I found out that my wife have been seeking financial help from her ex boyfriend and he gave her some amount of money, should I be ok with that or should I ask Her to return the money ?

It is not OK

OP, experience will help me advice you properly.

I had a moniker that was banned in which I posted a similar problem I had in 2019. I wrongly allowed nairaland females make me feel I was being too much of a dictator by worrying over a harmless gift.

Stamp your foot down now and stand against this nonsense. Don’t even leave room for explanation trust me. If you need to drop her off at her father’s house just to prove a point then do so!

Your mental health will never be the same if you docilely let this slide!

You should be okay with it and in fact you should send her back to get more money.

Not good at all...once you are married,every connection with ex should die..if the ex was that good why him no marry am?..why did she come to you knowing fully well that you are not as wealthy as her ex..my brother correct your wife.


If she founds out you are still in contact with your ex and even collecting gifts,how will she feel?

There's a reason why the person is an EX.
Let it remain that way except you want to be sharing your wife.

Why not bro?


There is absolutely nothing wrong with that!

SO LONG AS YOU WILL NOT MIND THE PAYBACK TERMS OF THE "HELP"

AllKnowing:
OP, experience will help me advice you properly.

I had a moniker that was banned in which I posted a similar problem I had in 2019. I wrongly allowed nairaland females make me feel I was being too much of a dictator by worrying over a harmless gift.

Stamp your foot down now and stand against this nonsense. Don’t even leave room for explanation trust me. If you need to drop her off at her father’s house just to prove a point then do so!

Your mental health will never be the same if you docilely let this slide!

Please if you can explain how it affected your relationship so we can learn

sheetred:
I found out that my wife have been seeking financial help from her ex boyfriend and he gave her some amount of money, should I be ok with that or should I ask Her to return the money ?

She's telling him you not capable

Peebaby93:
Not good at all...once you are married,every connection with ex should die..if the ex was that good why him no marry am?..why did she come to you knowing fully well that you are not as wealthy as her ex..my brother correct your wife.


If she founds out you are still in contact with your ex and even collecting gifts,how will she feel?

Thanks bro, I already told Her I'm not happy with that if it is the other way round how will she feel ? She said she is just trying to help I feel very sad about this.

Nothing goes for nothing. Have in mind that you've gotten a new D to be competing with

Hmmmm another marriage matter, honestly I'm learning everyday.

Prevention is better than cure, so please for ur mental health apply avoidance avoidance defense mechanism before u come back to us with the topic "My wife is pregnant for ex boyfriend".

sheetred:
I found out that my wife have been seeking financial help from her ex boyfriend and he gave her some amount of money, should I be ok with that or should I ask Her to return the money ?

I see nothing wrong in this act,the fact that we're not dating again doesn't make us enemies.
I'm a liberal man,we do chat freely.No strings attached..All the "DEAR" means nothing.

Holly Gram real matters. WTF MAN

Number 1


The guy will so fxxxk your wife eeeehhhh,


Number 2

He was the one banging that puxxxsy before it was passed to you.. so technically he owns that honey pot

Number 3
Your so called wife will so ride him during sexxxx that ..you will hear questions like did you miss me?? How about that idiot?? Why did you marry him self?? Should I go on simp

Number 4

What will your wife use to say thank you for all the financial assistance?
A) Goat

B) Toto

C) meth

D) Rice.

Answer correctly and get N500 airtime.

sheetred:
Thanks bro, I already told Her I'm not happy with that if it is the other way round how will she feel ? She said she is just trying to help I feel very sad about this.

Tell your wife to stop any forms of communication with that guy because it will end in tears

Those of u supporting that are junks of f00lz

sheetred:
Thanks bro, I already told Her I'm not happy with that if it is the other way round how will she feel ? She said she is just trying to help I feel very sad about this.

I feel for you but that your marriage is gone already.

She must be bleeping that EX for her to be comfortably to receive money from him.


Money is the root of broken marriage home and it's hitting your marriage gradually.

Habayomie:

I see nothing wrong in this act,the fact that we're not dating again doesn't make us enemies.
I'm a liberal man,we do chat freely.No strings attached..All the "DEAR" means nothing.

God

Pls God, when i finally decide to settle, don't make me have problem that will make my wife to be begging her ex for assistance...