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Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by CrownOfClay724: 6:00am On Nov 28, 2021
Now, should we clap for you and your family?

Una don do well , abi?

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Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by ImaIma1(f): 6:03am On Nov 28, 2021
So between 2007 and 2021, your brother couldn't allow his family join him? He leaves his family here for over a decade and expects all to be well by just sending money? Did she marry the guy or money? Did he come back to visit at all? That is not marriage again. They should have just separated.

You did not mention if his brother had another wife/concubine/girlfriend in the UK that has been meeting his sexual needs all through those years. Or has he been celibate for over 10 years?

Yes, the woman should have exercised more restraint and behaved more responsible. But your brother brought it upon himself.

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Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by oweniwe(m): 6:29am On Nov 28, 2021
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Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by ruggedtimi(m): 7:03am On Nov 28, 2021
Stay faithful to one man for 14years and the man no dey service her grin. Well she for divorce the man first before konji kill her
Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by habsydiamond(m): 7:06am On Nov 28, 2021
Kobojunkie:
So a woman has two kids means she should be dead sexually? undecided

Who inflicted this level of mental damage/decay on these so-called youth of Nigeria abeg? undecided
who said she should sexually dead.. Forget that... Don't u even know if she had been doing the do before her husband let the country.
Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by johhbekeboh09: 7:23am On Nov 28, 2021
Your brother created this problem
OP you think your brother's wife is firewood abi??

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Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by Raalsalghul: 7:25am On Nov 28, 2021
ImaIma1:
So between 2007 and 2021, your brother couldn't allow his family join him? He leaves his family here for over a decade and expects all to be well by just sending money? Did she marry the guy or money? Did he come back to visit at all? That is not marriage again. They should have just separated.

You did not mention if his brother had another wife/concubine/girlfriend in the UK that has been meeting his sexual needs all through those years. Or has he been celibate for over 20 years?

Yes, the woman should have exercised more restraint and behaved more responsible. But your brother brought it upon himself.

As usual, "blame it on the man."

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Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by Nobody: 7:55am On Nov 28, 2021
oweniwe:


@ Denvacandy
1. If it is your sister that is abandoned for over 14 years, she shouldn't move on with her life?

2. The man himself in the UK is not cheating and breaking vows?

3. For 14 years he has never touched another woman in the UK?

4. All the 14 years he is living alone in the UK abi? Or he had been living with male room mates?

5. Other Nigerian men that bring their families to live with them in the UK have 3-5 years have 10 heads?

6. Do you know that women need regular sex to clear yeast and fibroid from their reproductive system? Between 3-6 months, yeasts will start building up and then fibroid will follow after about a year. So she should leave all the yeasts and fibroid there for 14 years?

7. I can bet the man already has another wife and children in the UK.

8. If a man cannot make arrangements to be with his wife highest after one or two years, he should free her. If he doesn't want to let go then he has to overlook the fact that she might be seeing another man.

9. The woman's only mistake is that she should have initiated divorce in court and when judgment is passed, she can bring her man in our move out.

10. Satisfying herself outside iis very justified.

11. But living with another lover when you have not divorced or separated is wrong

1. Abandoned?? How on Earth was she abandoned?? Was he not sending money to them for their needs?? Did he not get them a house?? Was he not providing for them?? How on Earth were they abandoned??

2. Can you prove that he was cheating?? Abi this is just one of your baseless assumptions??

3. Hahahahahahaahaha...
Please if you have ANY prove of the man's infidelity, kindly share it with us...

4. Maybe he was leaving with you undecided...
Because you seem VERY sure he was not alone... Abi did your mother tell you that? undecided

5. No o... They have 20heads, ode!
Have it ever occurred to you that there could be situations beyond his control that makes it difficult for that to happen?? Have you considered that possibility?!!
And you're here comparing him with other men... lemme borrow a leaf from you book and ask if they aren't also women who stay chaste despite being away from their husbands for this long?

6. Hahahahahahaahaha...
Another baseless assumption...
If this was true that means all WIDOWS who have never had sex for years since their husbands died have fibriod... This means all virgin girls who are adults have fibriod undecided...
And sheybi na wuna dey ask men whether sex na food, and now wuna want am regularly undecided...

7. Bet na.... Sheybi na your money undecided...

8. Oh really??

9. Oh really?? That's her ONLY mistake?? Wow!! You're doing well...

10. There is NO JUSTIFICATION FOR CHEATING... If you're tired, walk away... Stop blaming your stupid decisions on someone else, TAKE RESPONSIBILITY!!!

11. Awk... Buh sleeping around as a married woman is right abi? Beautiful...

The summary of the matter is that...
Every adult is RESPONSIBLE for his or her actions.... You don't do something wrong and then blame another person, that's IRRESPONSIBLE!!!

If you had comprehended my post that triggered this your illogical and emotional reaction, you would have seen a place where I said that "the man fuc.k up", you would have also seen a part where I said that he should have made plans to at least come down here at least once a month... But no!! Rather than pay attention to those part, you just had to come here and start shifting blames upandan undecided...

Yes the man played a part in causing this mess, but he CAN NOT be held responsible for his wife's infidelity

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Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by sisisioge: 8:22am On Nov 28, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
So your brothers wife allowed you people to take her kids after throwing her out of the house. Your family is very wicked*. I know she will definitely come back for her kids because you people have no right to collect children from their mother. Your brother is wicked* as well. He abandoned his wife for such number of years and is carried away messing with white women abroad.

The story really stinks. While I strongly agree that the woman shouldnt have brought her lover to the house, they still have no right to do what they did. The story is really irritating to me. Tufia!

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Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by free2ryhme: 8:49am On Nov 28, 2021
Denvacandy:
This is a true life story of how my elder brother home was destroyed when he traveled to oversea for greener pasture.

He married his wife in the 90's and they gave birth to thier first girl in the year 2000, he traveled in the year 2007 to UK ( London ), as at that time the wife was pregnant and she gave birthday to the second child in the year 2008.

Maybe things where not as good over there and he stayed longer leaving the wife and the two girls in nigeria for so many years, but he actually took care of them fully, buying and sending all sort of things home for the family and making sure everything was smooth.

He later bough several houses in nigeria and he bought a house for the wife and girls to stay while hes working in UK.

Unfortunately the woman could not bare it anymore as she start going out with a man friend and started dating several guhs while my brother was away.

to cut the long story short, she eventually brought her lover into the house my brother bought and both the wife and the guh started living together with my brother children under thesame roof.

People in the community noticed and they have to inform my mum about what is going on and we have the courage to go see for ourself after many month, we meet the guh and we gave him beating of his life and drive the wife out of the house.

Now my brother two girls are now staying with thier grandma and the wife has been pushed out.

How is it difficult for women to stay faithful to one man. imagine bringing a lover to the house your husband bought.

Tell us your brother is not sleeping with other women in the place he travelled to.

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Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by Harrykn: 9:00am On Nov 28, 2021
1. She cheated, And didn’t take it outside o but inside the house your brother bought with his hustle money, That’s wrong.
2. Everybody blames your brother for traveling to London to search for greener pastures, That’s wrong.
Your brother took that decision to save the entire family and there is no justification that this decision turned a woman with two kids to lookout for, a hoe.
Prosecute them according to your brother’s will and next time cut the bastard’s dick off.
Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by Imustnottalk: 9:11am On Nov 28, 2021
Kobojunkie:
So a woman has two kids means she should be dead sexually? undecided

Who inflicted this level of mental damage/decay on these so-called youth of Nigeria abeg? undecided
is that what prompted her to cheat on her husband, what of those widows that don't remarry after losing husband how do they cope with that .no matter what you do for a woman, woman wen go cheat go cheat that's it

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Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by ImaIma1(f): 11:47am On Nov 28, 2021
Raalsalghul:


As usual, "blame it on the man."


It should be "as usual, blame it on the woman".

If you don't understand that a married couple should not be apart for that long especially when the man can make her join him, then forget abourrit.

Or are we going to ignore the fact that the brother was most definitely not celibate all those years and also had a side kick? Typical of you men to close your eyes to a man being at fault but to throw the women under the bus.

Both of them are wrong! Guy should have brought his wife over. Or wife should have separated as she couldn't cope.

You guys here don't like the truth if it doesn't match your own narrative or agenda against women.

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Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by Raalsalghul: 11:49am On Nov 28, 2021
ImaIma1:


It should be "as usual, blame it on the woman".

If you don't understand that a married couple should not be apart for that long especially when the man can make her join him, then forget abourrit.

Or are we going to ignore the fact that the brother was most definitely not celibate all those years and also had a side kick? Typical of you men to close your eyes to a man being at fault but to throw the women under the bus.

Both of them are wrong! Guy should have brought his wife over. Or wife should have separated as she couldn't cope.

Given your last three sentences, I won't argue further as you've balanced it.
Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by jesmond3945: 11:54am On Nov 28, 2021
Denvacandy:
This is a true life story of how my elder brother home was destroyed when he traveled to oversea for greener pasture.

He married his wife in the 90's and they gave birth to thier first girl in the year 2000, he traveled in the year 2007 to UK ( London ), as at that time the wife was pregnant and she gave birthday to the second child in the year 2008.

Maybe things where not as good over there and he stayed longer leaving the wife and the two girls in nigeria for so many years, but he actually took care of them fully, buying and sending all sort of things home for the family and making sure everything was smooth.

He later bough several houses in nigeria and he bought a house for the wife and girls to stay while hes working in UK.

Unfortunately the woman could not bare it anymore as she start going out with a man friend and started dating several guhs while my brother was away.

to cut the long story short, she eventually brought her lover into the house my brother bought and both the wife and the guh started living together with my brother children under thesame roof.

People in the community noticed and they have to inform my mum about what is going on and we have the courage to go see for ourself after many month, we meet the guh and we gave him beating of his life and drive the wife out of the house.

Now my brother two girls are now staying with thier grandma and the wife has been pushed out.

How is it difficult for women to stay faithful to one man. imagine bringing a lover to the house your husband bought.
since 2007, haba. The emotional connection with your brother is dead. Why didnt your brother invite his wife and kids at least for the exposure? By now they would have been citizens

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Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by idahme(m): 11:56am On Nov 28, 2021
InTheCloudySky:
Maybe the wife believed or had reasons to believe that your brother had a woman he was seeing in the UK, which is highly plausible in these type of situations.
If going by your assertions then the right thing to do is to leave the marriage. One cant approbate and reprobate at the same time.
Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by jesmond3945: 11:59am On Nov 28, 2021
Freestainworld:
Both your brothers wife and his man friend is stupid, no mater what, she should have respected her matrimonial home.
lol. In her heart there is no matrimony. She was in for the money. She didnt play smart.
Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by ImaIma1(f): 12:01pm On Nov 28, 2021
free2ryhme:


Tell us your brother is not sleeping with other women in the place he travelled to.


Him and his brother will conveniently leave that part out.
Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by adebayo3449(m): 12:12pm On Nov 28, 2021
Denvacandy:

He left since 2007 and has not returned till date right?
2007 to 2021
Ok I see
Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by Nobody: 12:23pm On Nov 28, 2021
crackhaus:
Since 2007? Hian...

It's that your elder brother and the rest of you who thought that a woman in that situation can stay faithful, that I blame... cheesy

Even for ONLY one year sef, I cannot beat my chest and say that any of our modern Nigerian women can stay faithful to a man they're not seeing. Na ment?

Well since y'all have pushed her out, problem solved for everyone involved.
Start beating your chest very well because there are still women faithful to the core no matter how long the husband is away.
Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by jesmond3945: 12:24pm On Nov 28, 2021
oweniwe:


@ Denvacandy
If it is your sister that is abandoned for over 14 years, she shouldn't move on with her life?

The man himself in the UK is not cheating and breaking vows?

For 14 years he has never touched another woman in the UK?

All the 14 years he is living alone in the UK abi? Or he had been living with male room mates? Other Nigerian men that bring their families to live with them in the UK have 3-5 years have 10 heads?

Do you know that women need regular sex to clear yeast and fibroid from their reproductive system? Between 3-6 months, yeasts will start building up and then fibroid will follow after about a year. So she should leave all the yeasts and fibroid there for 14 years?

I can bet the man already has another wife and children in the UK. If a man cannot make arrangements to be with his wife highest after one or two years, he should free her. If he doesn't want to let go then he has to overlook the fact that she might be seeing another man.

The woman's only mistake is that she should have initiated divorce in court and when judgment is passed, she can bring her man in our move out.

Satisfying herself outside iis very justified. But living with another lover when you have not divorced or separated is wrong
if she divorced the man, the money would stop coming.
Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by jesmond3945: 12:32pm On Nov 28, 2021
Harrykn:
1. She cheated, And didn’t take it outside o but inside the house your brother bought with his hustle money, That’s wrong.
2. Everybody blames your brother for traveling to London to search for greener pastures, That’s wrong.
Your brother took that decision to save the entire family and there is no justification that this decision turned a woman with two kids to lookout for, a hoe.
Prosecute them according to your brother’s will and next time cut the bastard’s dick off.
do you know she would have been a british citizen by now. His two kids would be a citizen. The british govt would pay her kids 1800 pounds per month and she would earn 1500 pounds just for being a citizen. The man is wicked.

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Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by pocohantas(f): 12:54pm On Nov 28, 2021
Your stories no dey finish.

Thought your two elder brothers are jobless and useless?

The other day you were a newly wed with an ungrateful wife.

Yesterday you be undergraduate with two jobless brothers and a troublesome mother.

Today one of same elder brothers done dey UK and has a cheating wife.

Redpillers must be very proud of the stories you keep churning out.

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Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by Tallesty1(m): 12:57pm On Nov 28, 2021
pocohantas:
Your stories no dey finish.

Thought your two elder brothers are jobless and useless?

The other day you were a newly wed with am ungrateful wife.

Yesterday you be undergraduate with two jobless brothers and a troublesome mother.

Today one of same elder brothers done dey UK and has a cheating wife.

Redpillers must be very proud of the stories you keep churning out.
What if their father is Simon Odoh?



Simon Odoh has 47 wives and over 200 children/grandchildren

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Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by sageb: 12:59pm On Nov 28, 2021
pocohantas:
Your stories no dey finish.

Thought your two elder brothers are jobless and useless?

The other day you were a newly wed with an ungrateful wife.

Yesterday you be undergraduate with two jobless brothers and a troublesome mother.

Today one of same elder brothers done dey UK and has a cheating wife.

Redpillers must be very proud of the stories you keep churning out.

Ndi Alpha males will be very proud of him
Kwin Pocohantas on the beat.
Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by pocohantas(f): 12:59pm On Nov 28, 2021
Tallesty1:
What if their father is Simon Odoh?



Simon Odoh has 47 wives and over 200 children/grandchildren

He has to be, because his family issues no be here. This is obviously a troll. Who creates this kind thread? https://www.nairaland.com/6784662/redish-boil-around-anus-graphics

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Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by silibaba: 1:05pm On Nov 28, 2021
Denvacandy:
This is a true life story of how my elder brother home was destroyed when he traveled to oversea for greener pasture.

He married his wife in the 90's and they gave birth to thier first girl in the year 2000, he traveled in the year 2007 to UK ( London ), as at that time the wife was pregnant and she gave birthday to the second child in the year 2008.

Maybe things where not as good over there and he stayed longer leaving the wife and the two girls in nigeria for so many years, but he actually took care of them fully, buying and sending all sort of things home for the family and making sure everything was smooth.

He later bough several houses in nigeria and he bought a house for the wife and girls to stay while hes working in UK.

Unfortunately the woman could not bare it anymore as she start going out with a man friend and started dating several guhs while my brother was away.

to cut the long story short, she eventually brought her lover into the house my brother bought and both the wife and the guh started living together with my brother children under thesame roof.

People in the community noticed and they have to inform my mum about what is going on and we have the courage to go see for ourself after many month, we meet the guh and we gave him beating of his life and drive the wife out of the house.

Now my brother two girls are now staying with thier grandma and the wife has been pushed out.

How is it difficult for women to stay faithful to one man. imagine bringing a lover to the house your husband bought.

FAITHFULNESS has got nothing in this matter.

how could he leave a young girl like that for several years?

let me ask you a simple question please, IF YOUR EAR DEY ITCH YOU, WONT YOU APPLY YOUR INDEX FINGER INTO THE EAR?

NA SO WOMEN KONJI BE LIKE.

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Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by Owologbo(m): 1:11pm On Nov 28, 2021
jetwonder:
your brother make a grave mistake to abandoned his wife down here for so long, indirectly your brother his killing her. your brother is to be blame
I think bringing the guy to the man house is a big issue.
Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by Double0h7(f): 1:22pm On Nov 28, 2021
Someone said:

Do you know that women need regular sex to clear yeast and fibroid from their reproductive system? Between 3-6 months, yeasts will start building up and then fibroid will follow after about a year. 

Me: dead
Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by Double0h7(f): 1:32pm On Nov 28, 2021
pocohantas:


He has to be, because his family issues no be here. This is obviously a troll. Who creates this kind thread? https://www.nairaland.com/6784662/redish-boil-around-anus-graphics

Why do you hate us! Why would you share this with us! Why did I look! *pukes*
Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by Teleprompter(f): 2:36pm On Nov 28, 2021
The man was not realistic enough.
Re: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by Biglittlelois(f): 2:43pm On Nov 28, 2021
pocohantas:
Your stories no dey finish.

Thought your two elder brothers are jobless and useless?

The other day you were a newly wed with an ungrateful wife.

Yesterday you be undergraduate with two jobless brothers and a troublesome mother.

Today one of same elder brothers done dey UK and has a cheating wife.

Redpillers must be very proud of the stories you keep churning out.


Toh asiri ti tu cheesy

And I was about showing my anger in my comment, boredom breeds tales by figment of imagination sha.....

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