Stargurl20:
There's something I've noticed about men. They can be so unforgiving when it comes to their wives or gf's unfaithfulness. I'm not justifying this. Trust me, I'm not. But I've seen lot of cases where women would forgive the husband and forget. Why is it hard for men to forgive?

I mean, if God uses all our sins to judge or punish us in this life, I believe no one will remain in existence. Why can't a mere mortal man also develop this forgiving spirit?

Lemme let you in on this. A man's major problem is his ego. It's the very reason why he can never forgive or find it Hard to forgive his wife if she cheats.

With a man's wife or girlfriend, he usually see her as his pride or treasure. So she cheating on him is something he won't take lightly.

Also, if you notice, a man can forgive his wife if she insults his friends or fight them, if she fights his mother or family members and the likes, but never will he forgive her cheating.

It's like somebody invaded on something that is exclusive to him. Something meant for only him to enjoy or whatever. Often times I've heard men who cheat like no man's business tell their wife "they can forgive her if she do anything, like anything except if she cheats".

This is why men who cheat, take it very hard if or when they discover their wife is cheating on them. Some can even kill the man she cheats with or even the wife.

Though it's a two way thing. But that's for another topic for another day.

Stargurl20:
I haven't cheated on any guy, neither am I married. Moreover, I can never put my egg I a basket. That doesn't me I'm cheating. I'm just trying to safe my self from being disappointed

Just listen to yourself

DSHADOWWALKER:



You people make statements with no iota of logic and believe you have made sense.I guess pornstars and professional sex workers get attached to the men also.And all those one night stands also

You are the one without logic. Pornstars have transactional sex, sex workers too. Are you referring wives and girlfriends are in this category?

GoodHardDick:
OP, are you okay?

You expect a man who's taking care of you, taking you outing, providing your needs, giving you money and doing everything for you to forgive you when you cheat on him?

What exactly have you offered him in that relationship that'll warrant him to Forgive you?

If you want to cheat and been forgiven, then provide your needs yourself, take care of yourself by yourself. make your own money and pay your bills yourself. In that way, a man will easily forgive you once you cheat because you're not his responsibility.

No sane guy will who's taking care of you will forgive you once you cheat on him, of course expect he is a SIMP.

Aswearugaaad

This bro. THIS. God punish any man who forgives a cheating LovePeddler!

Putindbutt:

oh, Kobojunkie is a female. Little wonder

And how do you know she is?

In African culture, there is nothing
like a man cheating, it is a birthright
except he is doing it with a married
woman, which is an abomination❌❌❗️❗️

Hmmm

Stargurl20:

I'm not that kind of person. When I finally decide to be with one( that's if he has given me assurance by wedding), I will remain loyal and faithful until death do us apart

Aswearugaaad

So you're saying you're slụt now but will magically become a saint once you get married? Yeah right

FERNANDEZISBACK:
And how do you know she is?

why do you refer to him/her as queen

Stargurl20:
There's something I've noticed about men. They can be so unforgiving when it comes to their wives or gf's unfaithfulness. I'm not justifying this. Trust me, I'm not. But I've seen lot of cases where women would forgive the husband and forget. Why is it hard for men to forgive?

I mean, if God uses all our sins to judge or punish us in this life, I believe no one will remain in existence. Why can't a mere mortal man also develop this forgiving spirit?

Lol... guilty conscience...

Stargurl20:
I haven't cheated on any guy, neither am I married. Moreover, I can never put my egg I a basket. That doesn't me I'm cheating. I'm just trying to safe my self from being disappointed

I don't think u re telling the truth..

Putindbutt:

why do you refer to him/her as queen

Cos I can..as far as the gender is not stated..you can't jump into conclusion..

Abeg a man can cheat on his wife and still love and protect her ..but once woman begin to cheat she can do anything .

Misterone:
they say if you want to understand a man, study animals. man is just a civilized animal. a lion that wants to have a relationship with a lioness that has babies will first try to kill the cubs. nature made man to hate other men offsprings. when you sleep with a man's wife, his instinct of self preservation through his seeds is shaken. he starts have doubts whether his offsprings are his. man does not want to take care of another man's offsprings.

. Charlie you Yan something...

Stargurl20:


Not all men pay bills. Not all ladies are dependent. Get that straight, uncle.

Wetin u dey talk.. How many of u ladies pay ur bills?

Men don't forgive because it will be a lost on both fronts,I spend on you,provide and cater for you from my hard earned money,also in some cases provide shelter for you and even some of her family members, some even pay for the lady's education etc,yet you cheat on me,is a double lost of investment if I forgive you, let me asure you,ladies that do the spending in a relationship also hardly forgive a cheating man,try and do your research about it,then secondly men can cheat with zero feelings,hardly can a woman cheat without a form of feelings,so why keep a lady that has feelings for another man?

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Cos I can..as far as the gender is not stated..you can't jump into conclusion..

You can't ascribe a gender to any unspecified moniker unless it is impliedly or expressly ptojected. But then again, I wouldn't expect a lousy mind like you to understand

Putindbutt:

You can't ascribe a gender to any unspecified moniker unless it is impliedly or expressly ptojected. But then again, I wouldn't expect a lousy mind like you to understand

Thanks for agreeing with me..

ViperAda:

You possess a western fabricated mentality. When I say "western construct", it was intended for intelligent adults not some kids with shallow understanding making infantile noise on the internet. Abeg shift


-Viper

Yes some adult with their conspiracy theory peie

HustlerGurl:
Life goes on

Omor that pussy and ass hole is far gone.. damn

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Thanks for agreeing with me..

At last we agreed you're a lousy denigrate.

Putindbutt:

At last we agreed you're a lousy denigrate.

Thanks for proving me right..

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Thanks for proving me right..

You don't have an opinion, you're incapable.

Putindbutt:

You don't have an opinion, you're incapable.

Thanks for the compliment and understanding my point that I was right..

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Thanks for the compliment and understanding my point that I was right..

Lol.. werey dey disguise

Carchoice:
Investments. Men invest heavily on their women. Commitment, finances, etc. spending all that money on your woman to look good and posh and then She goes to open her legs for another man that only gives her N1500 to buy postinor.

I nor Dey spend for women again. I look for someone’s posh girlfriend instead.

Once I approach a lady and She tells me she’s single, I lose interest. You must be in a serious relationship for me to have interest in you. Your oga will be doing the spending while I do the bending.

And you'll definitely end up with a filthy WHORĒ with a very bad reputation. The interesting thing is that you'll never know her dirty secrets until you marry.
Same goes for how your sisters and daughters will be treated.

FuckSilly:

And you'll definitely end up with a filthy WHORĒ with a very bad reputation. The interesting thing is that you'll never know her dirty secrets until you marry.
Same goes for how your sisters and daughters will be treated.

Like the way your mother whored and birthed you.

Stargurl20:
There's something I've noticed about men. They can be so unforgiving when it comes to their wives or gf's unfaithfulness. I'm not justifying this. Trust me, I'm not. But I've seen lot of cases where women would forgive the husband and forget. Why is it hard for men to forgive?

I mean, if God uses all our sins to judge or punish us in this life, I believe no one will remain in existence. Why can't a mere mortal man also develop this forgiving spirit?

No reasonable guy on earth you ever forgive a cheating girlfriend or wife, especially if he's putting so much in the relationship and only or major thing the girl is bringing to the table is THE HOLE BETWEEN HER LEGS.

HOW DARE YOU CHEAT!?

Putindbutt:

Lol.. werey dey disguise

What you say?

FERNANDEZISBACK:
What you say?

Go ask your mother.

Putindbutt:

Go ask your mother.

What's that?

for a betrayed man, a woman’s infidelity is an offence against his manhood. It goes right to the core of his identity.”[/quote]This is it!