A man dates a girl... Gets her pregnant... She gives birth... A few weeks/months/years later she runs away leaving the child with him... He's left to raise the child alone... He seeks a second chance... A woman who would assist him to raise his child... Blah blah blah...

1. He is the reason for his misfortune...

2. He made the choice to be a single-father/baby daddy...

3. He should have known that the woman was bad...

4. He's a second-hand man not deserving of a 'new' single woman...

5. The only reason he wants a do-over is because he needs a nanny for his child...

6. He is liable to get back with his ex...or fuçk her...

7. He's a risk, since he once made a bad choice...

Blah blah blah...

Datboredberry:


A man dates a girl... Gets her pregnant... She gives birth... A few weeks/months/years later she runs away leaving the child with him... He's left to raise the child alone... He seeks a second chance... A woman who would assist him to raise his child... Blah blah blah...
1. He is the reason for his misfortune...

what misfortune are you talking about...? being a father (whether single or married) is a blessing....count your blessings!

2. He made the choice to be a single-father/baby daddy...

how was that a choice? he made a mistake that resulted in him being a single father/babydaddy...yes. then you move on and adapt.

3. He should have known that the woman was bad...

accidents do happen (aka condom broke), some women are good at hiding their true nature etc, being bad isnt written on people's forehaed.

4. He's a second-hand man not deserving of a 'new' single woman...

because he is a single father, that doesnt dismiss him from finding a good woman out there to be with (single or otherwise). this blame state of mind is not productive. if he finds a good woman, and they click and they both understand what they are getting into, then so be it.

5. The only reason he wants a do-over is because he needs a nanny for his child...

he needs someone to help him in his life possibly.... because two is better than one, but i am sure he can manage on his own too,

6. He is liable to get back with his ex...or fuçk her...

arrant nonsense from low self esteem immature nd insecure people

7. He's a risk, since he once made a bad choice...

most people learn from their bad choices, most people grow from their bad choices, most people get better with their bad choices...a bad choice is just that, dont make it define you,

Blah blah blah...

MrBrownJay1:


what misfortune are you talking about...being a father (whether single or married) is a blessing....count your blessings!

No! It's a curse.... There worse thing a man can be is a baby daddy...

how was that a choice? he made a mistake that resulted in him being a single father/babydaddy...yes.

He could have not made the mistake... I won't explain but it's his fault...

accidents do happen (aka condom broke), some women are good at hiding their true nature etc

You're a baby daddy sympathizer? You're trying to put the blame on women!

because he is a single father, thats doesnt dismiss him from finding a good woman otut there to be with (single or otherwise). this blame state of mind is not productive. if he finds a good woman, and they click and understand what they are getting into, then so be it.

This is rubbish! He doesn't deserve a new woman! He's a second-hand product... He should wallow in his misery alone!

he needs someone to help him in his life possibly.... because two is better than one, but i am sure he can manage on his own too,

Nope... He's just a predator searching for a good woman to turn into a nanny!

arrant nonsense from low self estime immature nd insecure people



most people learn from their bad choices, most people grow from their bad choices, most people get better with their bad choices...a bad choice is just that, dont make it define you,

Blah blah blah...

You don't mean it?

You're wrong!

#notosinglefathers #evilbabydaddies

MrBrownJay1:


what misfortune are you talking about...? being a father (whether single or married) is a blessing....count your blessings!



how was that a choice? he made a mistake that resulted in him being a single father/babydaddy...yes. then you move on and adapt.



accidents do happen (aka condom broke), some women are good at hiding their true nature etc, being bad isnt written on people's forehaed.



because he is a single father, that doesnt dismiss him from finding a good woman out there to be with (single or otherwise). this blame state of mind is not productive. if he finds a good woman, and they click and they both understand what they are getting into, then so be it.



he needs someone to help him in his life possibly.... because two is better than one, but i am sure he can manage on his own too,



arrant nonsense from low self esteem immature nd insecure people



most people learn from their bad choices, most people grow from their bad choices, most people get better with their bad choices...a bad choice is just that, dont make it define you,

Blah blah blah...

True but I think the op is trying show how dumb it is when men say these things about single mothers..the standards used to judge women should be used to judge men as well and as in this case everything she wrote is both judgmental, uninformed and cannot be used to judge the entire single father population so why give all single mothers one label of being "used, promiscuous" and act like they are undeserving of a chance to be loved? Not directing this to you sir, just to all critical and judgmental men who prefer to throw blames and castigate at the perceived "weaker gender" instead of looking inward.

Natureangel:

True but I think the op is trying show how dumb it is when men say these things about single mothers..the standards used to judge women should be used to judge men as well and as in this case everything she wrote is both judgmental, uninformed and cannot be used to judge the entire single father population so why give all single mothers one label of being "used, promiscuous" and act like they are undeserving of a chance to be loved? Not directing this to you sir, just to all critical and judgmental men who prefer to throw blames and castigate at the perceived "weaker gender" instead of looking inward.

as i always say...there is absolutely nothing wrong with a single mother, let alone a single father.

Ok.

Natureangel:

True but I think the op is trying show how dumb it is when men say these things about single mothers..the standards used to judge women should be used to judge men as well and as in this case everything she wrote is both judgmental, uninformed and cannot be used to judge the entire single father population so why give all single mothers one label of being "used, promiscuous" and act like they are undeserving of a chance to be loved? Not directing this to you sir, just to all critical and judgmental men who prefer to throw blames and castigate at the perceived "weaker gender" instead of looking inward.

Thank you! Ofcourse, every redpiller aka. alpha avoided the thread like it's a plague... Typical.

Datboredberry:
Thank you! Ofcourse, every redpiller aka. alpha avoided the thread like it's a plague... Typical.

you're welcome

Natureangel:

True but I think the op is trying show how dumb it is when men say these things about single mothers..the standards used to judge women should be used to judge men as well and as in this case everything she wrote is both judgmental, uninformed and cannot be used to judge the entire single father population so why give all single mothers one label of being "used, promiscuous" and act like they are undeserving of a chance to be loved? Not directing this to you sir, just to all critical and judgmental men who prefer to throw blames and castigate at the perceived "weaker gender" instead of looking inward.

That dude didn't get the memo on time...