Kevv420:


Where did you see the rape part in my post. Have tried to but I didn't succeed because she scratches me it was very painful so I slapped her very hard out of anger and I left the house for a few hours. I have apologised to her she forgave me because it has not happened before it was the devil and I regret my actions. I need is advice not insult

Kevv420:


We have been together for 3 years marriage is not a race . I personally think that I don't have to rush things because I have better plans and things to fulfil before getting married . First of all I want to grow my business, build my own 5 bedrooms house , and have a good amount of money on my account so I will be able to take care of her and our future kids. Yes what I did was wrong and I regret my actions hence I have apologised to her. She forgave me because it was the first time it had happened and if truly I was a bad partner she would have ran away the next day she left for work even when I asked her to leave she quietly ask me to give her more time that she will leave in 2 weeks if I was a rapist she would choose to be in the street than to stay with me but she is still here with me even taught we are not talking like before but I know she loves me so much and she just need some times to recover. Hopefully we will be happily again.

cococandy:
Tomorrow this idiot will be on nairaland making xtupid posts about virginity and body count. At the same time, the lot of you don’t even take no for an answer yet somehow you want women are have never had sex. Because how?
I wish your girlfriend had the impetus to arrest you for attempted rape and sexual assault.
Disgusting low grade animal

Emperor2020:

You de mind some guys way de talk say she don de see other guy...there is no how u work ur games well that gal no go drop fr u, women need attention,as long as this gal de see op on daily basis there is more much tendency fr op to TK advantage of building love nd rappo wit de gal fr her to de addicted... humans are attracted to attention,there is no way a gal is seen u daily,she will get fed of u,unless u no Sabi ur game,had it been na long distance relationship,I would say de gal de cheat well but op nv master de game Wella to mk DT gal de addicted to her,he is not try other exploring,all he tink is sex sex sex nd de gal don find am boring..mayb dis mumu no de romance na jst insert nd satisfy nd com out,that all I see in op

LilMissFavvy:
This is why it's not good to live with a boyfriend. You are not ready for marriage, so allow her go and find a better man. You don't have self control, you don't have good attitude, you beat and rape a woman. Just look for money and give her, let her rent a house, I guess the two weeks she mentioned is as a result of lack of finance. Tomorrow when your wickedness hunts you and you can't find another good woman, you will say that women are evil* . If she was a bad woman, she would have framed you up for rape, non*sense.

lifenija:
someone else is fuking her, u will soon know d guy

Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

Sterope:
Husbands rape their wives too. A rapist can be a husband, a fiance or a bf.

foreshore:
If you were married, you would have avoided this. Go and marry.

Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

Kobojunkie:
You ignored her complaints , and eventually took it upon yourself to rape her in order to satisfy yourself, and you are here to what again?

Seun, moderators, does Nairaland have IP tracker so we can track this RAPIST'S address/location make them catch am abeg...

Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I
had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

chatinent:


Nna m, me and these kinds of people no get bearing.

Everything is wrong with the OP.

He is just using the girl.

The stupid girl allowed a stupid guy use her too.

cococandy:
Tomorrow this idiot will be on nairaland making xtupid posts about virginity and body count. At the same time, the lot of you don’t even take no for an answer yet somehow you want women are have never had sex. Because how?
I wish your girlfriend had the impetus to arrest you for attempted rape and sexual assault.
Disgusting low grade animal

LilMissFavvy:
This is why it's not good to live with a boyfriend. You are not ready for marriage, so allow her go and find a better man. You don't have self control, you don't have good attitude, you beat and rape a woman. Just look for money and give her, let her rent a house, I guess the two weeks she mentioned is as a result of lack of finance. Tomorrow when your wickedness hunts you and you can't find another good woman, you will say that women are evil* . If she was a bad woman, she would have framed you up for rape, non*sense.

cococandy:
Tomorrow this idiot will be on nairaland making xtupid posts about virginity and body count. At the same time, the lot of you don’t even take no for an answer yet somehow you want women are have never had sex. Because how?
I wish your girlfriend had the impetus to arrest you for attempted rape and sexual assault.
Disgusting low grade animal

CYBERSOLDIERSre:
Observing how SIMPs are supporting the future is female crew.


Raping or attempting to rape someone is bad.


However we should crucify the op for saying the truth. I salute his courage to say the truth so he can be corrected and not be crucified.

@op, take corrections and ignore the insults. Though its obvious that if it were the future is females crew; they would have lied to cover up their deed.


Be it as it may, the mistake has been done.

Never you try to force any lady pls, it's not as if it can send you to jail in Nigeria because they can't prove it, but because it pays to be a gentleman and respect yourself.

You should also avoid manhandling a lady. Avoid it, it makes you a bully


Now the main thing,

You're angry for two reasons.
1. Because she feels she's seen other guys who are better financially.

2. She might be seeing other men and thereby have reasons to technically avoid you even though you still kept her in your house and feeding her.


The fact.s

She has seen other better guys.

She's having affairs outside.

Solutions.
Be honest to yourself.
Let her leave in peace and do it now. Not that two weeks. They supported her to deny you sex, that's good but they should also be fair to you that you have the right to eject her even if you decide this night. Its your decision as she decided her's too.


Both of you must part in peace and let her live with whoever she pleases, its not your business because she's not your wife.


Please endure the pain of whatever expenses you done on her because even prostitutes are paid after service. Take it that you rewarded her for the sex she gave you before.


Look for a new babe but this time be very careful never to get one who'll be like your ex.

Don't date a girl solely for sex but for companionship. Let there be mutual respect.

Finally, be sorber, ask her for forgiveness, forgive her too and move on with your life, try to work smart and be stupendously wealthy.

Change your character and become a better gentleman.

cococandy:
Tomorrow this idiot will be on nairaland making xtupid posts about virginity and body count. At the same time, the lot of you don’t even take no for an answer yet somehow you want women are have never had sex. Because how?
I wish your girlfriend had the impetus to arrest you for attempted rape and sexual assault.
Disgusting low grade animal