Davash222:
You expressed your feelings to a Nigerian girl?


Una no dey ever learn.

The only feeling legally and morally acceptable to express to a Nigerian girl is Konji feeling. Any other feeling expressed is foolishness and should be met with utter disgrace!

Wetin happen?

Telling her of your romantic feelings for her doesn't necessarily mean she's got to accept your advances...

Suck it up and move on!

Wearetheugliest:
dude na 2021 we dey o Nothing like woman’s pride in this dead country bro no gock am

There are still women of honour. You be blind by those around you not to see them. Some well brought up, from good homes. Girls are still marrying as virgins.

You may not have such around you, they exist still.

YourWriter:
In reference to the post which I made last two weeks https://www.nairaland.com/6834344/love-im-scared
Here is the update.

I let my feelings known to her telling her how much I love her but unfortunately, the love is unrequited. She told me she's not ready for a relationship due to some personal reasons.
I so much feel heartbroken right now.
We move!

dont be a simp move sharperly

YourWriter:
In reference to the post which I made last two weeks https://www.nairaland.com/6834344/love-im-scared
Here is the update.

I let my feelings known to her telling her how much I love her but unfortunately, the love is unrequited. She told me she's not ready for a relationship due to some personal reasons.
I so much feel heartbroken right now.
We move!

boy you follow old format that is y

YourWriter:
In reference to the post which I made last two weeks https://www.nairaland.com/6834344/love-im-scared
Here is the update.

I let my feelings known to her telling her how much I love her but unfortunately, the love is unrequited. She told me she's not ready for a relationship due to some personal reasons.
I so much feel heartbroken right now.
We move!

move on

Op don't mind the girl, she will regret her action, they always do, but don't give a Bleep.
Try to improve your status for now.

iLoveYouToo:
Abeg why don’t they use VAR in wrestling cos I can’t stand some of the fuckery I see on WWE

It's scripted. Know that and know peace.

MightySparrow:



There are still women of honour. You be blind by those around you not to see them. Some well brought up, from good homes. Girls are still marrying as virgins.

You may not have such around you, they exist still.

Amen MightySparrow

Wearetheugliest:
Amen MightySparrow

Do you havesisters if any morals?

YourWriter:
In reference to the post which I made last two weeks https://www.nairaland.com/6834344/love-im-scared
Here is the update.

I let my feelings known to her telling her how much I love her but unfortunately, the love is unrequited. She told me she's not ready for a relationship due to some personal reasons.
I so much feel heartbroken right now.
We move!

She is ready for a relationship
She's doesn't want one with you

Some guys will miss the opportunity of having real friends with the opposite sex because they want to date them. Your case is different because you said you are ok


A guy lost my girlfriend because she turned him down. My friend has known him for almost a year but never saw him as someone she wanted to date. She earned more than the guy and as such assisted the guy without a refund when he needed them. She would go as far as cooking and giving the guy some portion of soup and stew almost every week because the dude is a bad cook.

When she said no, the guy started acting up and snubbing her. She confronted him about his attitude but he arrogantly replied and insulted her, asking her to get the f**k off.

She decided not to talk to him about it and cut off the friendship since the guy doesn't value it.

I know he will apologise but their relationship can never be the same .

Bankowner:
And who tells you it is a norm that if you ask a lady out the first time her answer must be a yes?

If what you feel for her is true and not just a urge to get into her pants then you have to work at changing her mind in many a different way. The day she sees true love in you, I can bet she’ll yield.

True talk

Davash222:
You expressed your feelings to a Nigerian girl?


Una no dey ever learn.

The only feeling legally and morally acceptable to express to a Nigerian girl is Konji feeling. Any other feeling expressed is foolishness and should be met with utter disgrace!

Davash222:
You expressed your feelings to a Nigerian girl?


Una no dey ever learn.

The only feeling legally and morally acceptable to express to a Nigerian girl is Konji feeling. Any other feeling expressed is foolishness and should be met with utter disgrace!

I'm never against telling someone how you feel about them, infact I feel it's just good to get it off your chest once and for all, atleast so you know you're not just building castles in the air.

I just read through your other post, honestly I wouldn't have gone through with it knowing how she is about love & relationships. No I'm not faulting you either, just putting myself in that situation. I'd have seen it(her reply/reaction) coming. There's no smoke without fire, I feel she's had some unpleasant experiences in the past and probably still trying to deal with it or just plain living in denial which makes things even worse orrr maybe some other person's unpleasant experiences.

I know you must feel terrible for outing your feelings, sorry about that. We can never prepare ourselves enough when it comes to telling someone how you feel about 'em, these things are bound to happen cos it has to be either a Yeah yeah orrr a Nahhh, the latter just throws one off balance even if you be shock absorber lol. Try to look on the brighter side of life dear, you'll be fine.

You had better check your waec result and stop runing after ladies.

Forthepeople21:
Don’t beg for anybody’s attention ever. Have some self respect. You’ll regret it in the end after you get used and extorted to death.

God bless you bro for this post

Sorry it’s life…something we want doesn’t want us

Somedays are like that, sun still shine on everything you do..

Zainabthegirl1:
Sorry it’s life…something we want doesn’t want us

irony of life

Move on, cus this has happened to me also

She will come around

Bankowner:
And who tells you it is a norm that if you ask a lady out the first time her answer must be a yes?

If what you feel for her is true and not just a urge to get into her pants then you have to work at changing her mind in many a different way. The day she sees true love in you, I can bet she’ll yield.

No guy should ever attempt what this man is suggesting. This is a recipe for self-fooling. The moment any lady you're interested in tells you that she's not interested in being in a relationship at the moment or isn't giving you a positive vibe that she's feeling you after letting her know your feelings for her, please move on.

Don't allow anyone to make a fool of you as a guy because you're the "real price" in the equation. If she's into you, she would never turn you down. She may not give you an outright 'yes' but she would give you a vibe that would make you know she's feeling you and just acting like a lady so you wouldn't tag her as 'cheap'

YourWriter:
In reference to the post which I made last two weeks https://www.nairaland.com/6834344/love-im-scared
Here is the update.

I let my feelings known to her telling her how much I love her but unfortunately, the love is unrequited. She told me she's not ready for a relationship due to some personal reasons.
I so much feel heartbroken right now.
We move!

it happens

YourWriter:
In reference to the post which I made last two weeks https://www.nairaland.com/6834344/love-im-scared
Here is the update.

I let my feelings known to her telling her how much I love her but unfortunately, the love is unrequited. She told me she's not ready for a relationship due to some personal reasons.
I so much feel heartbroken right now.
We move!

Omo! Dem dey bring this kain ish come public
Why all these crying grown ass men topics, lately

Take heart brother...
You'll find someone else who will appreciate you... You took the bold step... I am proud of you....

Money speaks bullshitt walks a 100miles

I never speak to these bitcchhhes I let my money talk

Go get some money bro

iLoveYouToo:



Forget o, that guy fit he Simpson offline. Don’t be fooled

Simpson... Med oo

MightySparrow:



Don't be a coward, tell her again, again, and again.


Behind that bold face hides a soft loving heart.

Mtchewwwwwww

womenareapess:
go and sleep Mr simp

If you want to fvck go to hotel and pay those night baboons 500naira and continue your daily life!


Do you think there is any benefit dating a naija women?
NO!

leave those apes alone and concentrate on your life! Those gorillas ain't worth it


If you are still thinking of dating why not try and date a foreigner instead! You won't regret it.

Leave those piece of shiit called naija women alone!

As I am, I can't see myself asking those miserable irritating creatures out on a date who does that?

I understand everything you wrote up there and I am that way too. I have never and will never ever ever fate a Nigerian girl but the name calling is absolutely not called for...

Hanks0000:



Mtchewwwwwww

Cool mhen.