I have heard people saying that every man has one special woman created for him to marry, while some argue that you can actually find a wife anywhere you find yourself as man. What's your view on this

Religiousity impressed it on brainless followers that their life becomes meaningless if they fail to prayerfully find one particular woman created and craftily tagged with their name tag. Out of the 9.5billion people worldwide, they have to painstakingly find who that man or woman is, else their life becomes miserable. Isn't that threat weird and alarming?
Of the many who believe this fallacy in Pentecostal churches such as deeperlife, redeem, mfm, etc, we are yet to confirm through an open survey that there aren't any issues in their marriages. Sure they still suffer thesame challenge all other marriage suffer speaking from an insider view. Just that hypocritically, they never admit but you can see for yourself by visiting their homes or interviewing their children.

This ideology, as legit as it appears comes with side effects such as late marriage, breeds simp-like men and worst of all breeds hypocrites ie suffering but smiling couples. Op, I know you are one of the victims of the ideology, I wrote this because I want to save you from the wrong belief.

Any woman you can control and has less than 2 body count, shares the same ideology as you and respects you, that is your wife. That's if your hormones pumps when you see her or hear her. The way Isaac testosterone and adrenaline was released the day he saw Rebecca in the Bible. That's how you know you have met your wife or what religious centers call will of God.

Your wife (will of God for you in marriage) isn't tied to "a specific person" but "a specific configuration" which any person who fits into it can be your spousal. Jettison doctrinal extremism and lead a meaningful life by taking charge of your destiny and marry what works for you not some hypocritic strangers

Nwachacho:
I have heard people saying that every man has one special woman created for him to marry, while some argue that you can actually find a wife anywhere you find yourself as man. What's your view on this

You can find a woman anywhere same way a woman can find a man anywhere.

Not a victim. Just to learn and let others learn as well

You can actually find a wife anywhere you find yourself as man.

Ruke1989:
Religiousity impressed it on brainless followers that their life becomes meaningless if they fail to prayerfully find one particular woman created and craftily tagged with their name tag. Out of the 9.5billion people worldwide, they have to painstakingly find who that man or woman is, else their life becomes miserable. Isn't that threat weird and alarming?
Of the many who believe this fallacy in Pentecostal churches such as deeperlife, redeem, mfm, etc, we are yet to confirm through an open survey that there aren't any issues in their marriages. Sure they still suffer thesame challenge all other marriage suffer speaking from an insider view. Just that hypocritically, they never admit but you can see for yourself by visiting their homes or interviewing their children.

This ideology, as legit as it appears comes with side effects such as late marriage, breeds simp-like men and worst of all breeds hypocrites ie suffering but smiling couples. Op, I know you are one of the victims of the ideology, I wrote this because I want to save you from the wrong belief.

Any woman you can control and has less than 2 body count, shares the same ideology as you and respects you, that is your wife. That's if your hormones pumps when you see her or hear her. The way Isaac testosterone and adrenaline was released the day he saw Rebecca in the Bible. That's how you know you have met your wife or what religious centers call will of God.

Your wife (will of God for you in marriage) isn't tied to "a specific person" but "a specific configuration" which any person who fits into it can be your spousal. Jettison doctrinal extremism and lead a meaningful life by taking charge of your destiny and marry what works for you not some hypocritic strangers

You are well read and learned too sir. We share the same ideology about religion and issues of life. Religion have done more harm than good to human logic.

God did not create any specific individual for you. You have your spec, anytime, anywhere you find her, that's your wife. Don't be gullible enough to swallow the creed religion is spreading, break out of religious ignorance and intellectual slavery.