His girlfriend of barely two months, told him if she's interested in starting a new life in US, because she's making plans to travel outside the country before they meet, and that the plan will be executed next year. Our brother has no plan of traveling, but to settle down with his family in the country. What do you advise?

Let him link her to me. Na joke I dey ooooo. On a serious note, both of them have a divergent view on their longtime plan when it comes to location. The relationship is just starting if they can't compromise on their location plans then it is difficult to seek a longtime union may be a short-time relationship will suffice for the interim.

ExudeLoveToAll:
Let him link her to me. Na joke I dey ooooo. On a serious note, both of them have a divergent view on their longtime plan when it comes to location. The relationship is just starting if they can compromise on their location plans then it is difficult to seek a longtime union may be a short-time relationship will suffice for the interim.

Thanks a bunch.

If they have money to take care of themselves they should travel out of this hell country… there’s nothing in Nigeria

Bobo, how much is she bringing to the table?

He should think twice to make a decision. Their relationship is just new, Abroad is not Nigeria. She should be ready to give 50% financially too

Well, it depends on many things. I like baby girls like her.

The thing is there are some men that ain't evn interested in leaving (migration) this country. Since his babe is relocating and she wants them both to start a life there, the decision is on the man now.

If he is interested in living overseas, then he can start his own processing also especially if he's got the funds to do that. But if he ain't interested in relocating, he should just let the babe leave peacefully and break up with her before she leaves.

Tejumola856:
If they have money to take of themselves they should travel out of this hell country… there’s nothing in Nigeria

Hmmm... Thanks.

AlhajiNatty:
Bobo, how much is she bringing to the table?

He asked her how she plans to carry out it, she told her that when they get to the bridge they'll know how to cross it.

aanuoluwami14:
He should think twice to make a decision. Their relationship is just new, Abroad is not Nigeria. She should be ready to give 50% financially too

Good advice. Appreciate

MufasaLion:
Well, it depends on many things. I like baby girls like her.

The thing is there are some men that ain't evn interested in leaving (migration) this country. Since his babe is relocating and she wants them both to start a life there, the decision is on the man now.

If he is interested in living overseas, then he can start his own processing also especially if he's got the funds to do that. But if he ain't interested in relocating, he should just let the babe leave peacefully and break up with her before she leaves.

Appreciate your comments.

My babe told me same thing back then when we were dating. I wished her well to chase her dreamz and even advice her to be a graduate .My naija guys mocked me then, saying mak i hook am before she comot. I told dem i cnt stop her destiny. I even connect her to my homie at indianapolis to assist around which he did. lo and behold babe enta abroad and the abroad thing enter her head,9 months after story changed...she cut communications...she enter pre-intimacy........belle turn baby.The rest is story....

Guy just focus on developing yourself and forget loving you mata...my 2cent...

lightdream:
My babe told me same thing back then when we were dating. I wished her well to chase her dreamz and even advice her to be a graduate .My naija guys mocked me then, saying mak i hook am before she comot. I told dem i cnt stop her destiny. I even connect her to my homie at indianapolis to assist around which he did. lo and behold babe enta abroad and the abroad thing enter her head,9 months after story changed...she cut communications...she enter pre-intimacy........belle turn baby.The rest is story....

Guy just focus on developing yourself and forget loving you mata...my 2cent...

I love ur way.... Exactly same thing was said to me by my babe then... Sh gats d funds.. but stingy and a feminist... I strongly believe she would change from her feminist mindset if I marry her here because norms and tradition will pressure her. But to follow that girl go Canada..? God forbid!

One of the reason why i kick people with my rain boot



Damn.. Nasty.. I'm out of here