ngoziwrites: I will make this short and simple. Recently I got an advice from an elder bro. He told me never to let a guy know that I am single because he would barely take me serious. He would lie and just want to take his own shots. He also said it's a good way to test if a guy is single and wants something serious.
So, he told me to tell anyone asking me out that I am in a very complicated relationship but I am looking to take things slow and I am open to starting something new soon but I shouldn't even focus on the part that I am looking to get into a relationship soon. He just said tell them you are in a complicated relationship.
He said the unserious ones would leave quickly. While those who may want something real would stick around.
So, guys, is this true?
If you truly want a girl and she tells you she is in a complicated relationship but you guys have this great chemistry and you can see that she is a woman of value, what will you do.
I met a guy recently, we been talking for a week and I plan to tell him I am in a complicated relationship to see if he keeps talking or backs out. For me, I freally want to take my share and u tell me that I won't even back off. Being in a complicated relationship is an added advantage for me. A bonus
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