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50-Year-Old Nigerian Shares Her Regrets About Her Parents Sending Her Abroad / I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets / Sometimes I Regret Marrying My Wife (2) (3) (4)
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Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by AutoChick4U(f): 7:53pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Raalsalghul:No. You lack tact by mentioning d monika sha 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by AutoChick4U(f): 7:55pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
catice:Freedom intoxicates. Takes genuine feelings and a home oriented lady to make things work. 5 Likes |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by larryking540: 7:57pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
MISSCONGENIALITY:so u can as well call out mothers doll or mini slaves or servant ...you can learn the foreign culture but don't use the foreign culture against ur man |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by michaelbelgium(m): 8:02pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
adeakin:Nailed it!! |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by BLoomfrancs(m): 8:02pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
If no be love, na money palava If no be stress, na woman and drama Op, Fireboy don give you the answer wey you dey look for. |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:03pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Mariangeles:Some women actually know what they are going into when they enter such marriages. They will happily let their husband go while the stay here. That's how they think they can get their own peace. So if he meets a woman who agrees to do that fine. But not for him to deceive one babe who wants to travel abroad that he will take her after marriage only to dump here here and travel. God sef will punish him. As for me, I can't go into such a marriage where my husband will leave me here and travel. I would rather remain single and find my own way to travel if I must travel, than to go into a scam marriage. 5 Likes |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by Raalsalghul: 8:06pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
ziondaughter247: You are not a very informed person and you're also guilty of the same thing you presume all red pillers to be. It will do you a lot of good to stop seeing life in white and black: there are also shades of grey. 4 Likes |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by dammyco(m): 8:07pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Better women dey but you no fit see them. Dem Don old pass you. Dem be 80+ Women below 60 Don open eye ooooooooo. Na to just use you as stepping stone. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by ednut1(m): 8:07pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
pocohantas:hahahaha |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by pocohantas(f): 8:08pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
larryking540: Oh pls stop telling yourself lies. Cheating pains Nigerian men to the marrows. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by Truvelisback(m): 8:11pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Marrying her and taking her abroad is good but could be risky depending on the kind of lady. After awhile she might start growing wings and may start giving u attitude when she starts meeting men over there. As u know, marriage law over there favours women alot. So, u gat to think twice. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:12pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
larryking540:You are not getting it. Anyway, if you know you can't treat your wife the way you would love to be treated? Don't marry. Whether here or anywhere. Because if she treats you right and you treat her like shit, one dey your cup go full. And remember abroad is not Nigeria where the women might just be crying and begging you but even a neighbor could even call the police on you for disturbing their sleep. If you are not ready to treat people the way you would love to be treated, don't bring her. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by sameoldguy: 8:17pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
jaxxy:Your sense too much. One chilled Guinness stout for you 1 Like |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by twosquare(m): 8:18pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
accurate description. only economic power dey give them advantage...anything apart from that, it is a shithole. BigBashiru: |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by Chukapage(m): 8:18pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
ziondaughter247:you're just being idealistic is like you've not been good to someone and they still stab you. You make it look like being good will make your partner good to you but in real life you and I know it doesn't work that way. Good people even get hurt the MOST being good won't change a devilish woman from being devilish to you. 6 Likes |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by Meedon: 8:21pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
E go shock you oooooo wunmi590: |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by twosquare(m): 8:22pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
PeaceJoyLove:Same here. Add Arabs...Asia is the last stronghold of this corrosive culture. |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by Chukapage(m): 8:22pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
ziondaughter247:The Redpill crusades is really getting you worried. Change tactics this shaming tactics don caste. Men don wise up.... |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by qtguru(m): 8:24pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
In the real world, it's not a big deal only on NL 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by socialmediaman: 8:27pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
VULCAN: Thank you |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by socialmediaman: 8:28pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
SeriouslySense: Thank you for the compliment |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by Prince001(m): 8:28pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Klass99: I understand ur point but statistically u are wrong óò. I lives in Europe for 20yrs now and I can tell u most guys that brought their spouse from Naija regretted their decisions. But the faults goes both ways cos some of us living abroad think we can get any gal we want and d ladies are ready to deceived us aswell. Bottom line for me is economy and the bad governance in Naija changes a lot of people's characters. My advice for guys living here that's trying to have his future partner in Naija should be vigilant cos any red flag u come across during ur dating its real RED flag ooo! Cos according to research Nigeria women are not in 1 to 10 of countries in Africa where one can get good wife but we men are at no 7 in Africa. That research speaks volume oooo. However, there are still good ladies in Naija but they are not much due to economy and bad governance!!!!!!! Check these video out: [center] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EPoXBbigVeo[/center] [center] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XBXZz_XbKmU[/center] |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by Emaprince: 8:30pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Marrying a Nigerian woman and taking her abroad? Thats literally another way to describe suicide!! Naija woman? Freedom and power turns them toxic. Take for example the female bosses or the way these women treat their maids. The best thing anybody living abroad can do for himself is marry from there. Even if you want a Naija woman, let it be the ones born and brought up there..because they are already used to the system and laws. They wields enough power to destroy their men because the law favours them the most but then, every one there already know this and knows how they survive it. In this case, the women may not be over power drunk; its nothing new to them But take a naija girl there? The way she will fly away eh.. sleep around and don't give fukc. Try her best to provoke you to the point of touching her...and any small contact, police will be knocking on your door. You are evicted from your home..you lose most of the things you laboured for. She start enjoying your sweats with another man. Nigerian women should be taken far away from power by all means. They tend to abuse it horribly. Don't dare try it, man. 9 Likes |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by socialmediaman: 8:33pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Kokaine: I’m not a professional life coach but I’ll enjoy being one if I had the time. I just give advise based on learning and experience. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by Obica: 8:37pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Dont generalize like that. No doubt, some women may change when taken abroad, but likewise men. I sponsored my wife to Canada. She was in Nigeria alone for 2 years, all by herself and did not change. When she came here she did not change, and she has been the most supportive wife anyone could ask for. And we have been together for eleven years. It all depends on the individual. Every woman does not do that. Legendrysailor: 6 Likes |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by poweredcom(m): 8:43pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Never in my life will I take any naija gal abroad I never see any resonable one I can call a wife material finish Very selfish creatures and loveless @womenareapess answer this OP seems he never see anything for life about taking naija girls of this generation abroad |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by MummyD2020(f): 8:44pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
But women also take men abroad too na 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by BRATISLAVA: 8:46pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
ziondaughter247: Lol. You can always tell the economic class of a man by the way he thinks about women and treats them. Most of them post from a place of bitterness. Women will always bring facts out, but the gender that claims to be logical tends to go by the lines they were taught. It's too bad teenage boys will grow up reading some of the most disgusting, toxic and bigoted things about women, and think it is normal and the truth. That is actually the point of whoever began these threads (think we all know the two people behind the wave of misogyny on the forum) and the mod that pushes them to the front page. Without knowing it, over 80% of the men post the exact same misogynistic posts, with very few capable of thinking for themselves. The few who can are cyberbullied into the psychological games they play here There's a gay/inncel/embittered/misogynist (AKA red pill) mod behind this, and a crew of his content creators in the same club. 4 Likes |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by Nobody: 8:46pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
mrbenjame: meet a lawyer in both countries, sign a pre nuptial agreement with her (make sure she understands what she is signing) . Then marry and take her outside. yes many women betray there men once the move outside -especially to Europe and America. I have seen a man denied access to his kids and forced back home to begin afresh. I have also seen a man go strong with the wife once they moved to the USA (even though she earns more than him). But a pre nuptial will save you from loosing your investments if not your heart |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by BRATISLAVA: 8:49pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
MummyD2020: Not in their world. If it doesn't fit the templates they've created online in which only men do these things, they will shout their assumptions over everything else. Half of them are in some Forest killing snakes beneath the canopy. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by grandstar(m): 8:53pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Klass99: Is that shrewd? (Read Proverbs 27:12) |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by BRATISLAVA: 8:53pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
pocohantas: LMAO. Cheating has made all of them hulk out on the forum, chanting their usual chants. Yet they don't really care. O Kay. 2 Likes |
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