Before I rant::

I'm a girl... I like and date mostly boys (so I'm focusing on them)... I'm eighteen, so I like and boys between 18-25... I'm from a southern state... I rarely judge...

My observation::

I recently travelled back home, to my state... I'm living in my family home in a small quiet town... Correction, it was quiet then... Now, it's just one big nightclub!

Before, I've been residing in Abuja... The boys there are from all over the country... They are just okay... Some are wayward, others aren't... An average score of 5/10... I hardly liked any...

Where I am presently, every boy who's my age mate is a yahoo boy!!!

It's insane! The dreads, the ripped jeans... These would be normal to me because I'm liberal but I'm smart enough to know that this is the signature look of yahoo boys...

This afternoon I went out... There's a neighbour who's about 21-23... He's really cute (I find dreads attractive)... He's been looking at me a lot too... But he's a yahoo boy... He hangs out with a rough crowd... And he's UNDATABLE!!! Because yahoo boys are into rituals and therefore predators...

And nearly 80% of the boys here are like him... Young, poor, desperate and dangerous...

I also found out that the South South States are hot... In pidgin, "most of the boys don cast"...

Delta (Warri, Abraka, Sapele esp.), Bayelsa, Port-harcourt, Edo (Benin esp.), etc...

Not to mention the Western states and even those to the East...

Girls my generation, it would be very difficult to find someone to date... Especially the good girls...

Even the bad boys in Abuja and the other Northern states, most were Southerners...

Good boys are nearly extinct in Nigeria...

MrSeth:
You are 18? Sighs

autocorrect changed the word 'Undatable' to 'Insatiable'...

I'm just complaining that most boys my age aren't even worth liking because they are into Yahoo and rituals...

Nothing to do with sex...

It was awkward...

18 those years worried about their studies.Boys were the least of their problems.

thorpido:
18 those years worried about their studies.Boys were the least of their problems.

Stop being stupid...

I'm eighteen... Legally an adult... I've passed puberty years ago... So I definitely like boys and enjoy dating...

Most of you try so hard to sound mature... Yet most folks your generation lost their virginity in their early teens... You're chatting with someone who's proudly celibate... So shove your hypocrisy and self-righteous...

And don't worry... I'm smart enough to like boys and still maintain excellent grades...

If you lagged behind in school, its cool... But not everyone is you...

MrSeth:


Why am I confused right now?

Because the title I wrote earlier was wrong...

Here's my point:

I just travelled to the South... to discover that most boys, 15 - 25+, are into Yahoo and rituals...

And the girls are mostly prostitutes...

But since I prefer dating boys, I'm just complaining that there's so little left who are worth being with...

And it's getting worse... So the next generation would only suffer more...

I just had the hottest dream. wanna hear it?

Datboredberry:
Stop being stupid...

I'm eighteen... Legally an adult... I've passed puberty years ago... So I definitely like boys and enjoy dating...

Most of you try so hard to sound mature... Yet most folks your generation lost their virginity in their early teens... You're chatting with someone who's proudly celibate... So shove your hypocrisy and self-righteous...

And don't worry... I'm smart enough to like boys and still maintain excellent grades...

If you lagged behind in school, its cool... But not everyone is you...

You're 18 indeed.smh

thorpido:
You're 18 indeed.smh

Yes elder...

Because...

During your time, eighteen year olds never cursed...

Sorry for the harsh word, but it's irritating when you folks try to slut-shame an eighteen year old for having crushes on boys her age...

Its worse when you make it seem as if you and your mates were better...

MrSeth:


How did you come up with this statistics?

I can see them... How do you know a prostitute? How do you know a corrupt politician?

This is my state... The topic trending here is the yahoo boys and the fetish things they did to make their money...

When you see 70 of 100 young boys with dyed dreads and ripped jeans and jackets worn over their bare chests... It's hard to not know... Ignoring the slangs...

Besides, most brag about it...

Datboredberry:


Yes elder...

Because...

During your time, eighteen year olds never cursed...

Sorry for the harsh word, but it's irritating when you folks try to slut-shame an eighteen year old for having crushes on boys her age...

Its worse when you make it seem as if you and your mates were better...

Where or what in my comment indicates slut shaming?

thorpido:
Where or what in my comment indicates slut shaming?

You complained that I'm more worried about boys than my schooling... Unlike the eighteen year olds of 'those' years...

Maintaining a healthy relationship with someone of the opposite sex doesn't mean my grades would suffer... On the other hand, if he's a decent, respectable young man, we would even be study partners, etc...

I've dealt with alot of folks like you... Since you're old, you always got a bone to pick with my generation esp. on issues relating to sex... You think it makes you seem more mature...

For me, dating doesn't mean sex... It's simply the pleasure of having someone you like who likes you back... Enjoying their company... And growing together... And thanks to puberty, I also think of sex...

Curse my hormones!!!!!!

Nawa.

Na real wa's

MrSeth:


Just curious. What are you studying?

Medicine

Datboredberry:
You complained that I'm more worried about boys than my schooling... Unlike the eighteen year olds of 'those' years...

Maintaining a healthy relationship with someone of the opposite sex doesn't mean my grades would suffer... On the other hand, if he's a decent, respectable young man, we would even be study partners, etc...

I've dealt with alot of folks like you... Since you're old, you always got a bone to pick with my generation esp. on issues relating to sex... You think it makes you seem more mature...

For me, dating doesn't mean sex... It's simply the pleasure of having someone you like who likes you back... Enjoying their company... And growing together... And thanks to puberty, I also think of sex...

Curse my hormones!!!!!!

Yes,i've got an issue with your generation.It's there in your own words.

And nearly 80% of the boys here are like him... Young, poor, desperate and dangerous...

This is where my issue is.Just as you stated that 80% of boys are in the negative,about that same figure applies to the females too.They are somewhat directionless.
Now your subsequent comments seem to show you may be in the small percentage of those who may know what they are doing but that wasn't how it came off initially.

SarutobiEky:
Nawa.

Na real wa's

You should ask me why I'm suddenly interested in dating...

But if you want to focus on the topic...

Another woke madam is ranting.

I date mostly boys (na chicken you wan date before?)

Im liberal.

Madam we don't care. Just STFU!

thorpido:
Yes,i've got an issue with your generation.It's there in your own words.

I do too.. but I'm talking about the judgmental attitude towards sex...

Premiumwriter:
Another woke madam is ranting

I date mostly boys (na chicken you wan date before?)

Im liberal.

Madam we don't care. Just STFU!

I date girls too...

What's your problem? You still carrying a grudge? Self-acclaimed alpha who can't handle a little confrontation...

Stop being a sensitive bit** and move on...

I wouldn't be surprised if you're a yahoo boy too . Your kind are everywhere...

Datboredberry:
I do too.. but I'm talking about the judgmental attitude towards sex...

Nowhere in my first comment made mention of sex.Learn to read right.

Datboredberry:
I date girls too...

What's your problem? You still carrying a grudge? Self-acclaimed alpha who can't handle a little confrontation...

Stop being a sensitive bit** and move on...

I wouldn't be surprised if you're a yahoo boy too . Your kind are everywhere...

you bore me

Premiumwriter:
you bore me

Yet. I. Am. Your. Target.

Do us both a favour; never comment on my threads... Never quote me... Ignore me like a plague.

thorpido:
Nowhere in my first comment made mention of sex.Learn to read right.

I'm done arguing...

Datboredberry:
You complained that I'm more worried about boys than my schooling... Unlike the eighteen year olds of 'those' years...

Maintaining a healthy relationship with someone of the opposite sex doesn't mean my grades would suffer... On the other hand, if he's a decent, respectable young man, we would even be study partners, etc...

I've dealt with alot of folks like you... Since you're old, you always got a bone to pick with my generation esp. on issues relating to sex... You think it makes you seem more mature...

For me, dating doesn't mean sex... It's simply the pleasure of having someone you like who likes you back... Enjoying their company... And growing together... And thanks to puberty, I also think of sex...

Curse my hormones!!!!!!

You are born, to grow why curse yourself.

Datboredberry:
Yet. I. Am. DELUSIONAL TO FEEL THAT I AM Your. Target.

All fixed.

Have a wonderful night

Madam carry your big veejay go keep somewhere,who wan date borehole

Hii...

Just passing.

Nna eh! . . . I go like if u are above 20. . Then i cud comment sumthing mature to this post. . But


oh no. . 18years



you have a long way to go my dear. I have pass ur age. Wen u reach 20 to 21 . . U start experiencing difficulties in life.

u will learn what life is. .


can't predict u. . I have tried to read u. Buh no


you re not someone to be relia on.


if u can do me a favour. . Pls stop being argumentative. . Its not good. . . You still 18 for holy sake



hey! I jux drop my mind.


dnt be offended. . Pls


stil dnt knw why u haven't reply my mention. .


u said i broke ur heart that i made a post abt having a girlfriend?


i dnt understand . .


Is havin a girlfriend wrong?

hw wil i crush on someone i dnt even knw or yet to see.



damn. . No offense. Quote me asap.

This thread is as confused as the writer

So because some boys in the southern part of this country are into yahoo biz and you think it’s all guys.. are like that Abi?

What’s that your age sef ?

You’re not mature
You till a teenager.