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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by cococandy(f): 10:33pm On Jan 15, 2022
grin They will be alright
descarado:

cheesy cheesy
You saw my comment on first page?
The kind of insult I received eeeh cheesy

The insult will boil water inside kettle cheesy cheesy

I don't take these people serious cos we know reality versus nairaland anyway.

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by cococandy(f): 10:39pm On Jan 15, 2022
The wedding vows do not include being “sexually available as required”, It’s not a sex slavery contract. Yes consensual sexual relationship is a reasonable expectation of a marriage. It’s not however a justification to ignore when one person doesn’t feel like having sex and expect them to just be available because they are married regardless of what’s going on with them at the time. They are a person not a chattel sex slave.

There’s no interpretation y’all won’t attribute to wedding vows. Except what they actually mean. Because if you actually thought much about the wedding vows like you’re pretending to, the last sentence you made wouldn’t be that amusing to you.

DMerciful:
You got it wrong! Insofar you made a vow during wedding to be available sexually as required, you have to fulfill your end of the bargain. If married women will not complain if their husbands cheat, they'll know that their bodies is not worth that much because you can get probably a better body to bang for #500 grin

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by superintendents(m): 10:42pm On Jan 15, 2022
cococandy:
The wedding vows do not include being “sexually available as required”, It’s not a sex slavery contract. Yes consensual sexual relationship is a reasonable expectation of a marriage. It’s not however a justification to ignore when one person doesn’t feel like having sex and expect them to just be available because they are married regardless of what’s going on with them at the time. They are a person not a chattel sex slave.

There’s no interpretation y’all won’t attribute to wedding vows. Except what they actually mean. Because if you actually thought much about the wedding vows like you’re pretending to, the last sentence you made wouldn’t be that amusing to you.

boss lady.

Enjoy
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by DMerciful(m): 10:58pm On Jan 15, 2022
Please take time to go through the wedding vow and you'd see the place where both spouse pledge to be available as required.


Ofcourse I understand that sometimes due to health and other issues, there may be times of unavailability but the spouse not 'feeling' like having it is not part of the reason(you make not necessarily enjoy it provided you're not hurt, your spouse enjoying it is enough reason to).

It's a marital duty and if you're not ready for the responsibility, then don't go into it to make the other person's unsatisfied and maybe miserable. It's like saying you cook eguisi soup for your spouse when you feel like eating it too. And yes, sex is far more than food!
cococandy:
The wedding vows do not include being “sexually available as required”, It’s not a sex slavery contract. Yes consensual sexual relationship is a reasonable expectation of a marriage. It’s not however a justification to ignore when one person doesn’t feel like having sex and expect them to just be available because they are married regardless of what’s going on with them at the time. They are a person not a chattel sex slave.

There’s no interpretation y’all won’t attribute to wedding vows. Except what they actually mean. Because if you actually thought much about the wedding vows like you’re pretending to, the last sentence you made wouldn’t be that amusing to you.

Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by pocohantas(f): 11:02pm On Jan 15, 2022
DMerciful:
You got it wrong! Insofar you made a vow during wedding to be available sexually as required, you have to fulfill your end of the bargain. If married women will not complain if their husbands cheat, they'll know that their bodies is not worth that much because you can get probably a better body to bang for #500 grin

At least you’ll pay. Women do not even have to pay. So I would never understand why you guys think you are doing women a favour by staying faithful. When women would even gain more financially and sexually if they give you the same energy. Toor! undecided

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by DMerciful(m): 11:19pm On Jan 15, 2022
The male specie is not designed to stay with one woman so it's enough sacrifice loving and banging only one woman. So it's adding salt to injury if she's now partially available or rarely available sexually.

How can single unmarried guys with no family responsibility per se have far more sex(more energetic and varieties grin) than a married man who has a wife at home.


How can women esp married women applaud a situation where single guys have more benefits than married men. It's a travesty!
pocohantas:


At least you’ll pay. Women do not even have to pay. So I would never understand why you guys think you are doing women a favour by staying faithful. When women would even gain more financially and sexually if they give you the same energy. Toor! undecided
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by pocohantas(f): 11:26pm On Jan 15, 2022
DMerciful:
The male specie is not designed to stay with one woman so it's enough sacrifice loving and banging only one woman. So it's adding salt to injury if she's now partially available or rarely available sexually.

How can single unmarried guys with no family responsibility per se have far more sex(more energetic and varieties grin) than a married man who has a wife at home.


How can women esp married women applaud a situation where single guys have more benefits than married men. It's a travesty!

And who designed you not to stay with one woman? For a gender that knows they are designed to fck about, why cry so much when you discover your woman is another man’s side pussy? Why not take it as a contribution to the brotherhood? Mtcheew

Because marriage is not all about sex. What about stability, companionship and long term goals. If not you would have married a porn.star and live in a brothel!

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by superintendents(m): 11:27pm On Jan 15, 2022
pocohantas:


And who designed you not to stay with one woman? For a gender that knows they are designed to fck about, why cry so much when you discover your woman is another man’s side pussy? Why not take it as a contribution to the brotherhood? Mtcheew

Because marriage is not all about sex. Stability, companionship and long term goals. If not you would have married a IndecentStar and live in a brothel!
queen Abeg find me a woman like you...


Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Bastard1stborn: 11:34pm On Jan 15, 2022
superintendents:
queen Abeg find me a woman like you...




Seems you already pay for your death certificate... Trouble dey sleep, you wan go wake am

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by SoapQueen(f): 11:34pm On Jan 15, 2022
Barrister026:
My wife left me December 18th during the festive period to her home town, til this moment I haven't had sex. Trust me it hasn't really been easy we can't fight nature.
All the temptations at work and along the roadside when am on wheels my eyes are seeing.

So I decided to visit a popular relaxing spot this evening to while away time, ordered gulder to quench my taste... to my surprise they were girls displaying their markets.

At first I ignored, but body just did me one kind, I signalled one to come sit with me bought her drink and from there ask her how much she charge.

(Which she told me, saying she go do me well)
Then I had a war going on in my mind, hope you know say you be married man?.

Seriously I got married since 2019, I haven't had another lady apart from my wife.


So we went to her room, I gave her money..she was about to pull her top.

I don't know what got into me, I say "hi please don't bother....." She was surprised.

I went outside sweating.... the money I gave her didn't pain me.

What pain me is am so ashamed of myself for even having that thought.

Even though I didn't do the act, I feel like have cheated already for entering her room.

(This feeling didn't come because she's a prostitutes, I know I feel same way if it's a normal lady)

So married men how do you confidently cheat on your wife without remorse?


May God bless you and continue to strengthen you! Amen.
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by SoapQueen(f): 11:36pm On Jan 15, 2022
pocohantas:


And who designed you not to stay with one woman? For a gender that knows they are designed to fck about, why cry so much when you discover your woman is another man’s side pussy? Why not take it as a contribution to the brotherhood? Mtcheew

Because marriage is not all about sex. Stability, companionship and long term goals. If not you would have married a porn.star and live in a brothel!

Help me ask them! It's a huge jab at their egos when they realize that another man is comfortably chopping their woman. Bro code in the mud.

Fidelity isn't gender-specific.

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by superintendents(m): 11:39pm On Jan 15, 2022
Bastard1stborn:



Seems you already pay for your death certificate... Trouble dey sleep, you wan go wake am
I like queen too much,but couldn't get one bro,

grin

help me find one Abeg..

boss
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by DMerciful(m): 11:40pm On Jan 15, 2022
Who says stability, companionship, long term goals cannot go with good regular banging? Are they mutually exclusive?

A woman cheating is a taboo because she gets pregnant for another man and pin it on her husband as his child. It's a heinous crime against humanity cos you've not only defrauded the man but the child as well. So women are meant to stick to one man.

Anyways, the mistake women always make is thinking they're created exactly like men. If a man sleeps with several women, he'd feel ok but if a woman sleeps with many men, she'd feel as if something is being taken from her...and yes, her dignity is being taken.
pocohantas:


And who designed you not to stay with one woman? For a gender that knows they are designed to fck about, why cry so much when you discover your woman is another man’s side pussy? Why not take it as a contribution to the brotherhood? Mtcheew

Because marriage is not all about sex. Stability, companionship and long term goals. If not you would have married a porn.star and live in a brothel!
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Bastard1stborn: 11:42pm On Jan 15, 2022
superintendents:
I like queen too much,but couldn't get one bro,

grin

help me find one Abeg..

boss

That one no be Queen... Na Street but not hoelosho. oooo

But na full intellect with 65% street OT
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by superintendents(m): 11:46pm On Jan 15, 2022
pocohantas:


And who designed you not to stay with one woman? For a gender that knows they are designed to fck about, why cry so much when you discover your woman is another man’s side pussy? Why not take it as a contribution to the brotherhood? Mtcheew

Because marriage is not all about sex. Stability, companionship and long term goals. If not you would have married a porn.star and live in a brothel!
long life my lady.

pls don't forget me on your prayers.

a good woman like you is ok for me..pls
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Savage101(m): 11:47pm On Jan 15, 2022
And how do u know am not married ?
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by pocohantas(f): 11:51pm On Jan 15, 2022
DMerciful:
Who says stability, companionship, long term goals cannot go with good regular banging? Are they mutually exclusive?

A woman cheating is a taboo because she gets pregnant for another man and pin it on her husband as his child. It's a heinous crime against humanity cos you've not only defrauded the man but the child as well. So women are meant to stick to one man.

Anyways, the mistake women always make is thinking they're created exactly like men. If a man sleeps with several women, he'd feel ok but if a woman sleeps with many men, she'd feel as if something is being taken from her...and yes, her dignity is being taken.

If you wanted them to go together, you would have married one of your numerous girlfriends that can twist in bed like Shakira. You didn’t marry her. You say she too sabi knack. You say it is peace of mind men want. Hold your peace of mind, use it as lubricant for wankîng.

Stop thinking for women to console yourself. No woman told you she feels like something is taken away from her for having CONSENSUAL AND PLEASURABLE sex with men. Maybe it is the way you Nigerian men fck that makes your women vicious and feeling shortchanged after sex. This is an African or maybe Nigerian mentality. The white women you guys worship have had numerous sexual partners and you don’t think they feel this way. Leave toto matter for people wey get am!

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by pocohantas(f): 11:52pm On Jan 15, 2022
superintendents:
long life my lady.

pls don't forget me on your prayers.

a good woman like you is ok for me..pls

I don’t pray. Apologies… smiley

SoapQueen:


Help me ask them! It's a huge jab at their egos when they realize that another man is comfortably chopping their woman. Bro code in the mud.

Fidelity isn't gender-specific.

As if the one they are fcking is not for some other man. Coconut headed gender.

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by DMerciful(m): 11:56pm On Jan 15, 2022
I nor dey follow you drag toto na grin, we're just talking.

To be honest I like African women 10 times more than the white inspite of our women wahala cheesy, our women are more beautiful and understanding.

Hope you dey do your boo wella, forget all this choose peace or hot banging, give the complete package grin

Know this and know peace, men and women are REALLY DIFFERENT!
pocohantas:


If you wanted them to go together, you would have married one of your numerous girlfriends that can twist in bed like Shakira. You didn’t marry her. You say she too sabi knack. You say it is peace of mind men want. Hold your peace of mind, use it as lubricant.

Stop thinking for women to console yourself. No woman told you she feels like something is taken away from her for having CONSENSUAL AND PLEASURABLE sex with men. Maybe it is the way you Nigerian men fck that makes your women vicious and feeling shortchanged after sex. This is an African or maybe Nigerian mentality. The white women you guys worship have had numerous sexual partners and you don’t think they feel this way. Leave toto matter for people wey get am!

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by superintendents(m): 11:59pm On Jan 15, 2022
DMerciful:
I nor dey follow you drag toto na grin, we're just talking.

To be honest I like African women 10 times more than the white inspite of our women wahala cheesy, our women are more beautiful and understanding. Know this and know peace, men and women are REALLY DIFFERENT!
hey hey hey. lower your voice pls.

she is my lady. apologies.

Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by DMerciful(m): 12:02am On Jan 16, 2022
Person wife? Are you are husband legit? grin
superintendents:
hey hey hey. lower your voice pls.

she is my lady. apologies.

Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by superintendents(m): 12:07am On Jan 16, 2022
DMerciful:
Person wife? Are you are husband legit? grin
concern you abi.



queen Abeg don't mind those small boys pls..
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by DMerciful(m): 12:09am On Jan 16, 2022
Hmmm....just gonna ignore you for calling me a small boy
superintendents:
concern you abi.



queen Abeg don't mind those small boys pls..

Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by superintendents(m): 12:11am On Jan 16, 2022
DMerciful:
Hmmm....just gonna ignore you for calling me a small boy
na you cause am...

dey say love is blind,am blind right now..

Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by pocohantas(f): 12:18am On Jan 16, 2022
DMerciful:
Hmmm....just gonna ignore you for calling me a small boy

Lol. He took the joke too far. Please ignore him.

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by superintendents(m): 12:22am On Jan 16, 2022
pocohantas:

Lol. He took the joke too far. Please ignore him.
you disappointed me...

Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by jornwhite: 7:18am On Jan 16, 2022
cococandy:
The wedding vows do not include being “sexually available as required”, It’s not a sex slavery contract. Yes consensual sexual relationship is a reasonable expectation of a marriage. It’s not however a justification to ignore [b]when one person doesn’t feel like having sex and expect them to just be available because they are married regardless of what’s going on with them at the time. [/b]They are a person not a chattel sex slave.

There’s no interpretation y’all won’t attribute to wedding vows. Except what they actually mean. Because if you actually thought much about the wedding vows like you’re pretending to, the last sentence you made wouldn’t be that amusing to you.




why is it alway women(wives) who don't "FEEL LIKE", no sane man will go nut just becos his wife is not available once in a yle buh how can you not feel like for straight 3 months or more,except their is an unresolved difference that is self centeredness or wickedness.
Marriage is all about sacrifices, it not a when i feel like i will do my responsibility. i also hope men don't feel like dropping money for home upkeep cos They are a person not ATM.
In as much as most wives still see sex as a tool to exploit men into doing whatever they want, a typical woman feel sex denial is her greatest weapon, which is why men must up there game tew, if you av to cheat to stay safe or sane, bro cheat.
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Olaniyi021(m): 12:20pm On Jan 16, 2022
Hathor5:
4 weeks without sex is that hard? undecided
.


Yes it's hard for some men, bodies are not the same sister.
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Nothingserious: 3:09pm On Jan 16, 2022
FanOfMyself:

She also said she doesn't want kids... just letting you know. wink

Thanks for the additional info.
I said that based on her contributions there.
Those were smart points irrespective of what she said elsewhere.

Thanks anyways.
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by cyrusmillz: 10:03pm On Jan 16, 2022
ukaface:
Shey this marriage of a thing no come dey fear me laidis?

LOOL , Why ?? grin
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by ukaface(f): 7:04am On Jan 17, 2022
cyrusmillz:


LOOL , Why ?? grin
Ugly news every where
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:08pm On Jan 17, 2022
JOemmy:
Everything is just in the mind there are millions of men out there who have gone without sex for years without even complaining to anyone. What about reverend fathers in the Catholic Church who don't marry? People like you can give excuses for committing rape.

you really want to bring these demons in robe (that fukc little choir boys) in this discussion?!?!?

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