Over the years, quite a number of women have asked me questions along the lines of---

"Does my man truly loves me or he's only playing games"

Or

"How can I know if a man only wants sex"

Or

"How can I know if a man has a long term plans for me or he's only deceiving me"

Or

"How can I know... bla bla bla bla bla....'

Whatever. They are all similar questions.

If you're a lady looking for answer to these kinda questions, keep reading.

My answers to this question are based on my personal experiences over the past years. Enjoy!!!


There are many men who pretends to really love a woman but in reality he just wants to get in between her legs. Many men do that a lot: they promise ladies marriage as a tactics to get sex from them. It's an old trick.

Why does the tactics works?

Many single women attached security and certainty to marriage--probably because the clock is ticking and their parents keep drawing their attention to the fact that they are getting older, or maybe all the women they know are getting married and flaunting it on social media for them to see.
.

How can you identify a man who has no long term future plans for you but pretending he does?

Let's get started.


1. HE SAYS HE IS NOT LIKE OTHER GUYS:

He says things like, "I am not like other guys…" But it's part of the trick.
If a guy tells you he's not like other guys, then he’s probably like other guys.
If he’s truly not like the other guys, he doesn't have to say it. It will show in his actions. Keep that in mind.



2. SIMPLY ASK HIM

One of the best ways to expose his true intentions for you is to simply ask him. Just ask him, nothing else.

I don't want you to ask him the normal basic question: "do you really love me."

Ask him something like this:
"what long-term plans do you have for me and how do you intend to start going about it"

OR

"Do you just want to use me to satisfy your sexual urges or do you actually have a long-term interest in being with me?"

When you bluntly throw that questions to a man unexpectedly, It often hit him by surprise. Your focus should not only be on the reply he gives you, it should also be on his immediate initial reaction to the question the moment you throw it at him.
Men who are often taken aback and at a loss for words when you ask them that question are probably the ones who has no long-terms plans for you. They are only want to sleep with you.



3. HE LOSE INTEREST WHEN YOU DON'T ALLOW ANY FORM OF SEXUAL ACTIVITY WITH HIM.

Most times (but not all the time), a man who truly want a future with you won't get "really" mad when you refuse any form of sexual activity; those kinds of men are often patient. Men who get mad and pissed off when you reject their sexual advances are who has no long term plans for you. They only want to Bleep you.

But ladies keep this in mind: the simple act of withholding sex doesn't magically bring you the right man who will be good for you in the long run.

Many women use their sexuality as a tool to manipulate and get what they want from men. A lot of ladies withhold sex to get men to commit... This is a wrong mindset. Of course, I don't recommend opening your legs for every dick and Harry you meet, but I also don't recommend using sex as a tool to make a man commit to you. Remember, you're worth more than just sex. A man shouldn't commit to you simply because you give sex or withhold sex, he should commit to you because you add real value to his life. I mean, he should commit to you because you bring other things to table apart from sex.

Please ladies, do not engage in any sexual activity with a man simply because he pressures or shame you into doing it. If a man lose interest in you because you told him to wait, then you should be glad. That's a sign that he is not worth your affection and companionship.


4. TELL HIM TO UPLOAD THE PICTURES OF BOTH OF YOU ON SOCIAL MEDIA
If you are in a relationship with a player or womanizer who has other women in his life, he will never want to upload the photos of you and him together, and worse, he will never want to put a caption that shows you and him are in a relationship.


5. INVITE HIM TO MEET YOUR FAMILY
A man who isn't just looking for sex will be excited to meet your family because it gives him an opportunity to get to know you more. If he doesn't like the idea of meeting your family, then that's a sign that he has no long term future plans for you.

I hope this was helpful...

#Stay blessed


You can learn more here:

http://chrissolution.com.ng

HOLLY GRAM 5 SIGNS SHE ONLY WANTS UR MONEY. WTF MAN

As a woman u ask me all dis questions you are doomed cos I will answer them perfectly u will jump into my arms.

I go chop clean mouth cum dump u in a perfect way join... Na u go they check weda na ur fault

OP
Pls Later Post 5 Signs that She only wants to Eat your money and Take off..

Thank you!

A man can still do all this things if he only want to have sex with you.

Upload on social media...there is a way around it if you know u know.

I dont believe in all these and that rules. People will always choose what their mind is eager for. Probably they might regret it in the future but they will still choose the best option in their opinion.


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Educram:
I dont believe in all these and that rules. People will always choose what their mind is eager for. Probably they might regret it in the future but they will still choose the best option in their opinion.

These are not rules. These are just signs.

Boogyman557:
HOLLY GRAM 5 SIGNS SHE ONLY WANTS UR MONEY. WTF MAN

Me I no dey hide am.

juniorstar:
Upload on social media...there is a way around it if you know u know.

haha, u must be "a legend" in d art.

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You see that number 5. Na even the guy go wan see your family members.

Pukkalolo:
Over the years, quite a number of women have asked me questions along the lines of---

"Does my man truly loves me or he's only playing games"

Or

"How can I know if a man only wants sex"

Or

"How can I know if a man has a long term plans for me or he's only deceiving me"

Or

"How can I know... bla bla bla bla bla....'

Whatever. They are all similar questions.

If you're a lady looking for answer to these kinda questions, keep reading.

My answers to this question are based on my personal experiences over the past years. Enjoy!!!


There are many men who pretends to really love a woman but in reality he just wants to get in between her legs. Many men do that a lot: they promise ladies marriage as a tactics to get sex from them. It's an old trick.

Why does the tactics works?

Many single women attached security and certainty to marriage--probably because the clock is ticking and their parents keep drawing their attention to the fact that they are getting older, or maybe all the women they know are getting married and flaunting it on social media for them to see.
.

How can you identify a man who has no long term future plans for you but pretending he does?

Let's get started.


1. HE SAYS HE IS NOT LIKE OTHER GUYS:

He says things like, "I am not like other guys…" But it's part of the trick.
If a guy tells you he's not like other guys, then he’s probably like other guys.
If he’s truly not like the other guys, he doesn't have to say it. It will show in his actions. Keep that in mind.



2. SIMPLY ASK HIM

One of the best ways to expose his true intentions for you is to simply ask him. Just ask him, nothing else.

I don't want you to ask him the normal basic question: "do you really love me."

Ask him something like this:
"what long-term plans do you have for me and how do you intend to start going about it"

OR

"Do you just want to use me to satisfy your sexual urges or do you actually have a long-term interest in being with me?"

When you bluntly throw that questions to a man unexpectedly, It often hit him by surprise. Your focus should not only be on the reply he gives you, it should also be on his immediate initial reaction to the question the moment you throw it at him.
Men who are often taken aback and at a loss for words when you ask them that question are probably the ones who has no long-terms plans for you. They are only want to sleep with you.



3. HE LOSE INTEREST WHEN YOU DON'T ALLOW ANY FORM OF SEXUAL ACTIVITY WITH HIM.

Most times (but not all the time), a man who truly want a future with you won't get "really" mad when you refuse any form of sexual activity; those kinds of men are often patient. Men who get mad and pissed off when you reject their sexual advances are who has no long term plans for you. They only want to Bleep you.

But ladies keep this in mind: the simple act of withholding sex doesn't magically bring you the right man who will be good for you in the long run.

Many women use their sexuality as a tool to manipulate and get what they want from men. A lot of ladies withhold sex to get men to commit... This is a wrong mindset. Of course, I don't recommend opening your legs for every dick and Harry you meet, but I also don't recommend using sex as a tool to make a man commit to you. Remember, you're worth more than just sex. A man shouldn't commit to you simply because you give sex or withhold sex, he should commit to you because you add real value to his life. I mean, he should commit to you because you bring other things to table apart from sex.

Please ladies, do not engage in any sexual activity with a man simply because he pressures or shame you into doing it. If a man lose interest in you because you told him to wait, then you should be glad. That's a sign that he is not worth your affection and companionship.


4. TELL HIM TO UPLOAD THE PICTURES OF BOTH OF YOU ON SOCIAL MEDIA
If you are in a relationship with a player or womanizer who has other women in his life, he will never want to upload the photos of you and him together, and worse, he will never want to put a caption that shows you and him are in a relationship.


5. INVITE HIM TO MEET YOUR FAMILY
A man who isn't just looking for sex will be excited to meet your family because it gives him an opportunity to get to know you more. If he doesn't like the idea of meeting your family, then that's a sign that he has no long term future plans for you.

I hope this was helpful...

#Stay blessed


You can learn more here:

http://chrissolution.com.ng

Bloody hell!.. all your reasons but number 1and 2 are crap...must a guy upload ur photo to prove he truly cares about you? Be advised that a guy will do all the above , chop you and still jakpa.

Chai, ladies and their delusion

Kimberlywest, you know what I want from you.

Ladies despises having authority over a man.

It demonstrates to her that when the going gets rough, this man will be unable to protect her and her children.

The true epidemic is males who are weak.

Stay in control of your relationship.