Good day, Fellas. Why do Some guys think spending on ladies will make ladies love them? Tonight, a guy was wooing a girl who sells things in a very poor and SIMPle manner. The girl just kept mute without responding. All of sudden, i overheard his SIMP friend telling him to give her money like #500, that she will smile. I was just laughing in my mind. I'm still wondering whether the money he intend to give the girl was for Acceptance fee.

Only Simp does that

Speding on women is what makes a sensible daughter get a husband.

It is Pure Insanity for A man to Lay himself down on the line for a PROSTITUTE to milk him dry of his hard earned money.

It's just like Mental slavery,you are a slave but you just don't realize it yet.

Olarewaju89:
Only Simp does that

They think they would get genuine love from these ladies by SIMPly impressing them with money and gifts.

Yinkakolawole:
Speding on women is what makes a sensible daughter get a husband.

Huh?

vibbb:
[b]Because most ladies has commercialised love. Many for hand - back for ground. Truelove those not exist in this part of the world anymore. b]

You don't see that the men who believe it can be bought are the likely at the genesis of it all? I mean how else does a man commit to paying for love if he himself is not already convinced it ought to be so?

Yinkakolawole:
Speding on women is what makes a sensible daughter get a husband.

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Truvelisback:
Good day, Fellas. Why do Some guys think spending on ladies will make ladies love them? Tonight, a guy was wooing a girl who sells things in a very poor and SIMPle manner. The girl just kept mute without responding. All of sudden, i overheard his SIMP friend telling him to give her money like #500, that she will smile. I was just laughing in mind. I'm still wondering whether the money he intend to give the girl was for Acceptance fee.

Because that's what some men have to offer, money, lol.

liya11:


Because that's what some men have to offer, money, lol.

Does that money gauranty the true love and faithfulness? It only gauranties fake love and faithfulness.

Wonder wonder

Truvelisback:
Does that money gauranty the true love and faithfulness? It only gauranties fake love and faithfulness.

Of course it doesn't guarantee true love, but some guys doesn't see it that way.

Country hard, so they gonna appreciate ur money gifts

OP
Currently, in Nigeria, if you DO NOT spend on a Naija Girl, she CANNOT love you!
Never!
Aside dat, Der is a Thing about spending about on Ladies you should know.
It gives them this Feeling that they were Queens or Princesses they are pampered always..

So Forget it.
Some Girls (particularly Naija girls) Will Fall in love when Money is Spent on dem!
They will Also give the Guy the..u know..

I have one stupid girl like that before who only comes around when I am buoyant .. I recently noticed she was taking advantage of my open hands and I am waiting for her next time

Olarewaju89:
Only Simp does that

its not a matter of being a simp or what so ever, its the way it is. You have to take her out, and you know ladies like good things, thats the only way you can attract her to open her thighs. Unless she is the one after you, which is very rear, forget all these girls, Most of them are bitches, they only tell you they love you, on conditions you are giving her what she wants. Is that what love is

One of the worst thing that can ever happen to a man is to be a simp. Pls, snap out of simphood.

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

toujurs:
its not a matter of being a simp or what so ever, its the way it is. You have to take her out, and you know ladies like good things, thats the only way you can attract her to open her thighs. Unless she is the one after you, which is very rear, forget all these girls, Most of them are bitches, they only tell you they love you, on conditions you are giving her what she wants. Is that what love is

That's the only way u can attract her to open her thighs. hmmmm, i see......In that case, they are not different prostitutes because money too can open the legs prostitutes. The only difference is btw them is that, they stress u and make u exhaust ur income b4 allowing u to see their thighs while the prostitutes never stresses u and make u exhaust ur income b4 allowing u to see their thighs. So, there is nothing like love if it's what u mean.

Truvelisback:
That's the only way u can attract her to open her thighs. hmmmm, i see......In that case, they are not different prostitutes because money too can open the legs prostitutes. The only difference is btw them is that, they stress u and make u exhaust ur income b4 allowing u to see their thighs while the prostitutes never stresses u and make u exhaust ur income b4 allowing u to see their thighs. So, there is nothing like love if it's what u mean.

Exactly, u get my point, they still stress you oh, ontop the gifts and money, it makes them feel important, they enjoy when a guy, calls and text them for their attention. Lolz, a guy could love a lady unconditionally, even go as far as setting up a business for her, providing for her and the family but a lady would hardly do this, its just few ladies that could help their man, if she has, i once dated some selfish ladies, not one, not two, she will keep her own salary in her bag, for saving, and open her mouth wide to eat mine, recklessly.

toujurs:
Exactly, u get my point, they still stress you oh, ontop the gifts and money, it makes them feel important, they enjoy when a guy, calls and text them for their attention. Lolz, a guy could love a lady unconditionally, even go as far as setting up a business for her, providing for her and the family but a lady would hardly do this, its just few ladies that could help their man, if she has, i once dated some selfish ladies, not one, not two, she will keep her own salary in her bag, for saving, and open her mouth wide to eat mine, recklessly.

This is really sad. I was chatting with a guy yesterday, the guy is not that financially bouyant. He is an huzzler. he told me that he don't think he would get married to any lady. And that if at all he becomes rich and get married to a lady one day, if the lady tells him that she loves him, he won't believe her. Even if she claims her love for him is genuine.

Truvelisback:
This is really sad. I was chatting with a guy yesterday, the guy is not that financially bouyant. He is an huzzler. he told me that he don't think he would get married to any lady. And that if at all he becomes rich and get married to a lady one day, if the lady tells him that she loves him, he won't believe her. Even if she claims her love for him is genuine.

We just have to love women like that. For peace of the mind, if start checking all these true love of a thing, supportive, smart or hardworking features, you might not get a wife. For peace of the mind just don't expect much, what i won't tolerate is me giving my wife money, and she gives some to her ex, i fit beat nonsense comot her head.

toujurs:
We just have to love women like that. For peace of the mind, if start checking all these true love of a thing, supportive, smart or hardworking features, you might not get a wife. For peace of the mind just don't expect much, what i won't tolerate is me giving my wife money, and she gives some to her ex, i fit beat nonsense comot her head.

Na true sha.

I wonder why you used the word "man" in your narrative. You needed to have been specific. Only simps do what you said.

Nonexisting:
I wonder why you used the word "man" in your narrative. You needed to have been specific. Only simps do what you said.

Bro, na which word i for use? They have Dick too.

toujurs:
We just have to love women like that. For peace of the mind, if start checking all these true love of a thing, supportive, smart or hardworking features, you might not get a wife. Forget peace of the mind just don't expect much, what i won't tolerate is me giving my wife money, and she gives some to her ex, i fit beat nonsense comot her head.

Who are the we Biko?
Because me I will DEFINITELY check for all these things...
It is because folks like you have decided to not check "these things" that lots of women act the way they do... Cause when men stop settliyfor less, every lady out there will start upping their game...

It's high time men start having standards!
Why settle for less?!!! OR maybe it's because you have a low self-esteem that's why you just want to settle for just anything... Maybe you think you don't deserve a woman with all those qualities you said you won't check for? Maybe you don't think you're good enough to have such a woman, maybe...

Well that's you...
As for me, if a woman does not have those qualities you mentioned up there and more, she has no business being in my life!!

I better stay unmarried than be with a woman who is not supportive, smart, hardworking et al...


To all the men reading this...
YOU DESERVE A SUPPORTIVE WOMAN...
YOU DESERVE TO BE LOVED EXACTLY AS YOURE LOVED..
YOU DESERVE TO BE SPOIL THE SAME WAY YOURE SPOILING HER...

AND DONT SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS!!

Favfables1:


Who are the we Biko?
Because me I will DEFINITELY check for all these things...
It is because folks like you have decided to not check "these things" that lots of women act the way they do... Cause when men stop settliyfor less, every lady out there will start upping their game...

It's high time men start having standards!
Why settle for less?!!! OR maybe it's because you have a low self-esteem that's why you just want to settle for just anything... Maybe you think you don't deserve a woman with all those qualities you said you won't check for? Maybe you don't think you're good enough to have such a woman, maybe...

Well that's you...
As for me, if a woman does not have those qualities you mentioned up there and more, she has no business being in my life!!

I better stay unmarried than be with a woman who is not supportive, smart, hardworking et al...


To all the men reading this...
YOU DESERVE A SUPPORTIVE WOMAN...
YOU DESERVE TO BE LOVED EXACTLY AS YOURE LOVED..
YOU DESERVE TO BE SPOIL THE SAME WAY YOURE SPOILING HER...

AND DONT SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS!!

its not about having low self esteem, its about not wasting much time before getting married, that doesn't mean u should settle for a prostitute, thats not what i mean, i meant like searching for that special one could be very very stressful, and disappointing, because it seem the best of them are just remaining 10 in number

Vinnie2000:

OP
Currently, in Nigeria, if you DO NOT spend on a Naija Girl, she CANNOT love you!
Never!
Aside dat, Der is a Thing about spending about on Ladies you should know.
It gives them this Feeling that they were Queens or Princesses they are pampered always..

So Forget it.
Some Girls (particularly Naija girls) Will Fall in love when Money is Spent on dem!
They will Also give the Guy the..u know..

What then happens when u go broke? Will the love still conitue?

Truvelisback:
What then happens when u go broke? Will the love still conitue?

Then she moves on!

According to Rick Ross in Money in the Grave, 'She Fuccked a nigga and she on the Next'..

Really, relationship in Naija is all about Money! Spend on her wella. If you are Lucky, she gives you the coochies..
After dat, she either stays on or the relationship crashes!

A Win, win for both parties involved!

toujurs:
its not about having low self esteem, its about not wasting much time before getting married, that doesn't mean u should settle for a prostitute, thats not what i mean, i meant like searching for that special one could be very very stressful, and disappointing, because it seem the best of them are just remaining 10 in number

My apologies if I sounded rude up earlier on Chief...

I respect your views on the matter, buh I don't agree with them...

I understand that lots of ladies today are not worth it, however, I feel it's better to wait for long and get the woman of your dreams than just settle for just anyone just because "you don't want to waste time"...

I feel marriage is a very important and life long decision and as such, we must be VERY CAREFUL when choosing our spouses, cause this is the person you'll eat with, live with, plan with, have a child with and do other important stuff with... Thus we can't just rush into it like that....

Buh it's awk Sha...
I pray we all find good spouses ...