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Where Do I Go From Here? by Haylel: 8:28pm On Nov 09, 2021
I'm down by a bottle, two more to go, and I still don't know the name of the rum I've been drinking.
We've got like 50 days to 2022, and it's looking like I'd be having a carry over again. No, not of mere academic courses, i mean carry over of my life goals.

If Procrastination and sick time management had not held me down like Lagos traffic, the life I've nurtured in my little mind would have been a tip of the life I'm living.

I know the ropes of wealth, I know the 5 commodity that can purchase money, I've acquired values over the days of my life, yet I find it hard to be productive.
Those I've nurtured under my wings have soared really high, they feel pity but helpless, seeing as the one who's helped them fly couldn't even ride with the waves. It's all just messed up in my head.


How has the year been for you? Where do you plan to go from here (where you are now)?

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Re: Where Do I Go From Here? by Sonnobax15(m): 8:40pm On Nov 09, 2021
lipsrsealed
So long say you get life,you suppose get ghana-must-go of hope for your mind.....At least,you suppose get hope say you even dey alive now,abi you think say those people wey dey for mortuary no get plans on how to see next year? undecided. Mennnnnnnn you're even lucky self.... Instead of you to think of how to make amendments from next year,you dey there dey bury yourself with alcohol thinking say na the solution be that undecided

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Re: Where Do I Go From Here? by NarcissistKing: 8:52pm On Nov 09, 2021
Damn! Life's got ups and downs. Pick yourself up and work on something.

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Re: Where Do I Go From Here? by Haylel: 9:47pm On Nov 09, 2021
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
So long say you get life,you suppose get ghana-must-go of hope for your mind.....At least,you suppose get hope say you even dey alive now,abi you think say those people wey dey for mortuary no get plans on how to see next year? undecided. Mennnnnnnn you're even lucky self.... Instead of you to think of how to make amendments from next year,you dey there dey bury yourself with alcohol thinking say na the solution be that undecided
Sure, as long as there's life, there's hope. I just had to seek the help of alcohol, for a moment, reason bad thoughts no more, clear my head and try to see what I can with d little days to go.
It's a lot seeing you haven't really shot farther than you've done since 2019. It's 2 years of being lazy, and it weighs my cold stone heart a lot.
Re: Where Do I Go From Here? by Kenoxman(m): 10:25pm On Nov 09, 2021
You already know where ur weaknesses lie.Believe me, if you make a firm decision today never to repeat ur mistakes and to make amend,ur life can turn around for good in less than 14 days.I did and I am seeing great difference in my own life.When we don't learn from our past mistakes we repeat them again and each lesson becomes harder. There is still much time to rearrange ur life and position urself for greatness come next yr.By the way,who is ur mentor? Do u mentor others without having one urself? I have mentors like Robert Kiyosaki,Anthony Robbins,John Maxwell and a couple of others.I have their books which I read every now and then especially when I'm down like ur situation now.I also follow their posts daily on social media. I draw tremendous inspiration from these great men. Most especially Robert Kiyosaki whose teachings on finance opened my eyes. And like he would say,ur problem today is basically because u lack financial intelligence and the discipline to carry it through. GO GET URSELF A MENTOR!
Re: Where Do I Go From Here? by Boogyman557: 11:00pm On Nov 09, 2021
HOLLY GRAM cool DIS 1 NA REAL MATTERS. WTF MAN
Re: Where Do I Go From Here? by Angrygoat: 11:03pm On Nov 09, 2021
My year of harvest,surebut I later got ripped off of my sweat and I'm just getting myself. U see nigeeia as a country wil frustrate u psychological,physically, spiritual,materialy, politically, socially, and Al the allies u can think of.

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Re: Where Do I Go From Here? by slickycee: 11:22pm On Nov 09, 2021
Be kind to yourself bro..

Life humbles each one of us at all times, just so that we can learn.

I'm not in the best place myself, even tho I made a lot of progress this year, it's as if the harder I try the harder I fail

Like after one struggle to another struggle, like man doesn't get no breaks

Everyday you have to go out and be strong, if you try to talk they would say man up.

Op take care of yourself.

My advise is try to reprioritize things in your life
Let go of any expectations and strive for peace of mind (whatever that means to you )
Shuffle your circle
Re evaluate your support system
Replace who is draining and uninspiring

And if you do all this
Back it up with Prayer and close serious relationship with God .

At the end of the day, there's so many reasons to thank God.
I hope next year gets better for us all

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Re: Where Do I Go From Here? by bigpicture001: 11:25pm On Nov 09, 2021
@ OP simply start taking calculated risk...

Don't fear them it will change ur life
Re: Where Do I Go From Here? by arthurwillia(m): 4:48am On Nov 10, 2021
I prayed and prayed and did all I could die a government appointment
It didn’t work
I’m so down and dejected
I don’t know what else to do with my life

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Re: Where Do I Go From Here? by slickycee: 10:05am On Nov 10, 2021
arthurwillia:
I prayed and prayed and did all I could die a government appointment
It didn’t work
I’m so down and dejected
I don’t know what else to do with my life


So sorry bout that

Our best days are still ahead.
Regardless of how many times we fall,for us to be great, we need to get back up and keep pushing.

God is good always, and all the time he is good.

But he alone knows why some things happen.
If you want to ask God questions, go and read the book of job, it would humble you.
Re: Where Do I Go From Here? by MrKShoes(m): 10:09am On Nov 10, 2021
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Re: Where Do I Go From Here? by arthurwillia(m): 10:13am On Nov 10, 2021
slickycee:



So sorry bout that

Our best days are still ahead.
Regardless of how many times we fall,for us to be great, we need to get back up and keep pushing.

God is good always, and all the time he is good.

But he alone knows why some things happen.
If you want to ask God questions, go and read the book of job, it would humble you.



Thanks brother
Though I’m down now even to pray is problem because of the disappointment but then I’m trying to recuperate
I’m reading through life of Joseph also

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Re: Where Do I Go From Here? by slickycee: 10:20am On Nov 10, 2021
arthurwillia:


Thanks brother
Though I’m down now even to pray is problem because of the disappointment but then I’m trying to recuperate
I’m reading through life of Joseph also

Time heals all wounds

You would be fine
God didn't abandon you
Stay strong

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Re: Where Do I Go From Here? by Fatalveli(m): 2:34pm On Nov 24, 2021
Angrygoat:
My year of harvest,surebut I later got ripped off of my sweat and I'm just getting myself. U see nigeeia as a country wil frustrate u psychological,physically, spiritual,materialy, politically, socially, and Al the allies u can think of.
Where have you been? It’s been a while I read from you.

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Re: Where Do I Go From Here? by TechSpecialist(m): 9:15am On Feb 01, 2022
Fatalveli:
Where have you been? It’s been a while I read from you.
angrygoat is now using the other moniker cokahot
Re: Where Do I Go From Here? by Angrygoat: 9:45am On Feb 01, 2022
Dem ban me.
TechSpecialist:
angrygoat is now using the other moniker cokahot

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Re: Where Do I Go From Here? by TechSpecialist(m): 9:49am On Feb 01, 2022
Angrygoat:
Dem ban me.
abeg dey always take am easy bro.
You too dey fire people on this forum oh.
You no get joy at all
Re: Where Do I Go From Here? by Angrygoat: 9:51am On Feb 01, 2022
I no get joy from day one. I no well and anybody wey come my side go hear am hot.
TechSpecialist:
abeg dey always take am easy bro.
You too dey fire people on this forum oh.
You no get joy at all

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