VlamesIffect:


Total bullshit. And the fact that he can openly say that kind of thing is just ridiculous. WTF?

You beg as a man to have sex? I won't ne surprised if she's having an affair. Because fear women o.

Comrade why na o

Leave them nah, Nah dis kin men dey make women disrespect the menfolk. Why should a woman marry if she will not open her legs? So the man has to kneel, beg, pet her, buy heaven and earth for her before she open her legs and she will still complain he is going after mother woman when she has refused to do what she should do. What happens to make up sex?
More men needs the red pills

authority2006:


Trash. Wife should open if husband has the urge. And husband shouldn't turn the wife down if wife has the urge. That's how you prevent cheating and other problems associated sex starvation in the marriage.





Lol

olabolaji:




Comrade why na o

Bro fear women abeg. Dem dey manipulative.

Chai....Them don dey deal with this one again...

TenQ:

I'm sure you aren't yet married. That's a very wrong mindset.
Sexual needs for women is quite different on the average than the needs of men.

It's like asking a breastfeeding baby to control his/her appetite....a wailing baby you'll have.
Just as women desire unending VALIDATION of love from their Husbands, men desire sex from their wives

So because men desire sex from their wives, that means the man should always bother his wife for sex three times weekly? So the woman should turn herself to a sex machine because her husband's desire for sex is too high?

TundeWX:

Funny enough this goes on in 80% of marital homes but nobody wanna talk.
Try parading ur gbola around the house more often..lol

Jus joking o ,maybe the next person has something better to say

Lol u no serious

Woman no fit try dat nonsense to me. These daughters of jezebel are damn hypocrites and manipulative.

A lady in my compound tried dat nonsense with me one day when i changed d screen foe her. Brought in another woman dat was hotter and sexier than me and she became jealous. After that act she no try am again.

Thats why I support tasting ourselves before marriage atleast if op don taste him wife before marriage he go don know say him wife lazy ontop bed and him go don know him fate

When we tell you people to know your wife/spouse before marriage, una go hala.

SuperStriker:
Good day everyone.
I don't want to cheat on my wife but she cannot cope with my demands for sex. She even told me to control myself and be more spiritual and I am wondering. If I am not controlling myself, I would have cheated on her long ago. I am a fine looking man with many opportunities to cheat. We only have sex when she's ready and wants it, anything outside that is excuse upon excuse. How can a woman I married be telling me to control myself?

Simran94:

So because men desire sex from their wives, that means the man should always bother his wife for sex three times weekly? So the woman should turn herself to a sex machine because her husband's desire for sex is too high?

Love is about making our spouse fulfilled by meeting their needs within our power.
When a woman is in love, she gives and nurture in every way she can!

The problem occur when love seems to have flown out of the window and thus things become a routine.

Sex is like engine oil to a relationship.

How many times a week should a husband express (nonsexual) Love, Adoration and Appreciation to his wife?
One a week!?
Once a month!?
Should the man express this (nonsexual) Love, Adoration and Appreciation to his wife when and only when he feels in the mood or irrespective of his feeling?

Women will always tell u they r tired, because of the things they do all day trying to put d home in other. But u r the one to sweet talk her into it & log her into that mood. I just want to massage ur body for a good sleep babe. I miss u always, sweet words my brother. Most timeS when men marry their wife’s they just assume this is now my property they no longer tell her sweet words and treat her like a babe. Also make her enjoy sex with u, dont sex for ur satisfaction only. Finally hv a talk with her to know y she is doing that, may b u r not clean or u just come pour and go. Best wishes

authority2006:
Trash. Wife should open if husband has the urge. And husband shouldn't turn the wife down if wife has the urge. That's how you prevent cheating and other problems associated sex starvation in the marriage.
Lol

Where is this Law written?

SuperStriker:


That is what I don't want to do. I don't want to go to another woman but I am suffering...Sometimes I feel like I will tear my shirt and start running round the street when that pressure is too much

Naso e dey be? I've not tasted kini in more than one year and I feel no pressure. Nawa for men.

ednut1:
For many women they married cos of pressure not because they wanted to. Send her packing

I guess you are still young. You never understand life.

donbachi:
Dats the problem with so many women.when dating them,they will be giving it to you like kilode.knowing you have high sex drive
Wife them.you start hearing " na food?,control your sexual urge"

Just like she's acting now.
Well,like she said..try control am.

Na food? So hilarious!

Miller232:
Thats why I support tasting ourselves before marriage atleast if op don taste him wife before marriage he go don know say him wife lazy ontop bed and him go don know him fate

You won't know. Relationship dey sweet, people get lax with marriage.

AutoChick4U:
You won't know. Relationship dey sweet, people get lax with marriage.

Me I no go gree this kind thing oooh its obvious OP is like me I never nack plenty p*ssy I go come marry one woman go come dey sex starv me oh boy we protest ooooh

Miller232:
Thats why I support tasting ourselves before marriage atleast if op don taste him wife before marriage he go don know say him wife lazy ontop bed and him go don know him fate

There is no guarantee that Even your sexdrive will remain the same after marriage, so what makes you think that of your spouse will remain so after marriage?

rhames:
As an African,I will Marry another woman who can handle my sex drive without divorcing her.

And when the same thing happens with the other woman, you will marry another and then another abi?

SuperStriker:
Good day everyone.
I don't want to cheat on my wife but she cannot cope with my demands for sex. She even told me to control myself and be more spiritual and I am wondering. If I am not controlling myself, I would have cheated on her long ago. I am a fine looking man with many opportunities to cheat. We only have sex when she's ready and wants it, anything outside that is excuse upon excuse. How can a woman I married be telling me to control myself?

Baba, nA your cross please carry it.

Teetee777:
marry another wife now, or you are not a man, enjoy yourself o

And what is the guarantee that the other wife will remain a sex machine after marriage stress sets in?

SuperStriker:
Good day everyone.
I don't want to cheat on my wife but she cannot cope with my demands for sex. She even told me to control myself and be more spiritual and I am wondering. If I am not controlling myself, I would have cheated on her long ago. I am a fine looking man with many opportunities to cheat. We only have sex when she's ready and wants it, anything outside that is excuse upon excuse. How can a woman I married be telling me to control myself?

Did you court her, how was your sex life during courtship? The aforementioned two questions will determine the advise I will give you.


We rise by lifting others

kinibigdeal:
Unmarried people advising married people how to live their lives in marriage

You dey mind them!

AkhereOkaka:
Did you court her, how was your sex life during courtship? The above two questions will determine the advise I will give you.
We rise by lifting others

Sex life isn't a constant. Sex drive changes with age and stress!

Kobojunkie:
There is no guarantee that Even your sexdrive will remain the same after marriage, so what makes you think that of your spouse will remain so after marriage?

Lol my sexdrive still dey on point
My body count na 4 so nothing do my sex drive

Miller232:


Me I no go gree this kind thing oooh its obvious OP is like me I never nack plenty p*ssy I go come marry one woman go come dey sex starv me oh boy we protest ooooh

All d best

Kobojunkie:
A woman married to you is still a human being and not a sex doll or slave. Once you get that into your head, you will be well on your way towards finding a resolution to your marital problem.

If you really don't want to cheat on your wife , then the options available to you are as follows
■ Find a channel through which you can expend the excess energy you carry around with you there self control and discipline aren't lessons only kids ought to learn. Adults benefit a great deal from having such lessons planted in them from childhood, and are still able to learn them. Take up exercise, Sports or a hobby that allows you focus on other things to take your mind off sex.

■ Work on improving the health of your marriage. You and wife can seek out professional marriage counseling to help you both figure out how to help each other in this problem

■ Also consider the aid or a sex therapist as a couple to help you get the best sexually out of each other.

the best comment so far, you deserve a bottle of wine

Miller232:

Lol my sexdrive still dey on point
My body count na 4 so nothing do my sex drive

The above statement leads me to believe you really have no clue of the biology of your sex drive at your age, do you ?

neonly:





They change after some years into d marriage especially if they have given children

Which is very bad, if the man start getting side chick they start shouting cheating

Nilx:
She said spiritual, lol.

Team virgin or nothing should take note.

Tell her, you ain’t her spirit husband and she should stop expecting you to be spiritual.

Why don’t you consider Spanish goldfly stuff on her or make her desire for it bu other means.

But if na me be you, I go give an excuse whenever she’s in the mood too

Spanish gold fly doesn't work..

jamesversion:
Na your type of wife I dey find. Cos me I don't like sex as such. I can sleep on the bed with a lady for weeks and I won't even feel like having sex. Her companionship is what I enjoy. The issue recently caused my breakup.

Marriage is first for companionship - sex is meant as as plus.

But a lot of Nigerian kids get the order wrong this probably because they have pumped up from a young age into believing Marriage is for sexual satisfaction, they don't bother to even consider learning self-control even in that area anymore.

Ficient:
Ignore her, make her feel you are cheating on her. Ignore her, avoid her, avoid eye contact, no conversation. Cold war till further notice

You are still a child, right?