Sonnobax15:

Op,make another man sin no take you to hell...........

It is well cha......But op,you for try reason with your bro like man to man...At least you guys ain't kids any longer . Tell am wetin dey vex you and clear am all him fvck up ASAP before it'd be too late

Dukio:
You think too much.

Live life and stop worrying about other people's problem.

Wetin go be go be

Shadow225:
Told him many times, I even took a screenshot of the message I just received, he told me to "ignore her don't be angry that's how girls are" but ignoring her doesn't work he should know better.

I'm 100% sure she's going to ask me stupid questions tomorrow.

Shadow225:
I wish this was as easy as you said.

Oluromantic:
Sit him down and tell him you want to have a word with him. Then tell him all these things he's doing wrongly and why they are wrong perhaps he doesn't know. Then tell him the measures you're going to take if he does not respect himself and make corrections within the time frame you both agree for him to amend his ways.

If after giving him time and he refuses to change, play your role as an elder brother. When your dad comes around, explain what has been going on to him and what you have done as the elder in his absence. He'll take over from there

Sonnobax15:
Your bro still have a long way to go...Just free am,and do your things....No use because of this matter fight with your bro....I believe with time,he go learn via the hard way...And make he pray he shouldn't lose his peace of mind and sanity then.

Richy4:
I'm glad that people that understands the issue have told you what to do...
But could U explain further to someone like me that is slow to understand.. What is your headache in all these?
<<<Was it that your brother is under aged and should not be involved with a girl at the moment? OR
<<< Was it that u were angry that she brings a girl home instead of taking her to your uncle's house where he's living? OR
<<< Was it that they eat the food you cooked and he doesn't contribute anything despite the fact that they comes to the house regularly?

Shadow225:
Definitely this

Richy4:


Haba!!! Do u know the reason or conditions stipulated to him by your uncle before he moved in?

There are certain behaviours/ things one can do in their father's house and can never try that in someone else's house... That is why people always say.." do u think you are in your father's house.."

Not trying to be the devil's advocate but what u were trying to make him do is not right... What if he wasn't staying in your uncle's house? What then...

If u have issues with him having a girlfriend or a girl u don't like, that is understandable but having issues that he invites guest to his father's house is just.. I don't even know what to say..but let me make it 100% clear, u have no right buddy to tell him where to entertain his guest.. u all have an equal rights in that house to invite any guests that u wishes...

Shadow225:
If he wants to invite guests he is free to do so but he should drop the secrecy he should tell my Dad he is inviting a friend over and make it official, not acting like a kidnapper, I think he wouldn't have dared bring her over if he wasn't staying in my Uncle's house...

And to be honest I don't like the girl, she isn't pretty she isn't interesting, she likes acting holier than thou, she's even 6 years younger than him, which makes the whole thing worse.

I don't know why I find this quote interesting ...
<<<U sounded like the last child/ born in the family,are you?...
My brother, I guess u are young that is why u were sounding this way... But take this like an elder Bro's advice..

<<<This attitude you were exhibiting is the type that brews cold war between siblings forever.. especially when it's as minor as this... and when it lingers longer than necessary, if anyone asks what the problem is, they can't even place when, how and where it all started....Please drop it now..

<<< Your brother likes the girl in question...U were not in his heart.. U don't dictate whom he should be friends with..

<<< When u have your own friend and starts swimming into the ocean of love, he will have no right as well to tell you whom to love.. because it's a matter of the heart...

<<< The girl's physical appearance/ attitude is irrelevant to you at the moment because u were not the person dating her... But u as a brother can only point it out to your brother when eventually he asked for your opinion or when the relationship gets serious...but he still has the final say ..

<<< Anytime your brother is ready for serious commitment, he will officially approach your father... He can't bring in any Tom, Dick and Harry to your dad... If he does that, u guys might loose counts...

<<< Any time u gets an unpleasant message from her, tell her that u were not the one dating her, hence your opinion doesn't count.. she should concentrate on your brother and why she was there and leave U out of it ..

<<< When u do not want to do what siblings does best anymore which is covering for each other, please tell him u were done, u don't feel like doing it any more, he should count u out of that... That is your choice and right buddy...

<<< Please be happy, it's holidays season.. don't let little thing ruin it for you... Cheers

Richy4:

I don't know why I find this quote interesting ...
<<<U sounded like the last child/ born in the family,are you?...
My brother, I guess u are young that is why u were sounding this way... But take this like an elder Bro's advice..

<<<This attitude you were exhibiting is the type that brews cold war between siblings forever.. especially when it's as minor as this... and when it lingers longer than necessary, if anyone asks what the problem is, they can't even place when, how and where it all started....Please drop it now..

<<< Your brother likes the girl in question...U were not in his heart.. U don't dictate whom he should be friends with..

<<< When u have your own friend and starts swimming into the ocean of love, he will have no right as well to tell you whom to love.. because it's a matter of the heart...

<<< The girl's physical appearance/ attitude is irrelevant to you at the moment because u were not the person dating her... But u as a brother can only point it out to your brother when eventually he asked for your opinion or when the relationship gets serious...but he still has the final say ..

<<< Anytime your brother is ready for serious commitment, he will officially approach your father... He can't bring in any Tom, Dick and Harry to your dad... If he does that, u guys might loose counts...

<<< Any time u gets an unpleasant message from her, tell her that u were not the one dating her, hence your opinion doesn't count.. she should concentrate on your brother and why she was there and leave U out of it ..

<<< When u do not want to do what siblings does best anymore which is covering for each other, please tell him u were done, u don't feel like doing it any more, he should count u out of that... That is your choice and right buddy...

<<< Please be happy, it's holidays season.. don't let little thing ruin it for you... Cheers

anthonyuncle:
stop covering up for him.

the next time your dad asks about him, tell him how frequent he comes to the house. don't reveal the story of the girl to your dad

Shadow225:


Please what's the best way to handle this?