They will be alright

descarado:


You saw my comment on first page?
The kind of insult I received eeeh

The insult will boil water inside kettle

I don't take these people serious cos we know reality versus nairaland anyway.

The wedding vows do not include being “sexually available as required”, It’s not a sex slavery contract. Yes consensual sexual relationship is a reasonable expectation of a marriage. It’s not however a justification to ignore when one person doesn’t feel like having sex and expect them to just be available because they are married regardless of what’s going on with them at the time. They are a person not a chattel sex slave.

There’s no interpretation y’all won’t attribute to wedding vows. Except what they actually mean. Because if you actually thought much about the wedding vows like you’re pretending to, the last sentence you made wouldn’t be that amusing to you.

DMerciful:
You got it wrong! Insofar you made a vow during wedding to be available sexually as required, you have to fulfill your end of the bargain. If married women will not complain if their husbands cheat, they'll know that their bodies is not worth that much because you can get probably a better body to bang for #500

cococandy:
The wedding vows do not include being “sexually available as required”, It’s not a sex slavery contract. Yes consensual sexual relationship is a reasonable expectation of a marriage. It’s not however a justification to ignore when one person doesn’t feel like having sex and expect them to just be available because they are married regardless of what’s going on with them at the time. They are a person not a chattel sex slave.

There’s no interpretation y’all won’t attribute to wedding vows. Except what they actually mean. Because if you actually thought much about the wedding vows like you’re pretending to, the last sentence you made wouldn’t be that amusing to you.

boss lady.

Enjoy

Please take time to go through the wedding vow and you'd see the place where both spouse pledge to be available as required.


Ofcourse I understand that sometimes due to health and other issues, there may be times of unavailability but the spouse not 'feeling' like having it is not part of the reason(you make not necessarily enjoy it provided you're not hurt, your spouse enjoying it is enough reason to).

It's a marital duty and if you're not ready for the responsibility, then don't go into it to make the other person's unsatisfied and maybe miserable. It's like saying you cook eguisi soup for your spouse when you feel like eating it too. And yes, sex is far more than food!

cococandy:
The wedding vows do not include being “sexually available as required”, It’s not a sex slavery contract. Yes consensual sexual relationship is a reasonable expectation of a marriage. It’s not however a justification to ignore when one person doesn’t feel like having sex and expect them to just be available because they are married regardless of what’s going on with them at the time. They are a person not a chattel sex slave.

There’s no interpretation y’all won’t attribute to wedding vows. Except what they actually mean. Because if you actually thought much about the wedding vows like you’re pretending to, the last sentence you made wouldn’t be that amusing to you.

DMerciful:
You got it wrong! Insofar you made a vow during wedding to be available sexually as required, you have to fulfill your end of the bargain. If married women will not complain if their husbands cheat, they'll know that their bodies is not worth that much because you can get probably a better body to bang for #500

At least you’ll pay. Women do not even have to pay. So I would never understand why you guys think you are doing women a favour by staying faithful. When women would even gain more financially and sexually if they give you the same energy. Toor!

The male specie is not designed to stay with one woman so it's enough sacrifice loving and banging only one woman. So it's adding salt to injury if she's now partially available or rarely available sexually.

How can single unmarried guys with no family responsibility per se have far more sex(more energetic and varieties ) than a married man who has a wife at home.


How can women esp married women applaud a situation where single guys have more benefits than married men. It's a travesty!

pocohantas:


At least you’ll pay. Women do not even have to pay. So I would never understand why you guys think you are doing women a favour by staying faithful. When women would even gain more financially and sexually if they give you the same energy. Toor!

DMerciful:
The male specie is not designed to stay with one woman so it's enough sacrifice loving and banging only one woman. So it's adding salt to injury if she's now partially available or rarely available sexually.

How can single unmarried guys with no family responsibility per se have far more sex(more energetic and varieties ) than a married man who has a wife at home.


How can women esp married women applaud a situation where single guys have more benefits than married men. It's a travesty!

And who designed you not to stay with one woman? For a gender that knows they are designed to fck about, why cry so much when you discover your woman is another man’s side pussy? Why not take it as a contribution to the brotherhood? Mtcheew

Because marriage is not all about sex. What about stability, companionship and long term goals. If not you would have married a porn.star and live in a brothel!

pocohantas:


And who designed you not to stay with one woman? For a gender that knows they are designed to fck about, why cry so much when you discover your woman is another man’s side pussy? Why not take it as a contribution to the brotherhood? Mtcheew

Because marriage is not all about sex. Stability, companionship and long term goals. If not you would have married a IndecentStar and live in a brothel!

queen Abeg find me a woman like you...

superintendents:
queen Abeg find me a woman like you...

Seems you already pay for your death certificate... Trouble dey sleep, you wan go wake am

Barrister026:
My wife left me December 18th during the festive period to her home town, til this moment I haven't had sex. Trust me it hasn't really been easy we can't fight nature.
All the temptations at work and along the roadside when am on wheels my eyes are seeing.

So I decided to visit a popular relaxing spot this evening to while away time, ordered gulder to quench my taste... to my surprise they were girls displaying their markets.

At first I ignored, but body just did me one kind, I signalled one to come sit with me bought her drink and from there ask her how much she charge.

(Which she told me, saying she go do me well)
Then I had a war going on in my mind, hope you know say you be married man?.

Seriously I got married since 2019, I haven't had another lady apart from my wife.


So we went to her room, I gave her money..she was about to pull her top.

I don't know what got into me, I say "hi please don't bother....." She was surprised.

I went outside sweating.... the money I gave her didn't pain me.

What pain me is am so ashamed of myself for even having that thought.

Even though I didn't do the act, I feel like have cheated already for entering her room.

(This feeling didn't come because she's a prostitutes, I know I feel same way if it's a normal lady)

So married men how do you confidently cheat on your wife without remorse?

May God bless you and continue to strengthen you! Amen.

pocohantas:


And who designed you not to stay with one woman? For a gender that knows they are designed to fck about, why cry so much when you discover your woman is another man’s side pussy? Why not take it as a contribution to the brotherhood? Mtcheew

Because marriage is not all about sex. Stability, companionship and long term goals. If not you would have married a porn.star and live in a brothel!

Help me ask them! It's a huge jab at their egos when they realize that another man is comfortably chopping their woman. Bro code in the mud.

Fidelity isn't gender-specific.

Bastard1stborn:



Seems you already pay for your death certificate... Trouble dey sleep, you wan go wake am

I like queen too much,but couldn't get one bro,



help me find one Abeg..

boss

Who says stability, companionship, long term goals cannot go with good regular banging? Are they mutually exclusive?

A woman cheating is a taboo because she gets pregnant for another man and pin it on her husband as his child. It's a heinous crime against humanity cos you've not only defrauded the man but the child as well. So women are meant to stick to one man.

Anyways, the mistake women always make is thinking they're created exactly like men. If a man sleeps with several women, he'd feel ok but if a woman sleeps with many men, she'd feel as if something is being taken from her...and yes, her dignity is being taken.

pocohantas:


And who designed you not to stay with one woman? For a gender that knows they are designed to fck about, why cry so much when you discover your woman is another man’s side pussy? Why not take it as a contribution to the brotherhood? Mtcheew

Because marriage is not all about sex. Stability, companionship and long term goals. If not you would have married a porn.star and live in a brothel!

superintendents:
I like queen too much,but couldn't get one bro,



help me find one Abeg..

boss

That one no be Queen... Na Street but not hoelosho. oooo

But na full intellect with 65% street OT

pocohantas:


And who designed you not to stay with one woman? For a gender that knows they are designed to fck about, why cry so much when you discover your woman is another man’s side pussy? Why not take it as a contribution to the brotherhood? Mtcheew

Because marriage is not all about sex. Stability, companionship and long term goals. If not you would have married a porn.star and live in a brothel!

long life my lady.

pls don't forget me on your prayers.

a good woman like you is ok for me..pls

And how do u know am not married ?

DMerciful:
Who says stability, companionship, long term goals cannot go with good regular banging? Are they mutually exclusive?

A woman cheating is a taboo because she gets pregnant for another man and pin it on her husband as his child. It's a heinous crime against humanity cos you've not only defrauded the man but the child as well. So women are meant to stick to one man.

Anyways, the mistake women always make is thinking they're created exactly like men. If a man sleeps with several women, he'd feel ok but if a woman sleeps with many men, she'd feel as if something is being taken from her...and yes, her dignity is being taken.

If you wanted them to go together, you would have married one of your numerous girlfriends that can twist in bed like Shakira. You didn’t marry her. You say she too sabi knack. You say it is peace of mind men want. Hold your peace of mind, use it as lubricant for wankîng.

Stop thinking for women to console yourself. No woman told you she feels like something is taken away from her for having CONSENSUAL AND PLEASURABLE sex with men. Maybe it is the way you Nigerian men fck that makes your women vicious and feeling shortchanged after sex. This is an African or maybe Nigerian mentality. The white women you guys worship have had numerous sexual partners and you don’t think they feel this way. Leave toto matter for people wey get am!

superintendents:
long life my lady.

pls don't forget me on your prayers.

a good woman like you is ok for me..pls

I don’t pray. Apologies…

SoapQueen:


Help me ask them! It's a huge jab at their egos when they realize that another man is comfortably chopping their woman. Bro code in the mud.

Fidelity isn't gender-specific.

As if the one they are fcking is not for some other man. Coconut headed gender.

I nor dey follow you drag toto na , we're just talking.

To be honest I like African women 10 times more than the white inspite of our women wahala , our women are more beautiful and understanding.

Hope you dey do your boo wella, forget all this choose peace or hot banging, give the complete package

Know this and know peace, men and women are REALLY DIFFERENT!

pocohantas:


If you wanted them to go together, you would have married one of your numerous girlfriends that can twist in bed like Shakira. You didn’t marry her. You say she too sabi knack. You say it is peace of mind men want. Hold your peace of mind, use it as lubricant.

Stop thinking for women to console yourself. No woman told you she feels like something is taken away from her for having CONSENSUAL AND PLEASURABLE sex with men. Maybe it is the way you Nigerian men fck that makes your women vicious and feeling shortchanged after sex. This is an African or maybe Nigerian mentality. The white women you guys worship have had numerous sexual partners and you don’t think they feel this way. Leave toto matter for people wey get am!

DMerciful:
I nor dey follow you drag toto na , we're just talking.

To be honest I like African women 10 times more than the white inspite of our women wahala , our women are more beautiful and understanding. Know this and know peace, men and women are REALLY DIFFERENT!

hey hey hey. lower your voice pls.

she is my lady. apologies.

Person wife? Are you are husband legit?

superintendents:
hey hey hey. lower your voice pls.

she is my lady. apologies.

DMerciful:
Person wife? Are you are husband legit?

concern you abi.



queen Abeg don't mind those small boys pls..

Hmmm....just gonna ignore you for calling me a small boy

superintendents:
concern you abi.



queen Abeg don't mind those small boys pls..

DMerciful:
Hmmm....just gonna ignore you for calling me a small boy

na you cause am...

dey say love is blind,am blind right now..

DMerciful:
Hmmm....just gonna ignore you for calling me a small boy

Lol. He took the joke too far. Please ignore him.

pocohantas:

Lol. He took the joke too far. Please ignore him.

you disappointed me...

cococandy:
The wedding vows do not include being “sexually available as required”, It’s not a sex slavery contract. Yes consensual sexual relationship is a reasonable expectation of a marriage. It’s not however a justification to ignore [b]when one person doesn’t feel like having sex and expect them to just be available because they are married regardless of what’s going on with them at the time. [/b]They are a person not a chattel sex slave.

There’s no interpretation y’all won’t attribute to wedding vows. Except what they actually mean. Because if you actually thought much about the wedding vows like you’re pretending to, the last sentence you made wouldn’t be that amusing to you.

why is it alway women(wives) who don't "FEEL LIKE", no sane man will go nut just becos his wife is not available once in a yle buh how can you not feel like for straight 3 months or more,except their is an unresolved difference that is self centeredness or wickedness.
Marriage is all about sacrifices, it not a when i feel like i will do my responsibility. i also hope men don't feel like dropping money for home upkeep cos They are a person not ATM.
In as much as most wives still see sex as a tool to exploit men into doing whatever they want, a typical woman feel sex denial is her greatest weapon, which is why men must up there game tew, if you av to cheat to stay safe or sane, bro cheat.

Hathor5:
4 weeks without sex is that hard?

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Yes it's hard for some men, bodies are not the same sister.

FanOfMyself:

She also said she doesn't want kids... just letting you know.

Thanks for the additional info.
I said that based on her contributions there.
Those were smart points irrespective of what she said elsewhere.

Thanks anyways.

ukaface:
Shey this marriage of a thing no come dey fear me laidis?

LOOL , Why ??

cyrusmillz:


LOOL , Why ??

Ugly news every where

JOemmy:
Everything is just in the mind there are millions of men out there who have gone without sex for years without even complaining to anyone. What about reverend fathers in the Catholic Church who don't marry? People like you can give excuses for committing rape.

you really want to bring these demons in robe (that fukc little choir boys) in this discussion?!?!?