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Seven Reasons A Girl Says No When She Means Yes by Leriland(m): 11:49pm On Jun 03, 2018
Nazlanmak is a Turkish word which is plainly translated into English means “pretending reluctance or indifference when you’re actually willing or eager: to say no but meaning yes”. One of the greatest complexity or should I say, the greatest mystery of women according to men is a woman’s reluctance to say/speak/admit their minds/intentions/feelings. Women according to some men are pretentious and deceitful or just don’t know what they want. Whereas men say what they want and go for it, women on the other hand, form ignorance, act like they don’t want it but inside they die to have it/him.Reasons why girls say no

It’s no secret that when a woman says no, she doesn’t always means no, most times she means try again later. A woman could say no with her mouth but mean yes with her heart. Some people might term this as the “playing-hard-to-get” or the “not-knowing-what-she-wants”tactics.



So why do some most women exhibit nazlanmak attitudes towards men?:

They derive joy from it: On average a girl gets approached toasted by at least 5 men everyday either through social media or even while walking on the road. Therefore it’s only normal for a girl to do small shakara even to the man she finds attractive. this makes her feel on the top of the World and in charge.
To keep him on his toes: When a girl gives a guy the ‘NO’ feeling even when everything within her wants to say yes, she indirectly keeps him on his toes. He works harder to win her over not realizing he already has her won over but just needs to exercise patience.
Shows his seriousness: Men are like predators, they hunt and when they know what they want they go for it at all costs. When a guy is just testing the water i.e trying his luck with any other girl, the word NO has a way of hurting his pride and since he doesn’t see her as valuable, he moves on (to some players, the word no only turns them on the more). If a man truly values the girl in question, the word no only inspires him to try harder. I have heard tales of men that toasted the same girl for over a year until she said yes. If he wasn’t serious about her, he would have moved on a long time ago.
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Re: Seven Reasons A Girl Says No When She Means Yes by ubunja(m): 2:54am On Jun 04, 2018
No means No. continue that bullshit and jail will be your new address

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Re: Seven Reasons A Girl Says No When She Means Yes by Sheuns(m): 3:09am On Jun 04, 2018
ubunja:
No means No. continue that bullshit and jail will be your new address

grin
Re: Seven Reasons A Girl Says No When She Means Yes by Nobody: 5:00am On Jun 04, 2018
ubunja:
No means No. continue that bullshit and jail will be your new address
a gal told me no after kiss nd romance. She later blocked me o. When i called her she said i wasnt man enuf dat no meant yes nd i shud hv persisted
Re: Seven Reasons A Girl Says No When She Means Yes by kmaster007: 5:14am On Jun 04, 2018
interesting
Re: Seven Reasons A Girl Says No When She Means Yes by ubunja(m): 5:56am On Jun 04, 2018
yeyerolling:
a gal told me no after kiss nd romance. She later blocked me o. When i called her she said i wasnt man enuf dat no meant yes nd i shud hv persisted
i know. but in today's climate where girls are quick to cry rape you can put yourself in danger by being too persistent.
i always tell my girls if you cant participate willingly to my advances and romance its a turn off for me. and most drop that childish "resistance".

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Re: Seven Reasons A Girl Says No When She Means Yes by Cutehector(m): 5:59am On Jun 04, 2018
If you are a Lady and you tell me no, and expect me to keep on pestering your confused life, i'm sorry.. It don't work that way in my dictionary.
Re: Seven Reasons A Girl Says No When She Means Yes by RemedyLab: 6:41am On Jun 04, 2018
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Re: Seven Reasons A Girl Says No When She Means Yes by rex444(m): 10:13am On Jun 04, 2018
Hnmmm this one weak me oooo. Its complicated
Re: Seven Reasons A Girl Says No When She Means Yes by OneCorner: 12:13pm On Jun 05, 2018
yeyerolling:
a gal told me no after kiss nd romance. She later blocked me o. When i called her she said i wasnt man enuf dat no meant yes nd i shud hv persisted
Next time u see her, tell her dat I say her brain is leaking

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