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Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Lordofalmajiri(f): 6:44pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Well I'll start by saying I had issues with my Ex of about 1year and broke up with her about a month ago. I got to know about her promiscuous life style from her best friend.. I actually begged and psyched her before she opened up to me. I felt sad Sha , and I pretended everything was okay , so I could take my revenge . Well I got my revenge, and I broke up with her. Then I thought it wasn't enough. I asked her best friend out. I must say she was better than her friend (my Ex), she had a little issues with her boyfriend who was out of town and I took advantage of that . Well we started dating and two weeks into the relationship she asked I get her a phone, which I agreed and I asked her to give me sometime.. I must say she's very honest and sincere plus respectful, it's hard to find her type these days... The problem is she's still talking to her boyfriend even though she told him to move on, he was her first. Now I need to fulfill my promise by getting her a new phone which should cost about 60-70k.. The money isn't the problem for me . But We'll know that spending so much for a girl you're not married to might end in tears someday... I fit buy the phone self she go tell her Ex say na her uncle buy am . We all know the matter.. she'll be 19years next year, I'm in my early 20's Sorry for the long epistle abeg OG's make una tell me the next step . P.s. no insults please Mods please you can help me move it to Fp. Cc mynd44 . Lalaticlala Edited: Well I reached an agreement with her , I told her if anything goes wrong I'm taking back the phone. We sealed the deal Sha.
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Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Zonefree(m): 6:48pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
I just want you to know that there's no much difference between that girl and your Ex. They're birds of a feather, besides, buying phone for a Nigerian girl you're sharing with different men is 3rd most senseless things on earth! I'll advice you use that money to upgrade your brain! 34 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by doggedfighter(f): 6:48pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
A confused male child still thrilled with the idea of free sex. In his mind he's taking revenge while girls are the ones revenging 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Lordofalmajiri(f): 6:57pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Zonefree:Thanks for your input... Maybe they got a few in common, but she's way better than my Ex... My Ex even tell me say the girl no get mind |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Zonefree(m): 7:00pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Lordofalmajiri:She's not better than your Ex...she's even worst! To lash and cherish same gbola her girlfriend once personalized shows she's worst! Don't be deceived by the girl's manipulations. 12 Likes |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Ofunaofu: 7:02pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
First ensure that all your siblings ,parents and blood relatives have phones worth more than 60-70k 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Lordofalmajiri(f): 7:06pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Zonefree:, Omo guy man don love up sha, and I hate breaking promises.. what's the step forward now. |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Lordofalmajiri(f): 7:06pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Ofunaofu:I was thinking if getting my mom same too... |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Zonefree(m): 7:08pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Lordofalmajiri:No man in his right senses should love a Nigerian girl. Not worth it. The way forward is to send that money to your family members. No matter how you try, you can't impress or satisfy a Nigerian girl. 9 Likes |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Ofunaofu: 7:08pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Lordofalmajiri: Ensure everyone in your family gets a phone worth more than that |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Sweetvie: 7:35pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Lordofalmajiri:she ain't better than ur ex Any girl that break the girls code... Dating ur friend ex... Ain't worth it Well, how much is 70k If u know you're ok financially... It won't hurt Just go and look for better gf... Apart, she is still a teenager, mayb you don't know first love last longer... I don't think she is going to leave the ex for u even if she does she is still going to av him in mind 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Nobody: 7:39pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Ofunaofu:For what? How many contributed to his success? Most of you see your relatives as living ATMs and it's ridiculous... Many of his uncles... Aunts... Cousins... May not even like him... And he should give them all free phones cause of blood? Even his mum... Giving her a gift is a choice... No one is obligated to spend on anyone... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Nazgul: 7:42pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
60-70k for a guy in his early 20s to spend on a girl of 19 is clearly a waste. Cos I can bet with my fake ear piece I bought on Lagos traffic that you guys won't be together by this time next year. She's still in her whóring stage and would dump you for someone much better or richer. It's better if you invest that money on yourself, learn an online course, develop yourself, not investing it on someone who clearly doesn't picture you in her future. 12 Likes |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by younglleo: 7:48pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
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Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Nonexisting: 7:48pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
You mean the same best friend that exposed her friend, your exgirlfriend? Did you compensate her for helping you out? Well If you didn't and have the means, go ahead and buy her the phone but make her see it as compensation for a job well done and also as poverty alleviation program. I don't do favors to vaginarians of any kind but let me make an exception on this one since I'm not the one spending.
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Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Emma2Seconds: 8:05pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
@ early 20's which business u take save such amount of money Am asking for a friend. |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Rubyjade: 8:07pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Yes 1 Like |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Ofunaofu: 8:09pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
BoredBerry: Did the girl he intends to buy a phone worth 60 to 70k contributed to his success 9 Likes |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Kenpaly(m): 8:19pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Op pls help me with 10k im a guy like you.pls op im owing someone 40k and i needs some token to complet it. First bank 3085624868. |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Lordofalmajiri(f): 8:22pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Nazgul:Thanks so much, I know it wouldn't last it's the sad truth.. me buying her is just to fulfill my promise... |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Lordofalmajiri(f): 8:25pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Nonexisting:Lol, I was thinking the same when I made the promise... It's more like a compensation for saving me from unexpected breakfast. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Emma2Seconds: 8:44pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
The So Called Gf Contributed to his Success Abii?? @ Bolded so to give to the Mum is just a choice while to the GF is mandatory Abii?? hope you get Brothers be advising them exactly the way you write it here ok. BoredBerry: 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Demigod22: 9:09pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
BoredBerry: How I wish girls will know that no one is obligated to spend on anyone before turning relationship to poverty alleviation program. I choose family over any girl that I ain't married to. Even at that, family tops my priority table. Why should I neglect family over kpekus that is cheap and can be bought everywhere? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Demigod22: 9:14pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
OP, you are doing well, but I don't see this ending well. The girl isn't good the way you are hyping her, maybe your reasoning is beclouded by her fresh tight kpekus. She snitched on her friend and then comfortably open kpekus for you and you think that person is better than your ex, even while still talking with her ex? You are just exaggerating her. OP, you can never revenge a girl by sleeping with her because she ain't losing anything, if you like sleep with her friends, that's not a revenge, it's your village ashawo spirit that is following you. 7 Likes |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Xainttee001(m): 9:20pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Base on that investor vibe.... House should we tell him 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Nobody: 9:26pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Ofunaofu:haha my guy |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Nobody: 9:27pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
No try am two of them na the same, las las your ex go influence am, them fit connive chop u sef 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Nobody: 9:29pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Them fit connive chop you woto woto 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Lordofalmajiri(f): 9:59pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Demigod22:I have to agree with you that kpekus is very cheap these days and can be gotten almost free. But I'm talking about commitment... Deep down she knows I could easily get any other girl . Lastly tight kpekus no fit becloud my judgement cause I don see am tire, E no dey make sense if E too tight self, Cause she go dry up easily and E go dey painful. You'll end up not enjoying it. I wouldn't say she snitched , rather I'll say she saved a Brother.. |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Lordofalmajiri(f): 10:02pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Emma2Seconds:just know that before I spend anything on a girl I've spent times 10 on my mom... I no know why una dey see am this way, guys dey buy phone for my cousins on a steady. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Hoodyrich(m): 10:32pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Donate your money to the poor, blessing would come from that 1 Like |
Re: Should I Buy Her A Phone? Advice Needed . by Soulmender: 10:52pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Buy her the phone then buy her a house and a car on her birthday. Good boy. Your eyes go soon clear 4 Likes |
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