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Nice epistle....also remember pornography makes you masturbate,and masturbation leafs to weak erection,erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation.....be in charge of your life and treat yourself of any of these...there's potent herbal cure for them

Op be there thinking pornstars dislike their job. I asked a LovePeddler in Nigeria here if she would do porn for 100k she told me to link her up if I had the connect! Foreign pornstars make as high as 1k5 dollz per shoot, lol ur bankers here are struggling to make 70dollz per month

Goldbw122:
This post should be on the front page, nice one

Exactly

Kabir5643:

Exactly

Thanks.

Lalasticlala will do the needful preferably latter in the evening.

badbreathcure101:
Op be there thinking pornstars dislike their job. I asked a LovePeddler in Nigeria here if she would do porn for 100k she told me to link her up if I had the connect! Foreign pornstars make as high as 1k5 dollz per shoot, lol ur bankers here are struggling to make 70dollz per month

LOL! You have no idea. Everything is not about money... Some jobs be like bondage and until you start it, you won't understand.

You think every armed robber or yahoo boy are happy with what they do despite the money they make? This thing is deep.

Toks2008:


LOL! You have no idea. Everything is not about money... Some jobs be like bondage and until you start it, you won't understand.

You think every armed robber or yahoo boy are happy with what they do despite the money they make? This thing is deep.

Well, the actresses may not like it, I don't believe the same can be said about the guys..

Just imagine if the role was reversed in Nigeria and guys were the ones that get paid to have sex with the ladies... Hmmm I won't say a word

Toks2008:


LOL! You have no idea. Everything is not about money... Some jobs be like bondage and until you start it, you won't understand.

You think every armed robber or yahoo boy are happy with what they do despite the money they make? This thing is deep.

I Gerrit but u will agree there has to be consent at some point. Even I one if forced to join cultism or become a IndecentStar they will only force you to consent to it so I believe everyone into these things at one point enjoy it and received some reward from it.

Emerald04:
Don’t really agree with your last point. If they feel ashamed or disgusted after the act, why always returning back to act another one lol..
You think dem this werey milf Lisa ANn and August Taylor dey feel ashame?

This one don watch porn like oloribu.

muheeb01:
Nice epistle....also remember pornography makes you masturbate,and masturbation leafs to weak erection,erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation.....be in charge of your life and treat yourself of any of these...there's potent herbal cure for them

True

Greatzeus:
This is very brilliant and balanced.

Yeah. Thanks

Akwaibomdude:
It seems something is definitely wrong with you upstairs

Datboredberry:
How about you add the point that not every woman has those perfect bodies of pornstars... Brazilian butt-lifts and Silicone tits...

All you've written is to massage the egos of depression, insecure men...

It's good... But you helped only one side... Which doesn't help in a long run

He did emphasize on that too. Read 6th point

This is very brilliant and balanced.

Dagger111:



This one don watch porn like oloribu.

Nice write up. Naira land administration should move this post to the front page. Pornography is ruining relationships, marriages etc

kellexnuel:
Nice write up. Naira land administration should move this post to the front page. Pornography is ruining relationships, marriages etc

Sure it is

WOW!

Toks2008:
I watched a program on YouTube where the issue of pornography was discussed and i find it interesting to build on what was discussed as i strongly believe it will be of great benefit to everyone.

Below are seven differences between Porn intimacy and Real life intimacy.

1. In Porn videos, the average size of the actor's vital part is between 8 to 12 inches long but in real life, the average size is between 5 to 7 inches long. The actors are recruited because they have a larger than normal size and this must never be seen as the norm because only less than 5% of men world wide have a size longer than 7inches whilst the remaining 95% are between 5 to 7inches size when erect.

So this is a takeaway I want you to have that pornography consumption decreases self-esteem in men because they tend to compare themselves with the porn actors when it comes to penis size and even men with perfect size will always see themselves as inadequate because they just can't help comparing their size with that of the freaks in the porn video. The simple truth is that a lady in the real life does not need an extra big penis size to enjoy real sex and several researches have proved that an average size is preferred by most ladies.

2. Most Women are not interested in the extreme acts you see in porn videos like aggressive, rough, Anal, gang s*x and several other types of sexual acts that are not realistic . The act of real sex in real life is that of connection, understanding , comfort ,pleasure without body twisting , true feelings happiness, fulfilment and lots more so you do not bring the act you see in porn to real sex in real life.

3. Another difference is that of instant turn on and readiness for sex and the longevity of the intimacy. The reality is that these actors are mostly on sex inducing products that give them the instant kick but in the real world it does not work that way all the time in fact most times people in the real world need a lot of time to get in the mood because in most cases, most people would have had a busy day and will need time to rest and get into the mood and sometimes many people are weighed down by so many factors that mitigate against having sexual urge hence the need to have a longer time to get into the mood. It is not also realistic for a sexual intimacy to go on and on as seen in porn but as i wrote earlier, these porn actors are induced in such a way that they can have instant attention and also go on for several minutes but in the real world, any intimacy that lasts between 3 to 6minutes is perfectly ok. This false representation as seen in the porn world is the reason why many ladies erroneously believe that their partners have sexual problems but this is not the case.

4. Pornography is basically performance oriented which means this actors have one primary goal which is to perform for the viewers whether they are in the mood or not and to impress the viewers because that is what they are paid to do. In real life, intimacy is never about performing to impress anyone but it is about connection , getting ready, being in the mood, enjoying the company of the person and it is about feelings which is subject to several factors hence intimacy must not be satisfying all the time and the two people involved must have an understanding in that regards.

5. Pornography create anxiety, Shame and sometimes depression as a result of an isolated life created by porn addition. Viewers tend to fantasize about an unrealistic act thereby drifting away from the reality of what intimacy stands for. The more you watch porn the more you get isolated from the world. Real sex is supposed to bring you to connect with a real person in a real-world that will most likely literally lead to real sexual relationship. Porn Sex in most cases lead to sexual dysfunction in men as a result of addiction to fantasy sex and for the ladies, it usually lead to lack of interest in any man that does not fit into the image of the actors in the porn scenes. Men in the real world ae not porn stars and you should not expect them to be.

6. Most Ladies in the porn videos are not what they seem: many men are usually carried away by the curves, boobs and booties they see in porn and they always expect to see same in the real world but this is not so. Most of the ladies in the porn videos have altered bodies just to make them more acceptable for the job. In the real world, guys must learn to accept ladies the way they are without having too much expectation or body shaming them.

Most ladies you see in the porn videos also use enhancing products to increase their libido and also reduce the pains they go through which is why they can indulge in sex with multiple men, appear to enjoy the extra large organs and take several positions effortlessly... But please that is not the way it is in real life so no man should expect a normal lady to do same acts as this may lead to unpleasant consequences.

7. Porn is fake and none of it is real .Most of the actress don't want to be there and they hate what they do . Many of them when interviewed have expressed how disgusted and depressed thy feel after they put up a performance. So why use a fake life as a comparison to the real world.


Hope this helps.

How do you think this will help?

bluefilm:


How do you think this will help?

I doubt if it will ever help someone with your type of username

Toks2008:


I doubt if it will ever help someone with your type of username

Of course, it can't.

Anybody watching porn knows that porn is nothing but fantasy.

So if anyone should allow what they see in porn to control or dictate their lives in reality, that is nothing but their own cup of garri.

bluefilm:


Of course, it can't.

Anybody watching porn knows that porn is nothing but fantasy.

So if anyone should allow what they see in porn to control or dictate their lives in reality, that is nothing but their own cup of garri.

You obviously have no clue about the mental damage porn has done to the lives of people and that is what this thread is pointing out...to let many people understand the fakeness of porn.

Toks2008:


You obviously have no clue about the mental damage porn has done to the lives of people and that is what this thread is pointing out...to let many people understand the fakeness of porn.

I don't need to hear from anyone else the dangers that porn might have inflicted on them.

Of course, that is their own experience and they can say whatever they like.

But as for me, I have watched porn for years and I can tell you that porn is nothing but just a fantasy to me.

The mental damage you are talking about is a mystery to me.

But then, you can decide to either believe me or not.

Let me just reference lalasticlala this last time. I have to modify the title cos i strongly believe this thread is a very good piece for the front page.

kellexnuel:
Nice write up. Naira land administration should move this post to the front page. Pornography is ruining relationships, marriages etc

This is indeed a fantastic thread. I think Ladies especially should learn from this cos they are usually the ones who get carried away by the fakeness of porn.

They buy larger than normal toy and they will now be looking for a monster with such a size.

Just like every other addiction, porn addiction isn't something that's very easy to break. I pray those currently addicted to it find it easy to break free.



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Well said

Many of us here have watched it one way or the order.. let's all keep making affirt to quit!

Just like that

goshikid:
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