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Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by BePrepared: 12:18pm On Mar 13, 2022
Emerald04:
Don’t really agree with your last point. If they feel ashamed or disgusted after the act, why always returning back to act another one lol..
You think dem this werey milf Lisa ANn and August Taylor dey feel ashame?


Most were deceived, trafficked etc many have come to say they weren't themselves

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Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by NGArmyTerrorist: 12:20pm On Mar 13, 2022
Akwaibomdude:
It seems something is definitely wrong with you upstairs

Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by WarriAproko: 12:27pm On Mar 13, 2022
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For more porn go daftsex .com
Go watch all this u go forget girlfriend. They are good in cowriding.

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Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by Ayiibobo(m): 12:32pm On Mar 13, 2022
Can't you people just mind your business for once,..how does one person's self gratification affect you op?,why must you people find ways to imprison the human body's natural needs?

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Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by Freemasonry: 1:02pm On Mar 13, 2022
God bless OP.
You literally took the words out of my mouth. I totally agree with you. These sexual acts are performed over a long period and the videos edited to sync. That's how they achieve the unrealistic durations.

And these things leave a subtle yet profound damage on one's psyche.
Boom! Low self esteem.

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Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by Titaniumental: 1:03pm On Mar 13, 2022
Chloraseptic:


Well, the actresses may not like it, I don't believe the same can be said about the guys..

Just imagine if the role was reversed in Nigeria and guys were the ones that get paid to have sex with the ladies... Hmmm I won't say a word
Funny,
And who told you male pornstars don't get paid......infact they earn more than their female counterpart........if you know the amount of insurance on Kieren lee's d**ck alone grin

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Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by NOwazobia: 1:06pm On Mar 13, 2022
jclassiq:

Actually, technology has made both gender start feeling as if they don't need each other. The women, particularly, because they feel like the men owe them something, so they withhold intimacy thinking they are punishing the men. But the problem is that they themselves also need intimacy so they resort to self help and Band-aid: they watch por*n, they buy vibrator and Love Machine, they do all sorts, but those things don't actually satisfy or offer real intimacy. In the long run they start feeling hateful and bitter towards men because their bloated ego won't let them admit that they need the men as much as the men need them.
We need each other to survive and thrive in this beautiful world.
Beauty is subjective though.

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Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by Osashalom: 1:17pm On Mar 13, 2022
Datboredberry:
How about you add the point that not every woman has those perfect bodies of pornstars... Brazilian butt-lifts and Silicone tits...

All you've written is to massage the egos of depression, insecure men...

It's good... But you helped only one side... Which doesn't help in a long run
I pity who doesn't pity you.

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Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by vincixpresso: 1:27pm On Mar 13, 2022
Guy, who provoked u��
Akwaibomdude:
It seems something is definitely wrong with you upstairs
Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by SocialJustice: 1:27pm On Mar 13, 2022
Akwaibomdude:
It seems something is definitely wrong with you upstairs
Thank you jare.
Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by Freddo99(m): 1:45pm On Mar 13, 2022
Emerald04:
Don’t really agree with your last point. If they feel ashamed or disgusted after the act, why always returning back to act another one lol..
You think dem this werey milf Lisa ANn and August Taylor dey feel ashame?
is because of the money they are getting, thats why they get back to the same act once again.
Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by phenase(m): 1:48pm On Mar 13, 2022
THIS IS THE TRUTH, BELIEVE IT AND HAVE PEACE. HOW I WISH PORNOGRAPHY CAN BE BARNED


cool
Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by Babatojide: 1:49pm On Mar 13, 2022
Porn has saved a lot of men from becoming Rapist
And has also prevented the rape of many...
The low self esteem is for those who pretend to hate it but watch it
Na u and your conscience dey fight
No b porn deflate your ego
I come in peace...

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Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by wiseoneking: 2:18pm On Mar 13, 2022
Emerald04:
Don’t really agree with your last point. If they feel ashamed or disgusted after the act, why always returning back to act another one lol..
You think dem this werey milf Lisa ANn and August Taylor dey feel ashame?
is on record that most actors are either permanently depressed, suicidal etc
Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by naturefellow(m): 2:30pm On Mar 13, 2022
Mikester:
If you want God to increase your position this year, click like. If you want him to give you children/wife/properties click share!
make all of una no go work, na sapa go tell una
Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by ikorodureporta: 3:55pm On Mar 13, 2022
Toks2008:
I watched a program on YouTube where the issue of pornography was discussed and i find it interesting to build on what was discussed as i strongly believe it will be of great benefit to everyone.

Below are seven reasons you should disconnect yourself from Pornography

1. IT DECREASES SELF ESTEEM IN MEN In Porn videos, the average size of the actor's vital part is between 8 to 12 inches long but in real life, the average size is between 5 to 7 inches long. The actors are recruited because they have a larger than normal size and this must never be seen as the norm because only less than 5% of men world wide have a size longer than 7inches whilst the remaining 95% are between 5 to 7inches size when erect.

So this is a takeaway I want you to have that pornography consumption decreases self-esteem in men because they tend to compare themselves with the porn actors when it comes to penis size and even men with perfect size will always see themselves as inadequate because they just can't help comparing their size with that of the freaks in the porn video. The simple truth is that a lady in the real life does not need an extra big penis size to enjoy real sex and several researches have proved that an average size is preferred by most ladies.

2. Most Women are not interested in the extreme acts you see in porn videos like aggressive, rough, Anal, gang s*x and several other types of sexual acts that are not realistic . The act of real sex in real life is that of connection, understanding , comfort ,pleasure without body twisting , true feelings happiness, fulfilment and lots more so you do not bring the act you see in porn to real sex in real life.

3. UNREALISTIC LIBIDO The instant turn on and readiness for sex and the longevity of the intimacy is totally unrealistic. The reality is that these actors are mostly on sex inducing products that give them the instant kick but in the real world it does not work that way all the time in fact most times people in the real world need a lot of time to get in the mood because in most cases, most people would have had a busy day and will need time to rest and get into the mood and sometimes many people are weighed down by so many factors that mitigate against having sexual urge hence the need to have a longer time to get into the mood. It is not also realistic for a sexual intimacy to go on and on as seen in porn but as i wrote earlier, these porn actors are induced in such a way that they can have instant attention and also go on for several minutes but in the real world, any intimacy that lasts between 3 to 6minutes is perfectly ok. This false representation as seen in the porn world is the reason why many ladies erroneously believe that their partners have sexual problems but this is not the case.

4. Pornography is basically performance oriented which means this actors have one primary goal which is to perform for the viewers whether they are in the mood or not and to impress the viewers because that is what they are paid to do. In real life, intimacy is never about performing to impress anyone but it is about connection , getting ready, being in the mood, enjoying the company of the person and it is about feelings which is subject to several factors hence intimacy must not be satisfying all the time and the two people involved must have an understanding in that regards.

5. Pornography create anxiety, Shame and sometimes depression as a result of an isolated life created by porn addition. Viewers tend to fantasize about an unrealistic act thereby drifting away from the reality of what intimacy stands for. The more you watch porn the more you get isolated from the world. Real sex is supposed to bring you to connect with a real person in a real-world that will most likely literally lead to real sexual relationship. Porn Sex in most cases lead to sexual dysfunction in men as a result of addiction to fantasy sex and for the ladies, it usually lead to lack of interest in any man that does not fit into the image of the actors in the porn scenes. Men in the real world ae not porn stars and you should not expect them to be.

6. Most Ladies in the porn videos are not what they seem: many men are usually carried away by the curves, boobs and booties they see in porn and they always expect to see same in the real world but this is not so. Most of the ladies in the porn videos have altered bodies just to make them more acceptable for the job. In the real world, guys must learn to accept ladies the way they are without having too much expectation or body shaming them.

Most ladies you see in the porn videos also use enhancing products to increase their libido and also reduce the pains they go through which is why they can indulge in sex with multiple men, appear to enjoy the extra large organs and take several positions effortlessly... But please that is not the way it is in real life so no man should expect a normal lady to do same acts as this may lead to unpleasant consequences.

7. Porn is fake and none of it is real .Most of the actress don't want to be there and they hate what they do . Many of them when interviewed have expressed how disgusted and depressed thy feel after they put up a performance. So why use a fake life as a comparison to the real world.


Hope this helps.
Who told you that most women are not interested ??
Men aren't interested too right? grin
Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 4:02pm On Mar 13, 2022
Mikester:
If you want God to increase your position this year, click like. If you want him to give you children/wife/properties click share!
now that you have gotten what you want which is likes and share, can you now tell the gullible people that God never tell you to lie to them

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Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by Holluwhakemmy(f): 4:51pm On Mar 13, 2022
Mikester:
If you want God to increase your position this year, click like. If you want him to give you children/wife/properties click share!
what of Husband? You didn't write it there.
Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by Nobody: 5:02pm On Mar 13, 2022
Porn is addictive(knew what I Went through to stop watching it, went through series of prayers, counselling and deliverance),fake, evil brings bad luck setbacks and failure. Take it or leave

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Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by Favmil101(m): 5:36pm On Mar 13, 2022
Datboredberry:
grin

Watching porn is definitely better than betnaija and co...

Trust me

Nothing is better
Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by Favmil101(m): 5:38pm On Mar 13, 2022
Putinmyrod:
Lol, every woman wants a porn star in the bedroom.
You are right. That's the reason they will be giving you so many styles.
Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by Nobody: 5:49pm On Mar 13, 2022
Toks2008:
I watched a program on YouTube where the issue of pornography was discussed and i find it interesting to build on what was discussed as i strongly believe it will be of great benefit to everyone.

Below are seven reasons you should disconnect yourself from Pornography

1. IT DECREASES SELF ESTEEM IN MEN In Porn videos, the average size of the actor's vital part is between 8 to 12 inches long but in real life, the average size is between 5 to 7 inches long. The actors are recruited because they have a larger than normal size and this must never be seen as the norm because only less than 5% of men world wide have a size longer than 7inches whilst the remaining 95% are between 5 to 7inches size when erect.

So this is a takeaway I want you to have that pornography consumption decreases self-esteem in men because they tend to compare themselves with the porn actors when it comes to penis size and even men with perfect size will always see themselves as inadequate because they just can't help comparing their size with that of the freaks in the porn video. The simple truth is that a lady in the real life does not need an extra big penis size to enjoy real sex and several researches have proved that an average size is preferred by most ladies.

2. Most Women are not interested in the extreme acts you see in porn videos like aggressive, rough, Anal, gang s*x and several other types of sexual acts that are not realistic . The act of real sex in real life is that of connection, understanding , comfort ,pleasure without body twisting , true feelings happiness, fulfilment and lots more so you do not bring the act you see in porn to real sex in real life.

3. UNREALISTIC LIBIDO The instant turn on and readiness for sex and the longevity of the intimacy is totally unrealistic. The reality is that these actors are mostly on sex inducing products that give them the instant kick but in the real world it does not work that way all the time in fact most times people in the real world need a lot of time to get in the mood because in most cases, most people would have had a busy day and will need time to rest and get into the mood and sometimes many people are weighed down by so many factors that mitigate against having sexual urge hence the need to have a longer time to get into the mood. It is not also realistic for a sexual intimacy to go on and on as seen in porn but as i wrote earlier, these porn actors are induced in such a way that they can have instant attention and also go on for several minutes but in the real world, any intimacy that lasts between 3 to 6minutes is perfectly ok. This false representation as seen in the porn world is the reason why many ladies erroneously believe that their partners have sexual problems but this is not the case.

4. Pornography is basically performance oriented which means this actors have one primary goal which is to perform for the viewers whether they are in the mood or not and to impress the viewers because that is what they are paid to do. In real life, intimacy is never about performing to impress anyone but it is about connection , getting ready, being in the mood, enjoying the company of the person and it is about feelings which is subject to several factors hence intimacy must not be satisfying all the time and the two people involved must have an understanding in that regards.

5. Pornography create anxiety, Shame and sometimes depression as a result of an isolated life created by porn addition. Viewers tend to fantasize about an unrealistic act thereby drifting away from the reality of what intimacy stands for. The more you watch porn the more you get isolated from the world. Real sex is supposed to bring you to connect with a real person in a real-world that will most likely literally lead to real sexual relationship. Porn Sex in most cases lead to sexual dysfunction in men as a result of addiction to fantasy sex and for the ladies, it usually lead to lack of interest in any man that does not fit into the image of the actors in the porn scenes. Men in the real world ae not porn stars and you should not expect them to be.

6. Most Ladies in the porn videos are not what they seem: many men are usually carried away by the curves, boobs and booties they see in porn and they always expect to see same in the real world but this is not so. Most of the ladies in the porn videos have altered bodies just to make them more acceptable for the job. In the real world, guys must learn to accept ladies the way they are without having too much expectation or body shaming them.

Most ladies you see in the porn videos also use enhancing products to increase their libido and also reduce the pains they go through which is why they can indulge in sex with multiple men, appear to enjoy the extra large organs and take several positions effortlessly... But please that is not the way it is in real life so no man should expect a normal lady to do same acts as this may lead to unpleasant consequences.

7. Porn is fake and none of it is real .Most of the actress don't want to be there and they hate what they do . Many of them when interviewed have expressed how disgusted and depressed thy feel after they put up a performance. So why use a fake life as a comparison to the real world.


Hope this helps.

Thank you sir you just save my sex life I thought erection should just come at once because that what we see in this porn movies embarassed
Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by Atimjessy(f): 5:55pm On Mar 13, 2022
Pornography is good for your wellbeing.
Though I don't like it
Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by 2DADDEY: 5:59pm On Mar 13, 2022
Porn addiction is bad

But masturbation relieve tension

Too young to be wasting away in jail cos of Cummings
Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by dominion001(m): 6:19pm On Mar 13, 2022
People still dey get time watch porn for this buhari regime?
Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by bizzibodi(m): 6:37pm On Mar 13, 2022
Titaniumental:

Funny,
And who told you male pornstars don't get paid......infact they earn more than their female counterpart........if you know the amount of insurance on Kieren lee's d**ck alone grin
$1m insurance for dick fa!
Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by Toks2008(m): 6:42pm On Mar 13, 2022
Jesse25:


Thank you sir you just save my sex life I thought erection should just come at once because that what we see in this porn movies embarassed
Thank lalasticlala for beaming the thread.
All the best.
Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by bizzibodi(m): 6:55pm On Mar 13, 2022
Brownygold002:
Porn is addictive(knew what I Went through to stop watching it, went through series of prayers, counselling and deliverance),fake, evil brings bad luck setbacks and failure. Take it or leave
So women watch porns also.
Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by bizzibodi(m): 6:59pm On Mar 13, 2022
Porn is educative,I learnt a lot of fulfilling style through porn.
Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by MrRemedyAlagbo(m): 7:40pm On Mar 13, 2022
You're right to some extent
Re: Seven Reasons why you should disconnect yourself from Pornography. by otherway: 10:51pm On Mar 13, 2022
One of the best threads to grace nairaland front page.

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