some other times she doesn't. She tells me she is busy or she missed my call.
On the phone she doesn't sound like I am disturbing her. I personally don't like disturbing someone but she hasn't said she doesn't want a relationship. Sincerely its frustrating me.
I decided to not call her for two weeks and that is after two unreplied missed calls. She didn't during those two weeks and when I finally called yesterday she told me she was keeping malice with me for not calling her.. I don't like stretching matters so I apologized and it ended there. She has not demanded for anything from me, though I sent her airtime yesterday and she clearly was grateful for it.

What do you guys think... Relationship experts pls come and advise me...
Is this normal shakara or something else. I don't really know what to think!
I wish she would tell me she is not interested or something. I don't have experience with this kind of thing.

PS; I told her am not seeking a relationship for sex or immorality.

Forgive my long Epistle. Thank you.

If this can be moved to front page I would appreciate.

Are you aware that you dealing with an underaged girl? See you, see prison o! She is not of age to give consent. Hope you are pedophile.

U r not serious walahi......who still d luv for this hard tym!

Nwodosis:
Are you aware that you dealing with an underaged girl? See you, see prison o! She is not of age to give consent. Hope you are pedophile.

Are you in Nigeria or the US? Read my post again and write a better contribution biko! Thank yiu

It is well.

From your post I could only deduced you are trying to pick up an underage girl, what exactly is Nigerian men obsession with underage kids?
Please look for your age mate and leave that innocent child alone!!!

Petyprincess:
From your post I could only deduced you are trying to pick up an underage girl, what exactly is Nigerian men obsession with underage kids?
Please look for your age mate and leave that innocent child alone!!!

Hmm. OK, thank you. I have good intentions though. I know you and Nwodosis are saying same thing because this days once relationship is mentioned the first thing that pops into our head is s*x. But thanks for your contribution anyways.

Yeah those two fellas up there were kinda right... except if the girl in question is immature.

Cinema4d:
Yeah those two fellas up there were kinda right... except if the girl in question is immature.

I don't understand your comment! Except she is immature?