https://www.nairaland.com/6858105/sex-starved-husband#107773729

After going through that post on front page with people replies I realised most time is not actually the women fault but we men.

This a clear case of a woman weaponiasing sex to her advantage.
She only wants it when she feel like
She uses it to blackmail you into doing things she wants.
Is very funny to see a married man advising the OP in that thread to try and always make her happy or be buying her things..(so you have to bribe your wife everytime to have sex with you).

No one like rejection especially sexual rejection.....alot of men are experiencing it because they are WEAK.....we have lot of WEAK men this days.
The moment a woman sense you are soft or weak as a man then you doomed.....if she knows you are a no BS taker there are somethings she wouldn't try.

If you as man think your duty first is to always make your wife happy then you are doomed as a man...she will never care about your happiness....that why this days we are seeing lot of men complaining.....Alot of men make this mistake from on set of letting her have her way in most things.
Choice of food is her decision
Where to hang or visit her decision
When to have sex her decision etc...trying to be a gentleman BS...she knows she has you in her purse nah.

If your wife can weaponiase sex against you then you are a weak man because you should be able to reject her aswell anytime she want it....that the checkmate.

Women hate rejection....if she feels sex is only meant to happen anytime is convenient for her then you are also meant to be available when is convenient for you

Note: Men never make sacrifices or inconvenient yourself for anyone/woman who won't do same in return.
Being a strong man isn't about violence or be hard on her....is just being mentally stronger to understand the game she playing and beating her to the game.

If she reject you tonight.....the next day you got her a gift and all of a sudden she isn't tired to have sex....if you continue doing that...Bro you are a very big fool.
Making sacrifices is one of the major thing that hold any marriage or relationship.....you must be able/willing to do things that are extremely not convenient for each other.

Nawaoooo, all this marriage shit I dey hear lately don dey make me fear to marry. God airpus sha

Lilsameey:
Nawaoooo, all this marriage shit I dey hear lately don dey make me fear to marry. God airpus sha

Selfishness and lack of sacrifices is killing marriage.

Men are seriously feeling cheated....is like the whole design is actually meant to favour women.

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Marriage isn't for the faint-hearted...But I strongly believe everything about sexxx is highly overrated . Na who never collect from the side effects of over lashing dey sing praises about am

padi94:
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They have two weapon they use.

Not cooking for the man.

And denying man sex.

The moment they see this weapon doesn't affect the man they turn it to he is having an affair outside.
Lol

Sonnobax15:

Marriage isn't for the faint-hearted...But I strongly believe everything about sexxx is highly overrated . Na who never collect from the side effects of over lashing dey sing praises about am

We are different bro....alway have that in mind.

Sex isn't overrated at all......it is the biggest pleasure God created for human.

Godoverevery:


They have two weapon they use.

Not cooking for the man.

And denying man sex.

The moment they see this weapon doesn't affect the man they turn it to he is having an affair outside.
Lol

If my future wife tries it, before anything, I don get one side chick already...

Godoverevery:


Selfishness and lack of sacrifices is killing marriage.

Men are seriously feeling cheated....is like the whole design is actually meant to favour women.

Omoh, nah why I dey find girl wey get sense and wey dey reasonable.

Sadly,these foolish men will never listen. They will keep on being Slaves to their wives all in the name of being responsible and Gentlemanly.

Now let me tell you this,foolish men our there. "Real man,gentleman,God fearing husband" are just terms used by women in order to make you do their bidding. As a gentleman,you open doors ror her,you buy gifts for her,you sacrifice your seat for her,you put her on your will... someone who literally isn't even your blood, someone who is just out for what she can drain from you.

You can get married,no one's stopping you. But please do not allow a woman Boss you around like you're a child. Your NO must always be NO!

The truth is that people should learn how to separate Love, Sex and Marriage.

You can Love and deny or be denied Sex
You can be committedly married and seek sex outside it
You can Sex and not Love.

A faithful marriage is the one having love and sex available without stress.

All these has different motives behind them. (Wo)Men are born selfish