Datboredberry:
Sometimes, we're not the victim... Share your experience breaking the heart of someone who loved you...

I'll start: I dated a guy for two years... I wasn't committed... Didn't invest my feelings and time... But he did... I ended things with him, after he told me how much my actions hurt him... It was a messy breakup... And I felt guilty for so long.

The others, I ghosted... Felt bad v...

Datboredberry:
Sometimes, we're not the victim... Share your experience breaking the heart of someone who loved you...

I'll start: I dated a guy for two years... I wasn't committed... Didn't invest my feelings and time... But he did... I ended things with him, after he told me how much my actions hurt him... It was a messy breakup... And I felt guilty for so long.
You f**k am? I'm just asking?
The others, I ghosted... Felt bad sometimes...

Getdabag:
as a fresher had on crush on a lodgemate she didn't reciprocate at the time,bcus she was dating SUG presd, I bullshit her, fast forward 300level I touch small money frm sales, she com dey form lover,fvcked her severely,anal included and dumped her within 2weeks

Later found out from her friend she did like me then but was forming hardto get
But
E no concern me i no dey chop vomit
We move

Lordedifice1:
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Lordedifice1:

Ashewo you are very proud of your irritable actions
Person fit do the same to ur daughter
Remember karma still exists

Getdabag:
simp

if you like no raise your daughters well, boys go still lash am carelessly

Ocholu:

My ex, may thunder fire her wherever she is.

Noxico:
Interesting thread

Vinnie2000:


OP
DatboredBerry!
Come and Judge this case!
Don't know If I can call dis Heartbreak!

Was very close to a Pretty, young Babe in my Uni Days!
But she had a Serious Boyfriend at home, so I was kinda forced to be a Bestie, Side cock, whatever..
But She toyed with me Quite Alot. Was telling me 'Help me do This'.. I would do it! But No thank you from Her or it will be 3 weeks Later..
Sometimes, I will call her, Will not pick till 2 Weeks later b4 calling back!

I got Tired, Ghosted her and moved on to a Proper Relationship!
This my Female Bestie felt I Broke her Heart after all the Closeness!
It was then she now confessed her Feelings to me!

But it was too Late!
Had to Focus on my New Babe that was so Loyal and was giving me 'Things I did not even Bargain for'..

Datboredberry:
Sometimes, we're not the victim... Share your experience breaking the heart of someone who loved you...

I'll start: I dated a guy for two years... I wasn't committed... Didn't invest my feelings and time... But he did... I ended things with him, after he told me how much my actions hurt him... It was a messy breakup... And I felt guilty for so long.

The others, I ghosted... Felt bad sometimes...

Getdabag:
simp

if you like no raise your daughters well, boys go still lash am carelessly

Datboredberry:
Sometimes, we're not the victim... Share your experience breaking the heart of someone who loved you...

I'll start: I dated a guy for two years... I wasn't committed... Didn't invest my feelings and time... But he did... I ended things with him, after he told me how much my actions hurt him... It was a messy breakup... And I felt guilty for so long.

The others, I ghosted... Felt bad sometimes...

JerryBizz:

Hey...
I heard about what happened yesterday.
Mehn, it was a long day.

Sorry you had to get caught in the mix.
But she's fine now.

Although, I didn't get to read what you might have told her, because I'm just getting access into our account now and I can see deleted comments. But I do know in my heart that you handled it well.

Thanks for having my back. She said you said something about me always mentioning her and speaking highly of her. LoL, did I ever do that though? So you know how to lie if, and when necessary, for the ones you care about? It helped, you know...

I appreciate. Sorry for any embarrassment that u may have felt. And just for the general inconvenience.

It wasn't her fault. Neither was it yours. These things happen.

But I'm super proud of you....I won't tell you why..**blush-blush **

If we had agreed to chat ogf NL that day, I don't think she would have caught me. Me, not you. Because you didn't do anything wrong. I'm the one she knows...you're absolved of any blame. Shey you know this bah?

We are considering ending this account sharing thingy. We had a talk. But it was civil. So do not worry yourself. I'm fine. No one was harmed.

Your intelligence came in handy. I saw a screenshot she sent to me of one of the replies you gave her. I was just smiling sheepishly while reading. You are a smooth operator.
You're such a turn on. I felt like pinning you against the wall and doing things to you. I'm sorry if you find this obscenely offensive. You'll have to forgive me for this one .I have to just take my chances.

Consider being a lawyer in your next life. Lol [quote] Lol.. everyone says so... But for a different reason.

[quote]
Not to worry, she won't read this. She's locked out of the account for now. After she let me in, I changed the password. I'll let her in tomorrow...the world wouldn't come crashing down jare... We'll be fine. In fact, we r fine already.

I don't even care that other NL's have read and probably insulted us for all the drama which have taken place. Whatever...life goes on

JerryBizz:

Then my contribution to your topic, so it doesn't look like I'm only good at derailing your threads.
I have not been a victim directly. But I have been the one who put another in tears and causedheart palpitations.

We were younger. She was 17, I was 19. Teenagers just living away from home, and living young, not so wild, and living free.
She loved me. I met her at a club during one of those Friday night outs for students. She couldn't speak English. Her words were very brief and limited. She kept smiling awkwardly to try to make up for the deficit in communication. No problems....I knew how to handle such situations... however awkward they were.
I spoke little Russian.

The little I had crammed a week to the day we met. Just incase I meet any of them girls. So , when the opportunity showed up, I said, " kak dela... Men ya za votre Jerry. "
That means, my name is Jerry. She replied, although the banging sounds from the speakers dishing out music didn't permit audibility, which in turn had me saying, " what? come again? didn't quite hear you "
And just like that we set the ball rolling. It was the first night of many more nights to remember. The memories are still there , tucked away in my mind. Maybe my heart too?

She wore a black cocktail dress. She was looking tall and quite a standout type.Sje wasn't too slim and too chubby. Just in-between...back then...

We danced. Her drunkard boyfriend, a Kenyan dude, arrived the club a little while after we were already all settled in. He started creating a scene. He was fuming, but his countrymen told me to " carry on , go ahead joor " That I even seem like a better friend to the girl. I still remember that night. That clubhouse has since been demolished and reconstructed into something else...No more a clubhouse. But alot of memories were created there. People met lifetime friends there.

So anyways, started seeing. She was more into me than o was into her. I was just a young player. She was a good girl on the other hand. A good girl who still knew her way around guys. And oh, did she know how to make you happy...in za oza loom. Once she's comfortable with you.
Long story cut short, I was the one who deflowered her. She was more than happy it was me. Her friends approved of me. Then some months after I became their sworn enemy. Yes, I was not treating their friend right. I started getting carriead away and lusting after other beautiful girls. I cheated. I was reported. She travelled home for holidays, but she had eyes back in our city who told her if and when they saw me in clubs, outside school, or at the mall. So I didn't even know who was saying what. Till I heard the gists later.
So , we dated for three and a half years and never for once did she sleep with another guy. Not even a handjob did she as much give any guy. People knew she was different. They tried to fvck her , get her drink in club but it all failed. She always knew I had ears on the ground. But more importantly, she just loved me...even when it was winter and we fought, and she ran out of the apartment we were sharing back then, she would not run into the arms of another guy. She would go be with her girls. Even when she threatened to ' go to Chris' house and jave fun with him ' she never went through with her threat. It was all just anger. And she had the right to be angry.
Christ was one Congolese guy...he was in my school. She wasn't. But she knew him through a mutual friend. Cuz we all converge at the nightclub and other entertainment areas...so we are bound to meet other students from other schools, and neighborhoods, living within the same city. Just the schools were different.
Even my family friend tried to go behind my back to bang my girl. But she turned him down and told me after about two months about it when she recall the incident. He wanted to take her in his care to the beach to chill. According to the story I was told. She refused. She knew he had a record for getting girls easily. But she wouldn't be one of those girls. Even her best friend had been fuccked by this my family friend. But this happened like two years later..after this incident of him trying to sleep with my girl.
Lol..today he is a changed guy...jwho didn't know him? The girls slayer...lol.
So that's my story on this subject.
BTW, I was her first love. She was mine too. Still is. Cuz I hadn't loved any other girl the way I loved her. The feeling was real. But why I still cheated beats my understanding?? Then do we really love? Is there love? Ok there is....but how come I still fell for .....

Anyway, it's bee. 4 years (2016) and counting, since we both last heard from each other. I guess it was time to go. Of course I had my sad days. Cried, even when I was the one who did the breaking of heart. That's how I knew I loved her. The rest I thought I loved, were just me deceiving my self. She's the only girl I've ever loved. And I don't think I can love again. Even though I'm currently dating a girl....who knows we are just passing away time... cuz marriage will surely not happen. Sounds harsh, right? Well, that's the truth! And we are both fine with it. I guess people just do not like to be lonely, or stay alone. Hmmm..

Oh, now memories are being invoked. Sigh...I don't like feeling this way. But it was an experience of a lifetime. So many good and bad moments. Ups and downs.. lessons, new culture exchanges, and so on.

Can't find any of her social media pages and she can't find mine. So I guess we'll never speak again...awwwn...why do I feel like sobbing right now. But no! I'm good...I'm fine.
I've grown past missing her. Those dark days are gone. But I can't help mimicking her sometimes when I'm here by myself. The things she used to say, and how she used to say them. I even mock her, yab her ...while thinking out loud and talking to myself. O guess she really had an impact on my soul (not just my body and life)
Well that's what you get when youv'e slept with a particular girl, constantly for years. You likely become one flesh, just like the Good Book says...besides, we were younger. The love was sweeter and blossoming...tho we were both annoying in our individual ways towards each other.
Life happened.
The end.

Datboredbery, you see what you made me do ...Now I'm nostalgic...but also taking in the lessons learnt. Kai...I want to hug somebody right now...these emotions are innocent. God, keep and protect her wherever she is right now **bear hug!!**

As for the rest! The other exes. They can go and get it somewhere else! Fakers. Good riddance to bad rubbish... Lol

Temmylee01:
and how will You react if reverse were to be the case