Iyaebe:
Why did you allow your wife to be hustling too hard in the first place,what is her own whether you build house or not?why can't she divert the money and start building her own house, let her be forming virtuous woman there till you cheat on her and start having kids outside marriage

Northernblood5:
Your wife is smarter than you



Imagine the reason why you decided to be a tenant forever.

This is why poor people remain poor.

You should thank your stars that you have a smart wife

Don't you know that u can attach a store to your newly built house??

gabazin080:
my money is involved here. she can't do it alone. she is saying she will make life difficult for me if I don't continue the house

yanabasee:




And even his carpentry shop as well... The monies going for both shop rents and house rents will be channeled into something better.....


Op, allow your wife to guide you in this one ..


A house on lintel level is a finished house......

mocipe:


Hear this

My father saw a land in our state capital. He didn't have money with so he didn't buy.
Two weeks later, my father got more than the price of the land. Instead of buying the land, he changed his mind to go for a car.
My mother disagreed and they quarrelled for weeks.
Non of them told us, that has been their way of life. They quarrel and settle without any third party.
When my mom got tired of not talking to her husband, she asked him to go for the car.
My father got the car.
Seven years on, the car was bad. It was sold.
No landed property in the city. New car was bought but still develops fault here and there.
Let your wife finish the building.
The car can be bought later provided the money at hand can finish the building.

Tobijays:
I support you boss, create more channel of business avenues and you are going to build a bigger house than what your wife is pushing for . Talk to your wife, all this I must do pass my neighbor syndrome will only put you in trouble. Durotoye said the first house he built was for rent , he was still in a rented apartment meanwhile he had a house. Being at your comfort is great but what makes you more comfortable is your net income. Trust me if you told your wife the money with her is for her car she definitely going to change gear but you can’t tell her because she will make that her new focus. The building is yours already just tell her you got some bigger dreams you want for you guys that will wow her( includes all the things you want to do her lol she definitely going chill ) I like your guts telling her to open another shop you trying to get a bus and also saving money for your wife’s car. Nice bro I like your style

gabazin080:
I am a carpenter and furniture maker and my wife is an hairdresser. I have a building almost at lintel level. I abandoned the project because of uncertainty in construction work. sometimes you have a contract, sometimes you are just at home spending the money you made already with no other source of income.
so I thought of getting a bus for transportation business when I didn't go to work.
now my wife is threatening to continue it with the money I kept with her to get a car for her plus her money. though she doesn't know the money I am saving with her is for her car.
this is someone we recently discussed she should get another shop and employ a stylist to bring weekly commission for her. just because one of our neighbors moved to their own house last week, now she is more interested in being called a landlady than having other shops.
I threatened to get her arrested if she sets her feet on that land. she also refused to return my money with her and changed her phones password so I won't transfer my money.

now its new year and we ain't talking

gabazin080:
I think I will give with this your comment. I will sit her down and talk to her in the morning

ruggedtimi:
allow her build continue the house why you look for another means of income, in time you want regret. The car can wait

lereinter:


Money wey suppose meant for eating, dey no they use it build house

You read the man said he wants to venture into transport business

What does it say

lereinter:


House to lintel is finished - lolz

ETIIKO:


Please sir allow her, the money is yours and the house is yours she was meant to assist please allow your beautiful wife to go ahead, let her support you with her best.
She is not using the money to carry out negative act please give her your approval and she will return back the feedback to you.

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:

And who told you that she is beautiful?

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:

And who told you that she is beautiful?

Iyaebe:
Why did you allow your wife to be hustling too hard in the first place,what is her own whether you build house or not?why can't she divert the money and start building her own house, let her be forming virtuous woman there till you cheat on her and start having kids outside marriage

Rooneyboy:

Whatever you do my brother, please DO NOT let your wife put 50 kobo of her own money in that housing project. Use ur tongue to count your teeth bro.
In fact, you shouldn't have told your wife from the on set that you had a building project ongoing. It should have come as a "surprise" to her.
This way, you could have borrowed any sum from her "and refund" when buoyant again (not letting her know what the borrowed funds) is for..... If you go ahead to borrow at this juncture, stating what you need the funds for she'll give you and tell you NOT TO REFUND. In future she is going to open her mouth and say (our house).
Think man..... THINK

Impostor:
I built a small apartment last year so I can advise. Before you build that house, make sure you set up alternative sources of income. Don't build, if you don't have enough because it will tie your money down. The house may not be completed for you to move in and the money is also tied down there so you can't do anything to earn money. Therefore go ahead and get that bus also open a new shop for your wife then use the proceeds from your businesses to be building. PLEASE DON'T TIE YOUR CAPITAL DOWN. Building now is expensive as prices of materials are over the roof so set your self up properly by having multiple businesses then use profit to build. I suffered to finish just a small apartment.