I have discussed this controversial topic with many men... Asked them this question, 'can men be rape victims?'...

I've noticed that the majority of men do NOT think so... Especially those in Nigeria...

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Rape victims who are boys:

Men agree on the following paragraphs

The suspects are often older men...These boys are mostly sodomized (forceful anal penetrative sex)... Their cases are usually taken seriously... The only difficulty is getting boys who are victims of sexual abuse to report their molesters... Blackmail, threats...etc...

Cases of older women raping boys, not so popular... Psychological trauma rather... Still awful!

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Rape victims who are men (men on men)
Popular opinions by men

1. Men can't be sexual victims of other men...

2. Men can always defend themselves...

3. Sexual abuse of a man by another man is humiliating...

4. Men who are raped usually deserved it...
[The acted in a certain way that drew the
attention of their molesters]

5. Men who are raped lose their 'masculinity'...

6. It's better to not report such cases... So the victim can retain his dignity... And avoid a lifetime of stigmatisation...

7. Men who have been raped by men are gays...


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Rape victims who are men (women on men)
Popular opinions by men

1. Women can't rape men... period!

2. Women can't rape men because women are the weaker sex...

3. Women can't rape men because women are smaller and fragile...

4. Women can't rape men because rape victims were placed, during their ordeal, in the position of submission... Something that's above men...

5. Men can't be raped because men like sex and would gladly welcome it, even without their consent...

6. Since women can't sexually penetrate men, they can't rape them...

7. Men should NEVER report cases of sexual abuse, especially of the abuser was a woman...

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Just some of the most popular opinions I received... It's all Toxic Masculinity...

But it seems most men would willingly sacrifice themselves for it...

They would rather pretend to be above abuse just so they seem macho...

Men tell themselves to 'man up'... They say 'men don't cry'... 'Men can't be raped'... Etc...

When masculinity is self-sabotaging...

I don't believe in men rape,as soon as he's able to get erection then there's no rape,it's all trash.

Iyaebe:
I don't believe in men rape,as soon as he's able to get erection then there's no rape,it's all trash.

Really?

Women for example, a girl could be raped and still have an orgasm... The sex was without consent so it's rape... The orgasm, her body's reaction... We can't control that...

Men can be raped... He would have an erection due to the stimulation... But that doesn't mean he wants it... At least his mind doesn't...

Iyaebe:
I don't believe in men rape,as soon as he's able to get erection then there's no rape,it's all trash.

Your mentality is the real trash.

Erection doesn't mean consent.

jmoore:


Your mentality is the real trash.

Erection doesn't mean consent.

Erection means consent because there will be no erection if he's not aroused,why will an aroused man claim rape,is that not nonsense?

Iyaebe:
Erection means consent because there will be no erection if he's not aroused,why will an aroused man claim rape,is that not nonsense?

You don't have a dick so you are not even qualified to talk about erection.

Some men have morning erection, that doesn't mean they want to have sex.

Arousal is not consent!!

OP
One Female can NOT rape a Guy! But a Group of Females Can!

All dey need to do is to Tie him down with a Rope! Get Naked and Suckk his Dicck to Full arousal if it refused to Stand!

With d erect Dicck, One Female will now Ride on it till the Poor dude ejaculates!

After Ejaculation, the Babes Sucks again and the Dicck rises by Force..
They take turns in Fuccking him till the Guys passes out or even Give up the Ghost!

Iyaebe:
Erection means consent because there will be no erection if he's not aroused,why will an aroused man claim rape,is that not nonsense?

Erection can NEVER mean consent!

If an Armed Robber tries to Rape a Female Victim and starts sucking her Nipples!

If it becomes Erect, Has she consented?

You really need to start brushing up on your intelligence.

Goodness Gracious!

Vinnie2000:


OP
One Female can NOT rape a Guy! But a Group of Females Can!

All dey need to do is to Tie him down with a Rope! Get Naked and Suckk his Dicck to Full arousal if it refused to Stand!

With d erect Dicck, One Female will now Ride on it till the Poor dude ejaculates!

After Ejaculation, the Babes Sucks again and the Dicck rises by Force..
They take turns in Fuccking him till the Guys passes out or even Give up the Ghost!

Take this to literotica...


Simply touching a man inappropriately is abuse to me...

Don't touch his body without his consent...

I shake the hands of my male colleagues... Until they insist on a hug...

Respect a man's personal space!!!

LincolnOnyeabor:
You really need to start brushing up on your intelligence.

Goodness Gracious!

What?

Iyaebe:
Erection means consent because there will be no erection if he's not aroused,why will an aroused man claim rape,is th
at not nonsense?

You need mental evaluation

diogo23:
You need mental evaluation

You need penis evaluation, oloshi.

Datboredberry:
Take this to literotica...


Simply touching a man inappropriately is abuse to me...

Don't touch his body without his consent...

I shake the hands of my male colleagues... Until they insist on a hug...

Respect a man's personal space!!!

Lolsss...U Like the Story?

It Happened in real Life!

A Boarding school in Delta state (Name and Place withheld)..The Female students raped a Poor (or maybe Lucky) Dude thru dat Process!

Iyaebe:
You need penis evaluation, oloshi.

Don't let stupid like you get from stupid people like you get into your head, you're acting like a mental challenge woman here

MEN CAN BE A VICTIM @ANYTIME TO ANYONE.

Vinnie2000:


OP
One Female can NOT rape a Guy! But a Group of Females Can!

All dey need to do is to Tie him down with a Rope! Get Naked and Suckk his Dicck to Full arousal if it refused to Stand!

With d erect Dicck, One Female will now Ride on it till the Poor dude ejaculates!

After Ejaculation, the Babes Sucks again and the Dicck rises by Force..
They take turns in Fuccking him till the Guys passes out or even Give up the Ghost!

A female can rape a man by druging him or making him to get drunk or by fetish means.

Iyaebe:
Erection means consent because there will be no erection if he's not aroused,why will an aroused man claim rape,is that not nonsense?

If the woman gets her Arrow wet and orgasms .it also signifies consent

Datboredberry:
Take this to literotica...


Simply touching a man inappropriately is abuse to me...

Don't touch his body without his consent...

I shake the hands of my male colleagues... Until they insist on a hug...

Respect a man's personal space!!!

And when is it inappropriate

Vinnie2000:




Lolsss...U Like the Story?

It Happened in real Life!

A Boarding school in Delta state (Name and Place withheld)..The Female students raped a Poor (or maybe Lucky) Dude thru dat Process!

Not only in delta state.it happened in Benin.
There was another one that happened in Ogun state.
I am not mentioning names for security sake

Vinnie2000:




Lolsss...U Like the Story?

It Happened in real Life!

A Boarding school in Delta state (Name and Place withheld)..The Female students raped a Poor (or maybe Lucky) Dude thru dat Process!

It's awful!

Honestly... If it were fiction... That's a different case...

Some people are into 'CNC'... Or non consent sex, with consent... Like rape play...etc.

But I can't stand rape...

But remember, I wrote on men raping men... That's more popular... Your opinion?

Rape is a delicate subject both for the male and the female!
It is more easier to point out female rape than male rape cases because the society positions sex roles differently for both.
Also it is common in you g boys to be molested.
Society usually frowns at amen that steps forward to claim rape why
Nearly a large populace of the men are sex starved and naturally will do anything to have sex.
So a man shouting rape will look odd to the society.
But it will delivered judgement if it was a fellow male.that perpertuatedy the rape

baralatie:

And when is it inappropriate

We are close friends... He makes an effort to allow me embrace him...

Even my uncles ask for hugs... That's right...

Some men don't wanna be held close by strangers... Know him first... Seek his permission...

Should this even be a question? Obviously the op is supporting male rape

Datboredberry:
We are close friends... He makes an effort to allow me embrace him...

Even my uncles ask for hugs... That's right...

Some men don't wanna be held close by strangers... Know him first... Seek his permission...

Does a hug from a woman express sexual invitation?

[quote author=Datboredberry post=108839697] It's awful!

Honestly... If it were fiction... That's a different case...

Some people are into 'CNC'... Or non consent sex, with consent... Like rape play...etc.

But I can't stand rape...

But remember, I wrote on men raping men... That's more popular... Your opinion? [/quote]


Hmmm!
This one though!
Heard dat it Happens only in Prisons!

That if a Male inmate has some surprising female Features (dimples, hips, drooping breasts, etc), Some Guys might start having Funny Ideas about Him!..

Anything Gayism for me, is Demonic!

Datboredberry:
I have discussed this controversial topic with many men... Asked them this question, 'can men be rape victims?'...

.. It's all Toxic Masculinity...

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@the bolded was completely unnecessary

baralatie:
Rape is a delicate subject both for the male and the female!
It is more easier to point out female rape than male rape cases because the society positions sex roles differently for both.

Yes... Not point out...

But girls tend to report cases of sexual abuse more than boys do...

Also it is common in you g boys to be molested.
Society usually frowns at amen that steps forward to claim rape why

Toxic masculinity...

Funny, a man who's being raped would find it easier to open up to his mother than his father... Women tend to be more sympathetic...since they are usually victims themselves... And nature and nurture encourages them to be more concerned and understanding...

I wrote why most men can't come out to say they've been victims...

Toxic masculinity: how masculinity is a double edged sword that hurts women as well as men...

Traits of masculinity: brave, strong, logical, emotional intelligence...etc...

When men call themselves these... Just so they can gain the position of superiority over women, they forget that they place themselves in a very awful position where they can not later come out to claim to be victims...

The society asks, 'How can a brave, strong man be raped?'

Nearly a large populace of the men are sex starved and naturally will do anything to have sex.
So a man shouting rape will look odd to the society.

Exactly! So many men joke with it...

You as a man wouldnt feel confident to open up to your mates to say that your girlfriend raped you...

Your fellow men would laugh and even ask if you enjoyed it!

But women take rape seriously...eg. the 'me too' movement...

But it will delivered judgement if it was a fellow male.that perpertuatedy the rape

If the victim is young, yes...

But usually, if a grown man is raped by another grown man, the victim often does not even seek justice...

Because he would be stigmatised... The society still judges men who have been raped by their fellow men...

The society calls them 'gay'... 'weak'... Etc...

Men on men rape is more common and more devastating... Because of the forceful penetration, pyschologically trauma...

But men find it hard to report their abuse... Because it would mean that during the assault... They had assumed a position of SUBMISSION... And for men, it's a difficult thing to admit... Ego...

odinson1:


@the bolded was completely unnecessary

You might not know what that word means...

I'm not saying masculinity is Toxic... I mentioned instances where it affects men negatively...

For example...

Men don't cry...

Men only want sex...

Men can't be raped...

Men are naturally aggressive...

I have been raped by an ex before.. we slept on same bed and I woke up to her mouth on my D. I do sleep naked and before i could say jack she was already ontop cowgirl style riding and asking me if my then present girl could fvck as good as her... that was it for me. I pushed her midway before cumming. I couldn't even tell my then babe because that one nor go even believe the story at all.

FriendsAndFans:
Should this even be a question? Obviously the op is supporting male rape

What? No!

I'm shared the opinions shared by most MEN on this topic...

I'm trying to tell men that it's perfectly ok to say that you're a rape victim... But most don't because if the pressure on them by their fellow men to 'man up'...

Get it?

Killbillz:
I have been raped by an ex before.. we slept on same bed and I woke up to her mouth on my D. I do sleep naked and before i could say jack she was already ontop cowgirl style riding and asking me if my then present girl could fvck as good as her... that was it for me. I pushed her midway before cumming. I couldn't even tell my then babe because that one nor go even believe the story at all.

I'm sorry! It's weird... Most people would think it's cool...

But imagine if it's a woman who woke up to find her boyfriend doing this to her...

Sorry...