Richashell:
We go outside. Mine is 4 years no sex. I have tried everything to make it work but she says no.

God!

emmaodet:


For now No but I still keep my options open just to regularly keep the food warm and not cold.
In other words - even though I am not cheating, I still keep ladies around.
Occasional calls and messages from them keeps my wife on her toes and she knows deep down, she can’t use sex as a weapon on me.

Hmm... I can't live like this.



Ain't never getting married. Nope, not me.

Preshieben:
you're not OP nahh

You may find me better than the OP. You may like me better than the OP.

ahnie:

I was very active whilst single,crazily spontaneous loves head.but unfortunately whom I m married too isn't a fan.so it finally killed my spoil for sex and my libido packed up and went on a vacay.

But a good head from him might resuscitate those old gone libidos.but we don't share same sexual orientation.

So I packed my kpekus off for good and only procreation purposes.but I m done with child birth.

My God!
Hope you allowed him cheat in peace

Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping

Your wife is always complaining that she is tired? Hmmm! Are you sure someone else is not responsible for making her get so tired frequently? Or is it the nature of her work? Is she doing hard work or soft work? Get to the root of the matter and do the needful.

franchasng:
If your wife starves you of sex, as a married man myself, I can boldly tell you that she is either not so attracted to you or she doesn't love you that much.


My own wife is hot, classy and too busy, yet she chases me around with it. I am even the one that tries to convince her that we dont need to make it a too frequent stuff so we both don't get tired of it with time, and to also give me time to concentrate on my numerous other engagements.



Any married man that his wife is starving of sex should know that three things are involved;

1) she is not so attracted to you the husband

2) she is falling out of love with you for some underlying reasons you need to find out.


3) she is seeing someone else or planning to

This is nonsense. If your wife has a high libido, it's not the case with many other men

Hi Writer, Please provide me with your digits and let's discuss.
Thank you

cooooooks:
Sex is not a chore.

This is why compatibility is important.

Also, some studies show that women have higher sex drives. Men tend to have higher self-reported drives.

There are some men who plan their movements to avoid their women, and save their waists.

Never knew you were saving your waist

Why you dey surveil my waist?

Loreettaa:

Never knew you were saving your waist

Richashell:
We go outside. Mine is 4 years no sex. I have tried everything to make it work but she says no.

4 years with no sex? and you consider yourself still married?
You know a dead bedroom of just one year is enough grounds for divorce.
You need to move on and find someone who finds you sexually attractive. So what are you gaining from the marriage?

ahnie:
What of me that hasn't had sex close to a year?

Close to a year ? But ahnie you are married. That means you are the one denying oga.
I am voracious when it comes to sex , I can't stay one month without it. Highest two weeks when I'm annoyed with oga

Coachie Lala

Pinkzebra:



Close to a year ? But ahnie you are married. That means you are the one denying oga.
I am voracious when it comes to sex , I can't stay one month without it. Highest two weeks when I'm annoyed with oga

Champion of the niger...Lolz

GrantIkenna:

I used to have the same problem, at a point I begin reason suicide, because my metabolism was messed up and I was always sick after masturbating.

I noticed something, whenever I ate fruits, banana, yogurt and nutritious foods, I don't have that issue, so I started taking food supplements to meet up as my salary no fit afford chicken and yogurt everyday.

The name is VITADAY, just go to any pharmacy, it's sold for 600 naira, 30 tablets.
The downside is that if you want to stop taking it, you will have to switch to nutritious foods.
I take it everyday and for the past 5 months I have been fine.

Sometimes sef , I lash babe, four rounds and not worry about being sick

Hey man. Please did you notice any body odor or consistent bad breath at the time? What were the symptoms please?

Help2020:

I jealous una wen dey masturbate without side effect. Me I non fit try masturbate for a day again, except I wan suffer for days.

Please what are the symptoms you notice after masturbating? Any bad breath or body odor?

Gaggii:

Y are like that, shey na cruise abi dey actually dont like sex again

Once a woman has 2 kids or more, they don't really need sex any more and their affection is now transferred to the kids plus some of the after birth practices we do in Africa like a woman sitting on a potty of hot steaming water laced with dettol and herbs in my opinion actually cooks that area such that it loses its sensitivity and feeling and could result in the woman no longer feeling anything during sex which then becomes a chore.

Also, if a woman had a difficult delivery that resulted in a tear that needed stitching then this may also result in that area not being the same again and lead to her not feeling her man again if you get my drift.

After birth, smart women who value their marriage have to work extra to meet Baba's "other room needs " if they don't want someone else to step in and give Baba some tlc.

Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping

Tell her to put out or to get out. A marriage works if both partners do their job - if you are the one that works hard to sustain your entire family, you are entitled to enjoy sex. On the other hand if you don't do your part you can't really complain she doesn't do hers..

Cheers

Preshieben:
let me be ya side chick..
I make my own money,so keep yours
I just like it with people's husband

What Da Bleep!


Nne, Lets roll naa....

It baffles me how a woman wil just want to b on her own for several months without having sexual urge

Kayceealex:


My question is ABEG NA YOU TYPE ALL THIS THINGS
If the answer is yes did you read it too??
If the answer is no then stop stressing us biko.

LMAO. Mad people full this forum

Sometimes it looks like this life wasn't designed for men to benefit anything at all.... See matters arising.

GrantIkenna:

I used to have the same problem, at a point I begin reason suicide, because my metabolism was messed up and I was always sick after masturbating.

I noticed something, whenever I ate fruits, banana, yogurt and nutritious foods, I don't have that issue, so I started taking food supplements to meet up as my salary no fit afford chicken and yogurt everyday.

The name is VITADAY, just go to any pharmacy, it's sold for 600 naira, 30 tablets.
The downside is that if you want to stop taking it, you will have to switch to nutritious foods.
I take it everyday and for the past 5 months I have been fine.

Sometimes sef , I lash babe, four rounds and not worry about being sick

is dis VITADAY like a multivitamin or what

ahnie:
What of me that hasn't had sex close to a year?

It's not an achievement.

Help2020:

I jealous una wen dey masturbate without side effect. Me I non fit try masturbate for a day again, except I wan suffer for days.

How does Masturbation makes you suffer?
Or better still what negative effects does it have on you?

gonkin:
I've been single for almost a year. When i was dating and my last girl travelled for a long i still never ever cheated. Its one of the few advantages of fiddling with sergeant sausage. You dont need someone else to quench ur urges. Its one of the reasons i know I'll be able to control myself always. Konji can make you think and commit stupid things. I hate masturbation but sometimes i think of the things i would have done if i didn't milk myself. Just be careful, masturbation can be addictive and also it delays ejaculation so its 25mins at least per round especially with an aparatus that got enlarged due to massaging. Dont know if its just me. I haven't had sex for a year and im still sane. Maybe that's why i dont lie about my feelings cuz konji can make u propose feelings for the wrong person.

Wouldnt advice the ice method.

You're a real G. You don make me dey laff anyhow for here. Sergeant sausage .

You're right sha, konji go make you get feelings until post nut clarity sets in.

HenryDion:


This is where dating is very important. You can't date someone for six months without knowing her true colours. Unfortunately, most of you overlook the red flags and forge ahead into marriage.

I disagree.

Desperate women who are willing to do anything to get married will go to great lengths to hide their true selves.

I've seen people who legit hate sex become pornstars until they're legally married then they go cold turkey.

I'm an atheist and I'm always around religious women who pretend that they don't care about my lack of religiosity. But they actually deeply do. If I mistake put one for house, she'll frustrate me till I go church.

Na their way.

atheistandproud:


I disagree.

Desperate women who are willing to do anything to get married will go to great lengths to hide their true selves.

I've seen people who legit hate sex become pornstars until they're legally married them they go cold turkey.

I'm an atheist and I'm always around religious women who pretend that they don't care about my lack of religiosity. But they actually deeply do. If I mistake put one for house, she'll frustrate me till I go church.

Na their way.

All to feign tolerance. They tell on themselves eventually.

1Sharon:


All to feign tolerance. They tell on themselves eventually.

I feel really bad about this.

I know men pretend too. I won't lie about that. We pretend. But thankfully these days many don dey clean up their act.

But our ladies ehn. The way dem carry marriage for head. It's not about the ceremony alone. There's a whole ass life after it.

But many ladies don't look beyond the ceremony. They just like to wear the gown and show off to their friends. After the wedding, back to status quo.

Lots of ladies date men that they aren't attracted to or even flat out don't like because he'll confer the title of Mrs on her.

Then you'll start seeing stories like this.

womenareapess:
this is want you get by marrying a baboon as a wife

Those useless piece of shiit called naija women are the very least thing I would ever think of marrying!

Those apes don't deserve my diicck

You and Mosdii will not kill me

omoharry:
If it domestic work that is making her tired, then get her a help or assist her in shores around the house and caring for the children, so that she will be less tired for couple night time .

It is not domestic work.
My friend once had 3 housemaids to a son and a wife. Yet he always complained of same issue. And this is someone that married her because of the frequent sex when they were dating.
Op is not alone, like someone said, 70% of married men are going through this, rich or poor.

3 housemaids to a son? Uncle Lai Mohammed

layzie:


It is not domestic work.
My friend once had 3 housemaids to a son and a wife. Yet he always complained of same issue. And this is someone that married her because of the frequent sex when they were dating.
Op is not alone, like someone said, 70% of married men are going through this, rich or poor.

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