soundOsonic:


Seriously reason am na

A lady uses binoculars to spy on her boyfriend from a distance
She hacked into his phone to read his chats
She tap into the bf for to listen to all his calls
And a guy wants to happily propose to this kind of lady.
She uses binoculars to spy on innocent boyfriend when he was showing off the ring. Is it through the window or is the house translucent?

Abeg getout with your cock and bull story. Anyone believing this is dumb.

Lol, this is the issue I have with some fellow Nigerians; rather than asking questions, so that you will have proper understanding, you'll rather come out to confidently spew trash, while talking like a bunch of Lagos touts. Spilling so much trash as if say na ur mouth LAWMA dey drop dirty.
Yes, we have heard of people that spy or even install apps on their partner's phone to spy on them. A man that did same recently made a thread about it and it even made FP.

She uses binoculars to spy on innocent boyfriend when he was showing off the ring. Is it through the window or is the house translucent?

If you read the post properly and you're someone that actually went to a good school; you'll see where I said the guy went downstairs, does common sense not tell you that he lives in a storey-building, that's why he went downstairs?

I pity her. That's all I have for her. Oh just learned that it's a gender-neutral title.

Biggie2000:

I guess it's just obsession. The place she's being referred to is at another state, and they won't allow her go out as she wants. They want to monitor her, whereas she wants to monitor her boyfriend. So crazy!

Lol, yes I'm very much aware you're a lady. 'Comrade' is a gender-neutral title.

LilMissFavvy:
If I was the girl I would appologise to him, and handover myself to get all possible help, then go back to him.
If the guy was my brother I would have given him same advice as above. I would also look for ways to monitor her to see if she's ready to get help. If I see any red flag, I tell him to quit. From the comments above, it's like majority of people here say he should end the relationship, from your comments above, your instincts says your friend should end it. So go with the majority

Thanks. I really feel if I were the one, I'll put the relationship on a break, then help her get the necessary help she needs. I wouldn't want to help her simply because we have relationship, but because I care. Even if the relationship doesn't work out, at least I'll know I helped her in one way or the other. But, that's me, though! Crazy thing is when you see this particular lady, you'll never believe she's got anger issues.

Another bullsheet story... Endless streak of "things that happened in your imagination" nairaland version

This is a serious red flag....please let your friend discharge her....to avoid further damage....she may do worst than this.men are now the endangered species!!

Inside 2022 una don release new one again tell your friend to wait till she poison him that is her next target

Why do young men wanna die before their time? You want her to stab you in your sleep before you know there many other decent and calm women you can chose from?

I don't understand you guys. As a Nan, you've liberty to decide who to chase for marriage and out of the millions of single women,
you decide to go for a potential killer?

Biggie2000:
So, I've got this close friend, he's a real nice guy and easy going, but he has this really weird girlfriend. She is not a bad person, but she has these problems: Extreme jealousy and Anger. Her Anger and jealousy is top notch.
Permit me to tell you some of her extremely crazy actions due to jealousy: Firstly, she has Binoculars. This is no jokes. She literally has a pair of binoculars that she uses to view him from a distance just to make sure she can monitor him. Secondly, she literally has people she paid to monitor his movement, both at his workplace and back home. Thirdly, she has tapped his phone, which means she can know everyone he is talking to. Fourthly, she installed a tracker in his phone and car without him knowing. She calls him like every 30 minutes of the day, and will always ask for a video chat so she will confirm who he is with.
At first, he found her attitude to be cute, and even thought she was just trying to be a caring girlfriend that is protecting her 'property', but now e be like say water don pass garri. She has fought every of his female friends and she's in the habit of replying ANY female that dares comment on any picture he uploads on Social media. She fought his boss, who also happens to be a female.
Now, here's the main thing. My friend is planning to propose to her(I wonder why) on Dec. 31st/1st of January 2022. He wants to propose at the exact moment (12:00am) when everyone will be shouting "HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!"
He bought her a real expensive ring. Then, he invited his godmother and some of us over. The plan was to meet so we can plan the main event properly without her(the girlfriend) knowing. All in a bid to surprise her. So, the godmother and i got there first, but she came before me. He went downstairs to meet her; hugged her, and was showing her the ring he wants to use for proposal. Out of no where, this his girlfriend ran downstairs with FULL FORCE. I guess she was viewing him with her Binoculars. She started yelling and accusing him of having and proposing marriage to a sugar mommy. She didn't even wait for any explanation before she started raining all sorts of derogatory words and insults on this woman. She tore parts of her dress and called her an old hag, a prostitute, boyfriend snatcher, etc. She slapped this woman o. The guy got very angry and he pushed her, this girl pulled out a small kitchen knife she hid in her back pocket while coming downstairs and stabbed his hand o. Yes, she stabbed him. The whole thing felt like a Nollywood movie. I could not believe my eyes. I've seen her angry severally, but this was the icing on the cake. The whole estate was shook, because she kept running helter skelter while YELLING, cursing and destroying properties. Several people had to come out before we could tame her, and then take the guy to a clinic. The godmother didn't utter a single word, and she simply left. Till now, nobody has been able to reach her(the godmother). Now, after some of the family members have called the girl, she is now convinced that the woman is actually his godmother, and not a sugar mommy. She is sober now and wants forgiveness, whereas the guy has said he doesn't want again.
Here are my questions:
When you see your guy or your lady with another person that's of the opposite gender in public, what's the best way to handle the situation? Do you approach them with anger? Do you simply call your partner to the side to ask 'who is the girl/guy you're talking to?' Do you simply wait for your partner to finish, so he/she will come and explain to you what's going on?
I already told him I support his decision to cancel the proposal and end the relationship, but this girl is actually a really nice girl, it's just her anger and jealousy that is the problem. That's the ONLY issue with her.
Should he help her work on her anger issues before thinking of marriage or he should just end the relationship?

Those kind of girls are very dangerous. If ur friend fvck up ehn! Him own don finish.

Truvelisback:
Those kind of girls are very dangerous. If ur friend fvck up ehn! Him own don finish.

Lol. I have told him to put the relationship on break. We are planning other things, but we got to keep it on a low. Who knows, she may even be on Nairaland reading this thread.

You have seen all the red flags and you're still asking question. They're not married and she's already violent. Please stay away from any insecure person because they'll never be secure no matter what you do for them.