There is this guy disturbing my girlfriend for a relationship.... He normally sends her money... At the initial point, my girl was hiding it from me and I knew about it through her WhatsApp conversation, I pretended like I never saw anything or even noticed anything until one day she open up to me that there is a guy disturbing her for a relationship but she doesn't like the guy. (There are other guys too, but this one is head over matter). She said she just want to play on the guy and nothing more. Then I said no problem, do what makes you happy.

The calls and chats were getting too much then little by little I started to get upset (meanwhile she stays with me). So the guy has sent her money so many times like 5k upwards.... She would use the money to buy clothes for me and some other ones for herself, she swore with her life that she doesn't love the guy and I said okay.


Recently the guy promised her 300k to rent an apartment, she then asked me if she should collect it or not....I told her, do what makes you happy(not that I don't love her but I don't want jealousy to be my weakness and also make her think I don't mean good for her). she was angry at my reply, then I told her why, she said she was expecting me to get angry, be jealous, shout on her, tell her not to collect the money, then I told her, in this present economy, not everyone will be able to turn down a big sum of money like that especially ladies of nowadays.... immediately I made this statement, she called the guy in my presence to never call her again that she doesn't love him, she went to WhatsApp to block the guy.

I was a little bit angry but I didn't show it... My selfish self wanted her to collect the money first before doing so....


So what am trying to say is....there are still ladies out there who can't compromise because of money, Love still exist, and to be truthful I have not given her upto quarter of 300k before but she chose to turn it down just to keep the relationship.

Yes... True love exist...

Your lady is cheap... And you are too in a way...

It's lack of decency that would make a girl collect money from a random man who's interested in her, although she's already in a relationship...

And you're worse, because your greed encouraged her...

I wouldn't date a person like you... Neither is she a suitable partner...

You're celebrating her for doing something that's considered 'normal' in saner societies..

I get poverty has messed with the moral compass of so many...

You both deserve the other... You're broke, so you use your girlfriend to get money from the men she's taking advantage of... And do these men know she's in a relationship?

If so... You're all weird!

True love exist very well. Only that we are yet to meet one. Peaceful intimacy with good partner is more than any trillion in the bank. Go and ask those ladies who married because of money that are now regretting

MhiztaFrank:
There is this guy disturbing my girlfriend for a relationship.... He normally sends her money... At the initial point, my girl was hiding it from me and I knew about it through her WhatsApp conversation, I pretended like I never saw anything or even noticed anything until one day she open up to me that there is a guy disturbing her for a relationship but she doesn't like the guy. (There are other guys too, but this one is head over matter). She said she just want to play on the guy and nothing more. Then I said no problem, do what makes you happy.

The calls and chats were getting too much then little by little I started to get upset (meanwhile she stays with me). So the guy has sent her money so many times like 5k upwards.... She would use the money to buy clothes for me and some other ones for herself, she swore with her life that she doesn't love the guy and I said okay.


Recently the guy promised her 300k to rent an apartment, she then asked me if she should collect it or not....I told her, do what makes you happy(not that I don't love her but I don't want jealousy to be my weakness and also make her think I don't mean good for her). she was angry at my reply, then I told her why, she said she was expecting me to get angry, be jealous, shout on her, tell her not to collect the money, then I told her, in this present economy, not everyone will be able to turn down a big sum of money like that especially ladies of nowadays.... immediately I made this statement, she called the guy in my presence to never call her again that she doesn't love him, she went to WhatsApp to block the guy.

I was a little bit angry but I didn't show it... My selfish self wanted her to collect the money first before doing so....


So what am trying to say is....there are still ladies out there who can't compromise because of money, Love still exist, and to be truthful I have not given her upto quarter of 300k before but she chose to turn it down just to keep the relationship.

True love may still exist, but some of us are not lucky to find one.
I dated a lady that had boyfriends every town she visited until I discovered through her FB account she forgot to sign out on my system.
The main town where I stay we (boyfriends) are 3.
Thank God I discovered at the verge of our introduction.
From her conversation, I was not even her main boyfriend.

MhiztaFrank:
There is this guy disturbing my girlfriend for a relationship.... He normally sends her money... At the initial point, my girl was hiding it from me and I knew about it through her WhatsApp conversation, I pretended like I never saw anything or even noticed anything until one day she open up to me that there is a guy disturbing her for a relationship but she doesn't like the guy. (There are other guys too, but this one is head over matter). She said she just want to play on the guy and nothing more. Then I said no problem, do what makes you happy.

The calls and chats were getting too much then little by little I started to get upset (meanwhile she stays with me). So the guy has sent her money so many times like 5k upwards.... She would use the money to buy clothes for me and some other ones for herself, she swore with her life that she doesn't love the guy and I said okay.


Recently the guy promised her 300k to rent an apartment, she then asked me if she should collect it or not....I told her, do what makes you happy(not that I don't love her but I don't want jealousy to be my weakness and also make her think I don't mean good for her). she was angry at my reply, then I told her why, she said she was expecting me to get angry, be jealous, shout on her, tell her not to collect the money, then I told her, in this present economy, not everyone will be able to turn down a big sum of money like that especially ladies of nowadays.... immediately I made this statement, she called the guy in my presence to never call her again that she doesn't love him, she went to WhatsApp to block the guy.

I was a little bit angry but I didn't show it... My selfish self wanted her to collect the money first before doing so....


So what am trying to say is....there are still ladies out there who can't compromise because of money, Love still exist, and to be truthful I have not given her upto quarter of 300k before but she chose to turn it down just to keep the relationship.

I'm so sorry bt if this ur story is true
Believe it or not
They're fucking already
Save your self from heartache

Datboredberry:
Yes... True love exist...

Your lady is cheap... And you are too in a way...

It's lack of decency that would make a girl collect money from a random man who's interested in her, although she's already in a relationship...

And you're worse, because your greed encouraged her...

I wouldn't date a person like you... Neither is she a suitable partner...

You're celebrating her for doing something that's considered 'normal' in saner societies..

I get poverty has messed with the moral compass of so many...

You both deserve the other... Your broke, so you use your girlfriend to get money from the men she's taking advantage of... And do these men know she's in a relationship?

If so... You're all weird!

Please go through the post again, I think I mentioned a few points you should have noted before spilling out this rubbish...

If you need to know....her conscience wasn't clearly collecting it without my notice. But since she confided in me I told her do what makes you happy. Meanwhile she is a working class...just some random dude deeply disturbing her for a relationship.

Don't rejoice too early my friend.

MhiztaFrank:


Please go through the post again, I think I mentioned a few points you should have noted before spilling out this rubbish...

If you need to know....her conscience wasn't clearly collecting it without my notice. But since she confided in me I told her do what makes you happy. Meanwhile she is a working class...just some random dude deeply disturbing her for a relationship.

She did it initially... Which makes her cheap...

You found out, didn't do a thing... Zero personal pride?

You knew she buys you shirts with the money and were even disappointed that she didn't take the 300k before blocking the man...

No man who loves a woman who tell her to do as she pleases, knowing she's in contact with a man pestering her for a relationship... It's weird...

She not loving the man doesn't mean sh**... You just didn't mind because you got something out of her side relationships...

How do men even tolerate trash like this? Where's the ego?

Lastly, she did not do anything worth commending... She shouldn't have even given this man and the others her time...

You keep thinking alot about money... You even made a statement that you haven't given her a quarter of the money she was offered... Why the hell should you?!

Snitch24:


I'm so sorry bt if this ur story is true
Believe it or not
They're fucking already
Save your self from heartache

I might like to prove you wrong but there is no better way to do that, we all have our opinion.

MhiztaFrank:


I might like to prove you wrong but there is no better way to do that, we all have our opinion.

Are you siding with her? That she's a good role model for turning down the money?

Datboredberry:


She did it initially... Which makes her cheap...

You found out, didn't do a thing... Zero personal pride?

You know she buys you shirts with the money and was even disappointed that she didn't take the 300k before blocking the man...

No man who loves a woman who tell her to do as she pleases, knowing she's in contact with a man pestering her for a relationship... It's weird...

She not loving the man doesn't mean sh**... You just didn't mind because you got something out of her side relationships...

How do men even tolerate trash like this? Where's the ego?

Lastly, she did not do anything worth commending... She shouldn't have even given this man and the others her time...

You keep think alot about money... You even made a statement that you haven't given her a quarter of the money... Why the hell should you?!

Lol, toasting it's free, shooting your shot as a guy to my girl is also totally free, I can take all of that but you see sex...I cant

After all I can't be with her 24/7. When I said do what makes you happy was what I expected her to do that she did. So I left her to make the right decision on her own to prove she loves me other than telling her what to do which might be hurting the relationship indirectly or making it Feel like we re forcing ourselves

MhiztaFrank:


Lol, toasting it's free, shooting your shot as a guy to my girl is also totally free, I can take all of that but you see sex...I cant

After all I can't be with her 24/7. When I said do what makes you happy was what I expected her to do that she did. So I left her to make the right decision on her own to prove she loves me other than telling her what to do which might be hurting the relationship indirectly or making it Feel like we re forcing ourselves

I'm sorry, I can't be with a man who isn't jealous... Because I usually am...

I like it if a man doesn't like my divided attention...

Everyone's relationship is different... I cannot understand yours tho...

My problem:

She shouldn't have kept leading other men on...

She shouldn't have collected their money...

You shouldn't be so unconcerned...it's weird...

You shouldn't have told her to do as she pleases... It would make her feel like you can tolerate any sort of disrespect...

After finding out what she did, you shouldn't have been cool with it... because of the gain you didn't care...

***

I think she's really mad that you weren't jealous... Not that she wouldn't have taken the money if you weren't aware of her 'side-hustle'...

You just made her feel cheap.... It has nothing to do with love or commitment...

And next time, your ego should prevent you from dating women such as this... and staying with them...!

And you should also try to respect yourself... Wanting the money of a man toasting your girl... It's just not cool...

But your relationship... Only you understands it...

True love is still alive

Calm down bro,

Ur babe has already played u big one ,

She called the guy in front of u to prove a point to u, but not to her self

E be like say u never know this gender , be deceiving ur self that she turn it down .

Next one is to go behind to apologize to the guy that she wasn't thinking straight, after which she collect one hand from the nigger

Bro u F big time, u could've compelled her to collect the money first before anything, from the look of things, she's already a goner, you've lost her it's juts a matter of time before u realize it.

MhiztaFrank:


I might like to prove you wrong but there is no better way to do that, we all have our opinion.

Ok bro good luck

Datboredberry:
Yes... True love exist...

Your lady is cheap... And you are too in a way...

It's lack of decency that would make a girl collect money from a random man who's interested in her, although she's already in a relationship...

And you're worse, because your greed encouraged her...

I wouldn't date a person like you... Neither is she a suitable partner...

You're celebrating her for doing something that's considered 'normal' in saner societies..

I get poverty has messed with the moral compass of so many...

You both deserve the other... You're broke, so you use your girlfriend to get money from the men she's taking advantage of... And do these men know she's in a relationship?

If so... You're all weird!

A whole lot of sense, this. I was thinking in the same direction.

brosom:
Calm down bro,

Ur babe has already played u big one ,

She called the guy in front of u to prove a point to u, but not to her self

E be like say u never know this gender , be deceiving ur self that she turn it down .

Next one is to go behind to apologize to the guy that she wasn't thinking straight, after which she collect one hand from the nigger

Bro u F big time, u could've compelled her to collect the money first before anything, from the look of things, she's already a goner, you've lost her it's juts a matter of time before u realize it.

Well you might be right.....but now the issue is that, the guy is out of the country till further notice, I confirmed that

2. We do go through out chats and phones like it's a daily routine so nothing to hide, she drops her phone anytime, sometimes she even forgets to take it to wherever she is going

3. My nickname is her password

4. As a matter of fact the guy is blocked on all social media platforms till date

So what else can I say

MhiztaFrank:


Well you might be right.....but now the issue is that, the guy is out of the country till further notice, I confirmed that

2. We do go through out chats and phones like it's a daily routine so nothing to hide, she drops her phone anytime, sometimes she even forgets to take it to wherever she is going

3. My nickname is her password

4. As a matter of fact the guy is blocked on all social media platforms till date

So what else can I say

Well, u till have o be careful and brace ur heart for unlikely drama.

Though the guy is out, but will surely come back to collect his reward, so chop while I can my guy

Any changes is possible. One may be a saint in your face and a devil behind your back.

MhiztaFrank:
There is this guy disturbing my girlfriend for a relationship.... He normally sends her money... At the initial point, my girl was hiding it from me and I knew about it through her WhatsApp conversation, I pretended like I never saw anything or even noticed anything until one day she open up to me that there is a guy disturbing her for a relationship but she doesn't like the guy. (There are other guys too, but this one is head over matter). She said she just want to play on the guy and nothing more. Then I said no problem, do what makes you happy.

The calls and chats were getting too much then little by little I started to get upset (meanwhile she stays with me). So the guy has sent her money so many times like 5k upwards.... She would use the money to buy clothes for me and some other ones for herself, she swore with her life that she doesn't love the guy and I said okay.


Recently the guy promised her 300k to rent an apartment, she then asked me if she should collect it or not....I told her, do what makes you happy(not that I don't love her but I don't want jealousy to be my weakness and also make her think I don't mean good for her). she was angry at my reply, then I told her why, she said she was expecting me to get angry, be jealous, shout on her, tell her not to collect the money, then I told her, in this present economy, not everyone will be able to turn down a big sum of money like that especially ladies of nowadays.... immediately I made this statement, she called the guy in my presence to never call her again that she doesn't love him, she went to WhatsApp to block the guy.

I was a little bit angry but I didn't show it... My selfish self wanted her to collect the money first before doing so....


So what am trying to say is....there are still ladies out there who can't compromise because of money, Love still exist, and to be truthful I have not given her upto quarter of 300k before but she chose to turn it down just to keep the relationship.

All I have to tell u is double your hustle...make she no go regret her decision oo to go with you..and for your own sanity. The most important I must say.

I hate relationship thingy, too much whaalah...

This what you call true love?

She's with you and still entertain other guys b'cos of money, and you're in full support...man

I still doubt you are a teenager. Hope you are not here to set some folks up.

Datboredberry:
Yes... True love exist...

Your lady is cheap... And you are too in a way...

It's lack of decency that would make a girl collect money from a random man who's interested in her, although she's already in a relationship...

And you're worse, because your greed encouraged her...

I wouldn't date a person like you... Neither is she a suitable partner...

You're celebrating her for doing something that's considered 'normal' in saner societies..

I get poverty has messed with the moral compass of so many...

You both deserve the other... You're broke, so you use your girlfriend to get money from the men she's taking advantage of... And do these men know she's in a relationship?

If so... You're all weird!

True Love is real, but just be ready to spend and take responsibilities. The spending part is what Nigeria ladies call true love. In right sense, true love has no material attachments. You just love the person with no attachment and you pick joy in what interest them. Wow... Gone are those days in 1890s when love is true. Now true love is drama!

MhiztaFrank:


Well you might be right.....but now the issue is that, the guy is out of the country till further notice, I confirmed that

2. We do go through out chats and phones like it's a daily routine so nothing to hide, she drops her phone anytime, sometimes she even forgets to take it to wherever she is going

3. My nickname is her password

4. As a matter of fact the guy is blocked on all social media platforms till date

So what else can I say

Bros if u know what is good for u,start planning on how to marry or commit that girl if u truely love her or else u will soon lose her completely

juniorstar:

All I have to tell u is double your hustle...make she no go regret her decision oo to go with you..and for your own sanity. The most important I must say.

You are actually right....thanks

computersoft:
Bros if u know what is good for u,start planning on how to marry or commit that girl if u truely love her or else u will soon lose her completely

Planning to do so....thanks

computersoft:
Bros if u know what is good for u,start planning on how to marry or commit that girl if u truely love her or else u will soon lose her completely

Thanks for the advise.....I will do just that

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This guy never see anything

A Woman is an ocean of secret, na the one she no like, she go tell you.

Well your girl likes you and as a man, you are expected to take charge of the relationship but you didn't because you too were benefitting from the parasitic relationship she is having with the other guy.

Let me tell you, it is only a matter of time and she'd get tired of you and dump your sorry ass