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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by DKM123: 2:47pm On Jan 15, 2022
Anigreat:
shocked




Dick wasn't made for one woman, it was made and designed for multiple women. So you'll be a failure if you stick to one woman in the name of being married to her and she bears the title " wife"

If King Solomon with all his Wisdom in abundance that was a divine wisdom given to him from above couldn't settled with one woman even two women, then why should i, an Olodo, that knows nothing settle with one pusssy, no, i can't and it can't happen...not in this life or next life, if there's any next life.

Opportunity presented itself to you to drill some pusssy and you fuckenly scared because you have a wife. You have disappointed your ancestors even our father King Solomon. Failure like you.

Typical mindset of an average Nigerian man. Do you see the number of supporters (likes). Dear Nigerian women, see the men you say is the price. Tufiakwa gi!
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Remman(m): 2:51pm On Jan 15, 2022
Don't cheat. Buy s*x toys and Masturbate. Thank me later.
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by merits(m): 2:53pm On Jan 15, 2022
Barrister026:
My wife left me December 18th during the festive period to her home town, til this moment I haven't had sex. Trust me it hasn't really been easy we can't fight nature.
All the temptations at work and along the roadside when am on wheels my eyes are seeing.

So I decided to visit a popular relaxing spot this evening to while away time, ordered gulder to quench my taste... to my surprise they were girls displaying their markets.

At first I ignored, but body just did me one kind, I signalled one to come sit with me bought her drink and from there ask her how much she charge.

(Which she told me, saying she go do me well)
Then I had a war going on in my mind, hope you know say you be married man?.

Seriously I got married since 2019, I haven't had another lady apart from my wife.


So we went to her room, I gave her money..she was about to pull her top.

I don't know what got into me, I say "hi please don't bother....." She was surprised.

I went outside sweating.... the money I gave her didn't pain me.

What pain me is am so ashamed of myself for even having that thought.

Even though I didn't do the act, I feel like have cheated already for entering her room.

(This feeling didn't come because she's a prostitutes, I know I feel same way if it's a normal lady)

So married men how do you confidently cheat on your wife without remorse?

guy konji never hold you well be that.
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Tobest94: 3:08pm On Jan 15, 2022
You need to stay strong for the devil.. next time no matter what, be hell bent that you’ll get down with her, you’ll see that you’ll definitely log in her portal
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by lereinter(m): 3:08pm On Jan 15, 2022
So funny

But

You have already cheated
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Nobody: 3:08pm On Jan 15, 2022
merits:


guy konji never hold you well be that.
Okay son, when you grow to my age you understand
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Nobody: 3:09pm On Jan 15, 2022
Ugandatales:


Men and women are not the same...we weren't wired the same. Have you ever seen a hen chasing a roaster for sex? The male specie natural has higher sex drive than female. Even the guys that will come and say they can go a year without sex, they still secretly masturbate.
And u think the women don't masturbate?
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Alldew: 3:09pm On Jan 15, 2022
KillIgbohoN0W:


Na your type go fight her bf when he ignore you for just 6 hours. This una fake "I can stay 1 year without sex" story has been tried, tested and debunked by me.

No Nigerian woman can go a day without sex if her man is around.
No Nigerian woman can stay 2 days without sex generally.


Argue with your postinor tablet.
Maybe you should try changing the circle of females you know.
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Nobody: 3:10pm On Jan 15, 2022
merits:


guy konji never hold you well be that.
So u believe that fairy tale too
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by merits(m): 3:11pm On Jan 15, 2022
Barrister026:

Okay son, when you grow to my age you understand
see this one.who be son,well i dont blame you this is a faceless forum.mcheeeeewwww.
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by merits(m): 3:15pm On Jan 15, 2022
killmods:

So u believe that fairy tale too
comrade am just catching cruise on his co.ck and bull story.i know it is fallacy.

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Ugandatales: 3:15pm On Jan 15, 2022
killmods:

And u think the women don't masturbate?

I never said they don't. All I'm saying is men naturally have a higher sex drive than women.
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by TheMostComplex1: 3:17pm On Jan 15, 2022
KillIgbohoN0W:


Na your type go fight her bf when he ignore you for just 6 hours. This una fake "I can stay 1 year without sex" story has been tried, tested and debunked by me.

No Nigerian woman can go a day without sex if her man is around.
No Nigerian woman can stay 2 days without sex generally.

Your last line is entirely false

Argue with your postinor tablet.
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Barbiturate(m): 3:21pm On Jan 15, 2022
cococandy:


Coming from men who ask women what they bring to the table when they can’t go a few weeks without trying to get between a woman’s leg.

Ah ah. So our body is worth that much yet they have the nerve to ask what women bring to the table. Smh

You're disgracing your gender.

So you mean pvssy is the only major thing your gender brings to the table
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by GboyegaD(m): 3:23pm On Jan 15, 2022
Klass99:


No, Brownjay I disagree. 4 weeks is not a lot or too much, for people to exercise self control and be disciplined.

Everywhere you turn these days, it's sex, sex, sex and more sex. Almost every conversation, music, TV show, etcetera... is tilted towards sex.

It's like we've become mindless robots controlled by our sexual urges and completely lacking in self restraint of any kind.

Granted, the male and female psyche may differ when it comes to sex. But, certain concepts like self control, self care, self preservation, building and maintaing trust with a partner, are not alien to us nah.

Finding exceptions to the general rule or common practice in vogue, is very refreshing. I think it's a really cool thing, when an individual sets themselves apart from the pack or norm.

It is self care and self preservation to not sleep with a person, you hardly know or just met for the first time, because konji dey catch you, it's a manly issue and women can't understand. If you catch a disease or some other kind of wahala from the fuvcking expedition, nko?

We get it, sex is important to you guys judging by the number of threads created by men on the issue of being sex starved in marriage. But, can you people at least show us, you are capable of self restraint in four weeks and you are not ruled by the organ between your legs?

People stay longer than four weeks as Matisse is more about companionship than sex. I'm sure if the wife was around, he might not be thinking about it this way.
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Joe4real1988(m): 3:23pm On Jan 15, 2022
cococandy:


Coming from men who ask women what they bring to the table when they can’t go a few weeks without trying to get between a woman’s leg.

I was reading some comments on that thread where the wife was denying her husband sex. It was really amusing to see how heated some men got from the idea of not having sex for a few weeks. Some likened it to torture. Some said the woman deserves to die for being wicked. I don’t think there was any of kind of I’ll word that wasn’t used to describe that lady.

Ah ah. So our body is worth that much yet they have the nerve to ask what women bring to the table. Smh
My dear, sex is important but a man shall not live by sex alone as the only thing a woman will bring to the table. You are always twisting narrative to castigate men, when it comes to men wanting/asking women to bring more value to a man's life. U really need to stop reasoning emotionally like woman when it comes to gender issue.
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Stevyne: 3:29pm On Jan 15, 2022
BigYash:
The matter no tire you grin
Omo the matter tire me... See wetin pussy don Men to grin

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by NwaliE01: 3:42pm On Jan 15, 2022
Is life not cheating on most of us?

My bro, I don't feel anything because life itself is not genuine.
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by JayPeeOham: 3:45pm On Jan 15, 2022
Barrister026:
My wife left me December 18th during the festive period to her home town, til this moment I haven't had sex. Trust me it hasn't really been easy we can't fight nature.
All the temptations at work and along the roadside when am on wheels my eyes are seeing.

So I decided to visit a popular relaxing spot this evening to while away time, ordered gulder to quench my taste... to my surprise they were girls displaying their markets.

At first I ignored, but body just did me one kind, I signalled one to come sit with me bought her drink and from there ask her how much she charge.

(Which she told me, saying she go do me well)
Then I had a war going on in my mind, hope you know say you be married man?.

Seriously I got married since 2019, I haven't had another lady apart from my wife.


So we went to her room, I gave her money..she was about to pull her top.

I don't know what got into me, I say "hi please don't bother....." She was surprised.

I went outside sweating.... the money I gave her didn't pain me.

What pain me is am so ashamed of myself for even having that thought.

Even though I didn't do the act, I feel like have cheated already for entering her room.

(This feeling didn't come because she's a prostitutes, I know I feel same way if it's a normal lady)

So married men how do you confidently cheat on your wife without remorse?

OP Mr Barrister Lawyer I'm sorry to say this, but without mincing words, the bitter truth is you will eventually cheat on your wife someday because you've already started doing that in your mind. undecided

Or maybe your wife would never travel again till death do you path. It's only a matter of time.

So do well to release the sequel of this your story when the deed is done tongue
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by aidameoryou: 3:49pm On Jan 15, 2022
descarado:
When more than half of your Brian cell thinks about sex always, this should be the situation you find yourself in.

Few weeks without sex and heaven will fall.

Men are busy exploring how to go to Mars and Jupiter, my brothers are only interested in sex and food.
Tomorrow they will look for whose head to cut off for money ritual.


With all your know all and know how, I hope you are competing with the likes of Jeff bezos and elon musk.

If not, then you are a more failure than I think
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by bepositive11: 3:53pm On Jan 15, 2022
Efewestern:


Don't demonize our need for sex and food.

Every healthy man craves sex. Having sex won't stop your from achieving your goals or exploring Mars.

The men who travel to Jupiter and Saturn also have constant sex. It is an innate need in men that we shouldn't demonize or shy away from.

Astronauts don't bring their wives or prostitutes with them to Mars or space tongue They must be masturbating to relieve their urges
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by bepositive11: 3:57pm On Jan 15, 2022
Afonasa:
Wow,that's a trait that's hard to find.
For me I don't know if I'll pass that temptation ooo,but its nice to hear someone doing it because I hope to do better in marriage.


Guy check out my signature,even without skills or as a newbie.ur results is my aim

True. But the fact that he came so close, I'm sure he'll go through with it the next time
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Klass99(f): 4:00pm On Jan 15, 2022
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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by aidameoryou: 4:10pm On Jan 15, 2022
Edusouls:
Nigerian Married men are the most irresponsible, most behave worse than dogs, make I see una bash women here again, shameless things.

Then you must be a very stupid and useless man to generalize that NIGERIAN MEN ARE ALL THESE YOU MENTIONED

you are definitely not a man
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by 3verblazing(m): 4:10pm On Jan 15, 2022
Hathor5:
4 weeks without sex is that hard? undecided
it's hard undecided
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by bepositive11: 4:19pm On Jan 15, 2022
Misterone:
it is not about missing anything but about the call of nature. you cannot cheat nature. you have to find a way to relieve yourself one way or the other. me and my wife do not work in the same state. sometimes we don't see each other for about 2 months. I use vaseline to help myself. those that say masturbation is a sin and has side effects, this is one of the advantages of masturbation. you either masturbate or sleep with a strange woman. which is better? those that say abstinence are talking rubbish. the emotional and psychological effects is something else. not to talk of the health aspect. relieve yourself and move on. I self-service myself to help myself you say na offence.

Exactly. So many ignorant people here

It's better to masturbate than to risk getting stds or impregnating another woman

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by bepositive11: 4:19pm On Jan 15, 2022
redstaarx:


I celebrate your discipline sir. In this life once you’re disciplined everything is easy

So true. Self discipline unlocks so much
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Nothingserious: 4:22pm On Jan 15, 2022
Klass99:


No, Brownjay I disagree. 4 weeks is not a lot or too much, for people to exercise self control and be disciplined.

Everywhere you turn these days, it's sex, sex, sex and more sex. Almost every conversation, music, TV show, etcetera... is tilted towards sex.

It's like we've become mindless robots controlled by our sexual urges and completely lacking in self restraint of any kind.

Granted, the male and female psyche may differ when it comes to sex. But, certain concepts like self control, self care, self preservation, building and maintaing trust with a partner, are not alien to us nah.

Finding exceptions to the general rule or common practice in vogue, is very refreshing. I think it's a really cool thing, when an individual sets themselves apart from the pack or norm.

It is self care and self preservation to not sleep with a person, you hardly know or just met for the first time, because konji dey catch you, it's a manly issue and women can't understand. If you catch a disease or some other kind of wahala from the fuvcking expedition, nko?

We get it, sex is important to you guys judging by the number of threads created by men on the issue of being sex starved in marriage. But, can you people at least show us, you are capable of self restraint in four weeks and you are not ruled by the organ between your legs?

You are intelligent.
You are sane.
You are blunt.
You appear mature.

Kudos!

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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by zoedew: 4:23pm On Jan 15, 2022
Barrister026:
My wife left me December 18th during the festive period to her home town, til this moment I haven't had sex. Trust me it hasn't really been easy we can't fight nature.
All the temptations at work and along the roadside when am on wheels my eyes are seeing.

So I decided to visit a popular relaxing spot this evening to while away time, ordered gulder to quench my taste... to my surprise they were girls displaying their markets.

At first I ignored, but body just did me one kind, I signalled one to come sit with me bought her drink and from there ask her how much she charge.

(Which she told me, saying she go do me well)
Then I had a war going on in my mind, hope you know say you be married man?.

Seriously I got married since 2019, I haven't had another lady apart from my wife.


So we went to her room, I gave her money..she was about to pull her top.

I don't know what got into me, I say "hi please don't bother....." She was surprised.

I went outside sweating.... the money I gave her didn't pain me.

What pain me is am so ashamed of myself for even having that thought.

Even though I didn't do the act, I feel like have cheated already for entering her room.

(This feeling didn't come because she's a prostitutes, I know I feel same way if it's a normal lady)

So married men how do you confidently cheat on your wife without remorse?
YOU ARE NOT FAR FROM THE KINGDOM OF GOD. NEXT, GIVE YOUR LIFE TO CHRIST. GULDER WILL ALSO LEAVE YOU!
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Nobody: 4:26pm On Jan 15, 2022
zoedew:

YOU ARE NOT FAR FROM THE KINGDOM OF GOD. NEXT, GIVE YOUR LIFE TO CHRIST. GULDER WILL ALSO LEAVE YOU!
Hypocrite

Even jesus drank wine.
Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Klass99(f): 4:27pm On Jan 15, 2022
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Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by DMerciful(m): 4:34pm On Jan 15, 2022
You got it wrong! Insofar you made a vow during wedding to be available sexually as required, you have to fulfill your end of the bargain. If married women will not complain if their husbands cheat, they'll know that their bodies is not worth that much because you can get probably a better body to bang for #500 grin
cococandy:


Coming from men who ask women what they bring to the table when they can’t go a few weeks without trying to get between a woman’s leg.

I was reading some comments on that thread where the wife was denying her husband sex. It was really amusing to see how heated some men got from the idea of not having sex for a few weeks. Some likened it to torture. Some said the woman deserves to die for being wicked. I don’t think there was any of kind of I’ll word that wasn’t used to describe that lady.

Ah ah. So our body is worth that much yet they have the nerve to ask what women bring to the table. Smh

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