God1000:
I just came across a story on Facebook today, a man was lamenting and seeking for advice on what to do, he's at his wit's end.
Here's the story, the man lost his wife at child's birth and after awhile he met another lady that assisted him in raising the child, he eventually had a soft spot for her and sent her to university with the hope of marrying the girl the moment she finishes from school.

The problem now is that the lady doesn't pick his calls like before, she hardly calls him and the man is nonplussed.

Why are ladies giving guys every justifiable reason not to help them
again?
Is this smartness or turpitude?

this article sometime look like pouring water inside basket.

God1000:
I just came across a story on Facebook today, a man was lamenting and seeking for advice on what to do, he's at his wit's end.
Here's the story, the man lost his wife at child's birth and after awhile he met another lady that assisted him in raising the child, he eventually had a soft spot for her and sent her to university with the hope of marrying the girl the moment she finishes from school.

The problem now is that the lady doesn't pick his calls like before, she hardly calls him and the man is nonplussed.

Why are ladies giving guys every justifiable reason not to help them
again?
Is this smartness or turpitude?

It's the most foolish thing to do , rather if you like a girl , get her to like you , marry her as your wife and then train your wife in school but either way I won't advice anyone to do such , ladies are unpredictable .

The man na mumu. If I wan train a girl in school with the hope of marrying her later, first thing na to shook am pregnancy. I go arrange her schooling after that

AlphaAlex:
if you present yourself to a woman a certain way she will eventually understand the idea you have about her in your head and therefore continue to play the role you perceive her to be for instance if you think she’s a good girl and she can do no wrong in your sights she will continue to play the good girl role for you as long as she can because she knows that’s what you see her as. Women act differently to different people the side of her that you appreciate the most that’s the side she will continue to show you until you discover the other side . Why do you think many men say their wives changed after marrying them ? Because she was playing a part in order to secure a certain commitment. If she sees you have money and you are constantly putting it in her face that you have money she will adjust her behavior to please you so you can spend some on her, if she’s rude to others she may not be so rude to you because her eyes are on the prize. If she tells you she doesn’t do certain things and you believe her she will keep up the act while being able to do same things with another person so in your mind you have a fixed view of her which is not who she really is.

Baba, the wealth of your wisdom will increase. More joy for you.

I want to ask two questions,

1, There are some girls that act as born again, devoted girls, does that means they may also have black side for some one else.

2, is this applicable to all girls attitude I means their life style, how girls behave.

Teach me on this
What should be the best approach to have a girl then either as wife or girlfriend, but base your enlightenment for me on wife.

Thanks,

Olam09:


E happen to one of my guy man too, em dey sponsor one fine girl like that for close to 3 years.. you no go believe me say the guy don spend more than a million naira ontop this ungrateful girl.. they guy pay em waec money, neco money, jamb fee and many other stuff em dey always give her feeding money i think 700 or 1k a day.. Meanwhile the girl don turn olosho now dey give my guy man attitude. That my guy man self just dump we com dey tell am say make em drop the motherfucker e talk say e just wan dey yansh am omo.. some guys are just very foolish. Her parent knows about their relationship and how the guy has been helping her since all this years dem no even fit talk sense to her daughter.

All the story is about you

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Tboymessiah:


All the story is about you

Not me bro I'm not a fool..

Offpoint1:
Any guy doing that or thinking about doing it should stop.

I have a female friend which her boyfriend has been sponsoring her schools for years, she's serving now. She confided in me that should won't marry the guy... I was heartbroken cuz I knew this guy through her, very quiet guy. I won't even state what he does for a living, this compounds the pain.

Only train a woman you're married to, women generally are emotionally unstable... Only few are deeply deeply in love can withstand the temptations out there.

Even this DOESN'T a 100% commitment. If she want to Leave, She will still Leave.

Nicklaus619:
Mistakes that could easily be corrected,

if i was the man, i will first of all gets her pregnant, marry her , she gives birth then we discuss school, just when she's gain admission, boom I get her pregnant again, she will birth my kids before she graduate

This is the real deal

blackgold2018:
shut tha hell up.
She’s your niece and your responsibility. I have a niece too. I’m not after her appreciating but I’m after her happiness.
Evil man

You're actually the evil man! What's wrong with being grateful to those who helped you? Why do you think people do Thanksgiving to God for being good to them??

Olam09:


Not me bro I'm not a fool..

Hahaha, Galant you my man

Please , I’m not good at begging , but I’m willing to .My roommate and I rent of #150k for our one bedroom flat have been due for renewal since September. We do share the bills 75k each , but unfortunately for him he buried the mother last month , which was our saving grace so far . We have sold off our TV , generator and GoTV decoder and antenna realizing #85k . Please we need #65k to complete it this week . Already the caretaker/land lady has has given us quit notice . My details are on my signature or 3152948478 First Bank . You can call or WhatsApp me to confirm if you wish . I stay around Works Layout Owerri , Imo state. We both school in IMSU . Any amount , I’m grateful.

Na 1.2 odd wey fit spoil anytime be that

Any mumu man that is still sponsoring the education of some girl in the hope of marrying her someday deserves any calamity that befalls him.

Tboymessiah:


Baba, the wealth of your wisdom will increase. More joy for you.

I want to ask two questions,

1, There are some girls that act as born again, devoted girls, does that means they may also have black side for some one else.

2, is this applicable to all girls attitude I means their life style, how girls behave.

Teach me on this
What should be the best approach to have a girl then either as wife or girlfriend, but base your enlightenment for me on wife.

Thanks,

Well for your First Question. Yes …
All women have a dual nature. They have a public and Private image . The public image is for everyone the private image is for a select few, and those are the people she’s sexually attracted to. I’m sure you are aware of the Dreaded friendZone . That’s the place for the people she’s not really attracted to but is willing to entertain every bit of attention from them.

Every girl is like this it’s ingrained in them.


If she’s forming As a church girl she’s just acting out her public image and she’s going to do everything to protect that image so society doesn’t see her as a Slut or something like that, over the years women have learned how society views people… now she will reveal herself to you based on the manner you approach her.


Remember this the moment you open your mouth to speak to a woman she’s thinking of the particular Zone to put you in and if she senses you cannot handle her sexual side she’ll give you a full dose of her public image.

Haven’t you ever wondered why most girls In church never sleep with their church members And even if they do it’s with a person that’s considered a “Bad Guy” in Church who is Able to keep things low key?… Basically if you Approach her with the Mindset of being friends first then she’ll treat you as a friend for as long as she can and that’s where most guys fail with women they don’t have the balls to tell them that they are sexually attracted and interested in them and thus try to use the friend zone to get to sex thus they invest their time and attention Hoping one day she’ll Cave in to Sex or offer it on a Platter . You should be able to communicate your sexual interest in her without being rude or fearful if she Agrees to get down with you then you have a responsibility to keep it Lowkey if she doesn’t agree then you know she’s not sexually attracted to you and so you move on. Never be clingy or bitter just quietly withdraw your attention and focus on the chicks that will give you sex easy. Once you get sex out of the way you can enjoy other benefits from women understand that money doesn’t impress women your personality is what impresses her don’t be fooled by social media women and their Cash mentality they are just looking for suckers to Drain of Attention and Money. Every Woman no matter how beautiful or Porsche she looks has a man she’s letting hit for free No matter what she says Don’t believe the Hype.

If you want to make a girl your girlfriend you must make sure she’s willing to Expose her sexual side to you First hand and you yourself have to have a good understanding of how women are Nature and Emotions Control a greater part of their behavior that’s why they may say one thing and do another thing. You mustn’t rush to make her your girlfriend just off the bat she has to prove herself to you that she really wants to be with you

No no

Sermwell:

You're actually the evil man! What's wrong with being grateful to those who helped you? Why do you think people do Thanksgiving to God for being good to them??

my basis here is she is your niece.

wen ladies are on guys neck to marry dem, u com go fall mugu, train am for other guy to marry! Ewe!!!

Sermwell:

This is the real deal

blackgold2018:
shut tha hell up.
She’s your niece and your responsibility. I have a niece too. I’m not after her appreciating but I’m after her happiness.
Evil man

What do you know Mr man, someone that refused to pick my calls after four years of intense sacrifice, You have no Idea what you are talking about

I didn't get such help while growing up, there was nothing like uncle, I was helping myself in school and at the same time assisting her.

This is not nice. If you know you don’t want a man, leave his money alone. Stop attracting curses to you

I am not begging for money only your support,Good evening all, please and please support me by clicking the like button on this YouTube page,
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jgJQ4m189nY it will go a very long way for me before December 12. God bless you all abundantly as you do so Amen

If you are a wealthy philanthropist, why not?
If you are struggling to get by, not advisable.
If your hidden motive is to compel her to marry you, you are on the wrong track.

Allow the idiot to graduate. Go for NYSC. Track her while she is coming back from NYSC. Obtain all the credentials.
Only those ones u sponsored oooo.
If u didn't sponsor her for Primary and secondary school, better leave the o level.
Take the ones u sponsored and do the needful.
U can do date in arrangee

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

heeeyyyyyyu!!!!!! Mosdi is back

AlphaAlex:
Well for your First Question. Yes …
All women have a dual nature. They have a public and Private image . The public image is for everyone the private image is for a select few, and those are the people she’s sexually attracted to. I’m sure you are aware of the Dreaded friendZone . That’s the place for the people she’s not really attracted to but is willing to entertain every bit of attention from them.

Every girl is like this it’s ingrained in them.


If she’s forming As a church girl she’s just acting out her public image and she’s going to do everything to protect that image so society doesn’t see her as a Slut or something like that, over the years women have learned how society views people… now she will reveal herself to you based on the manner you approach her.


Remember this the moment you open your mouth to speak to a woman she’s thinking of the particular Zone to put you in and if she senses you cannot handle her sexual side she’ll give you a full dose of her public image.

Haven’t you ever wondered why most girls In church never sleep with their church members And even if they do it’s with a person that’s considered a “Bad Guy” in Church who is Able to keep things low key?… Basically if you Approach her with the Mindset of being friends first then she’ll treat you as a friend for as long as she can and that’s where most guys fail with women they don’t have the balls to tell them that they are sexually attracted and interested in them and thus try to use the friend zone to get to sex thus they invest their time and attention Hoping one day she’ll Cave in to Sex or offer it on a Platter . You should be able to communicate your sexual interest in her without being rude or fearful if she Agrees to get down with you then you have a responsibility to keep it Lowkey if she doesn’t agree then you know she’s not sexually attracted to you and so you move on. Never be clingy or bitter just quietly withdraw your attention and focus on the chicks that will give you sex easy. Once you get sex out of the way you can enjoy other benefits from women understand that money doesn’t impress women your personality is what impresses her don’t be fooled by social media women and their Cash mentality they are just looking for suckers to Drain of Attention and Money. Every Woman no matter how beautiful or Porsche she looks has a man she’s letting hit for free No matter what she says Don’t believe the Hype.

If you want to make a girl your girlfriend you must make sure she’s willing to Expose her sexual side to you First hand and you yourself have to have a good understanding of how women are Nature and Emotions Control a greater part of their behavior that’s why they may say one thing and do another thing. You mustn’t rush to make her your girlfriend just off the bat she has to prove herself to you that she really wants to be with you

Baami o, I salute you, na notice board this one go dey for my room

God1000:

What do you know Mr man, someone that refused to pick my calls after four years of intense sacrifice, You have no Idea what you are talking about

I didn't get such help while growing up, there was nothing like uncle, I was helping myself in school and at the same time assisting her.

if I would hear her own side of the story, it might be otherwise.
People like you help and still ask for something in return OR
probably insulting and enslaving the person indirectly.

If she doesn’t appreciate you. Move on, only God rewards good deeds. Having a regret for helping her is evil. You two are no different.

blackgold2018:
if I would hear her own side of the story, it might be otherwise.
People like you help and still ask for something in return OR
probably insulting and enslaving the person indirectly.

If she doesn’t appreciate you. Move on, only God rewards good deeds. Having a regret for helping her is evil. You two are no different.

indeed, you are obviously a lunatic.
You will get such treatment someday and you will know how it feels

God1000:
indeed, you are obviously a lunatic.
You will get such treatment someday and you will know how it feels

lol.. I’m not an emotional being like you.
I have gone through a lot more.
You obviously have a small mind. You know nothing.

Is not bad to train a woman in school but before you take that decision you should first train yourself or better still you should be in the same school with her.

If a woman gets educated more than you, believe me you have lost her to another man.

LoveUdie:
Is not bad to train a woman in school but before you take that decision you should first train yourself or better still you should be in the same school with her.

If a woman gets educated more than you, believe me you have lost her to another man.

That's obviously the truth in this case