You have just discovered your partner is cheating but they don't know you know and all their loyalties were the Greek’s gift all this while.

What will you do?
What will you do be it in marriage or courtship?

In dating, as a man, will you wait until five minutes to the exchange of marital vows then call off the wedding?? Or use her to the fullest then dump her for someone else? Or perhaps if you have a wife, send her packing?

As a woman, will you secretly leave the relationship but leave him to say himself while you do the credit alerts? Or will you ask him why?


Will you play along or speak up? Or make things up?


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I'll leave the relationship peacefully, that's after I've shown her proof and evidence that I've caught her cheating on me....

No room for forgiveness for a cheating partner, because a cheat will always be a cheat,no matter how you may wanna tame her

Moreover,my sanity and peace of mind exceeds every other thing

Ask why he did that and if his reasons are not justifiable I walk away. Too young to think and die of BP.

Deborah98:
Ask why he did that and if his reasons are not justifiable I walk away. Too young to think and die of BP.

Can you table one justifiable reason to cheat?

chatinent:


Can you table one justifiable reason to cheat?

he did that to address a need at home. But regardless of these justifiable reasons I still can't condone with a cheat. You just do and I hear why you did it,if it doesn't make sense I let go. There are lots of women out there. You shouldn't be the one to kill me

Hmmm.
If a man cheats in a relationship, I will let him know I know, then, pardon him only when I'm sure he loves me.

In a marriage, I will let him know and will threaten to leave or retaliate. His remorsefulness will determine my next move.

If a lady cheats in relationship, I will give her time to decide who she wants to be with while in marriage, I will send her packing. Simple.

Some people use cheating for a breakup song

If I have feelings for Her, I will tell her about my discovery and immediately end the relationship, we can still be friends so that after sometime she will be cheating on her current BF with me. If I don't love Her, I will not even tell Her, after a while she will realise that she is dating herself.

TUEEEEH.
The moment I get to know, The relationship ends...

Move on dat all

Sonnobax15:

I'll leave the relationship peacefully, that's after I've shown her proof and evidence that I've caught her cheating on me....

No room for forgiveness for a cheat I partner, because a cheat will always be a cheat,no matter how you may wanna tame her

Moreover,my sanity and peace of mind exceeds every other thing

I like this. My peace of mind is a priority.

Kingpin1000:
If I have feelings for Her, I will tell her about my discovery and immediately end the relationship, we can still be friends so that after sometime she will be cheating on her current BF with me. If I don't love Her, I will not even tell Her, after a while she will realise that she is dating herself.

Same here bro.
Even if I love her so much I can't breathe without her, we done.

Am in a similar situation right now. My wedding is next Month and almost all arrangements has been made.
Not that my wife to be is cheating that I know oooo but she always call to tell me that her ex who's a soldier always comes to their House to beg her to come back when he knows fully well that her introduction has been done. I warned her to cut all forms of Communication with him not until yesterday again, babe called and told me that this guy came again yesterday evening begging and crying that she should quit the relationship with me and come back to him.
When she told me this, I became so furious and I insulted the hell out of her and the said soldier. Cuz if u don't give room for such nonsense he won't be coming back begging everyday.
Right now am confused whether to continue this marry plans or forget everything I have wasted cuz marriage is not something to make mistake about.
I can't tell my family just my kid bro who just advised I shouldn't tell anyone in our family.
I just can't trust her again, the feelings is even going down already.
What should I do in this situation?

I play along and continue fucking till I'm tired of the relationship!

Deborah98:
Ask why he did that and if his reasons are not justifiable I walk away. Too young to think and die of BP.

women!!

Innobee99:

What should I do in this situation?

Deep down, you already know that she's fvcking the dude.
You don't need anyone telling you what to do next

Smartb0y:

Deep down, you already know that she's fvcking the dude.
You don't need anyone telling you what to do next

Thank u bro

It's very easy, i wouldn't break up with her. Rather, i'd always use double protection while having sex and then demote her to a mere Sex machine while i search for a more better Girlfriend

She'll be my cum bucket

Humm..

If she's just a girlfriend, I'll play along until she suddenly discovers that she's dating herself and calls off the relationship...

If it's a few days to the wedding, I'll procure the evidence of her cheating and give it to my friend in the media to play it, when the pastors says "is there any reason why this two shouldn't marry, speak now or forever hold your peace"... After that is done, the family of the bride will give me back every dime I spent in the cause of everything ((starting from the introduction to the wedding))...

If we're married without kids, I send her parking asap and effect the conditions of our prenup...

If we're married with kids...
Hmm...
That one go tough small o...
Buh I'll do whatever I can to ensure my kids mental well being, even if it means me forgiving her and moving on...

Smartb0y:
women!!

but it true naa

Deborah98:
but it true naa

Why should there be justification for cheating.
Cheating is cheating.

Deborah98:
Ask why he did that and if his reasons are not justifiable I walk away. Too young to think and die of BP.

Simply because he fuckèd another pussy? Remember, if you walk away,you loose his money and gifts.

Youngpo413:
Simply because he fuckèd another pussy? Remember, if you walk away,you loose his money and gifts.

ewoo this one burst my left ovary.... lolzzzzz uncle I can get those things for myself.

Smartb0y:

Why should there be justification for cheating.
Cheating is cheating.

my dear some give reasons why it happened and many times they're genuine.

Deborah98:
ewoo this one burst my left ovary.... lolzzzzz uncle I can get those things for myself.

oh! Sorry, I thought you are a Nigerian lady...my apologies.

Deborah98:
my dear some give reasons why it happened and many times they're genuine.

No one can force you to do what you don't want to do, don't be deceived.
Since no one can read another's mind, you can't tell what they desire deep down, only them.

Divoc19:
Hmmm.
If a man cheats in a relationship, I will let him know I know, then, pardon him only when I'm sure he loves me.

In a marriage, I will let him know and will threaten to leave or retaliate. His remorsefulness will determine my next move.

If a lady cheats in relationship, I will give her time to decide who she wants to be with while in marriage, I will send her packing. Simple.

Some people use cheating for a breakup song

Are you a man n a woman at the same time

Activate a covert exit strategy

I see life from both perspective

Fash20:


Are you a man n a woman at the same time

Holly Gram OP I know 1 read ur topic. as for me, I go put my KALA to work. WTF MAN

Divoc19:
I see life from both perspective

Cool. Do your know what it feels like to be a man. Because I don't know what it feels like to be a woman.