BISHOPCHARLIE:
Man cheating is not the same as woman cheating.
A man can have sex with another woman and it's purely transactional, to satisfy an urge. Women have sex and get attached emotionally to the new man and that's disaster.

You people make statements with no iota of logic and believe you have made sense.I guess pornstars and professional sex workers get attached to the men also.And all those one night stands also

Stargurl20:
I haven't cheated on any guy, neither am I married. Moreover, I can never put my egg I a basket. That doesn't me I'm cheating. I'm just trying to safe my self from being disappointed

Not putting my eggs in one basket is a code word for having different dicks in her mouth, not knowing who to swallow.

Carchoice:
Investments. Men invest heavily on their women. Commitment, finances, etc. spending all that money on your woman to look good and posh and then She goes to open her legs for another man that only gives her N1500 to buy postinor.

I nor Dey spend for women again. I look for someone’s posh girlfriend instead.

Once I approach a lady and She tells me she’s single, I lose interest. You must be in a serious relationship for me to have interest in you. Your oga will be doing the spending while I do the bending.

Even if you are a dirty sponge bob but got a cassava,women gonna spread out

Stargurl20:
I haven't cheated on any guy, neither am I married. Moreover, I can never put my egg I a basket. That doesn't me I'm cheating. I'm just trying to safe my self from being disappointed

No dear!
A good Relationship is one in which with WISDOM, you put all your eggs in one basket.

It's starts with
1. Who you are and your values
2. Who he is and his values

Why would you double-date with a man who is faithful and true to you? Any reason?

There is no amount of LOVE that will convert a man with a wrong VALUE mindset!

biafraisdead:

U think u made sense with @ the bolded? Not putting ur eggs in one basket simply means u are seing many guys, so what other thing is it called if not cheating? The problem is many people think cheating is only when u have sex with someone not ur husband or bf. Even as a married woman, there are discussions u will engage with the opposite sex that amount to cheating.

thank you, you nail it all

I Blame Buhari!

In my own opinion. I think women tend to forgive men because most times they are the ones responsible for making a man cheat by denying them sex at home..... Small misunderstanding, you deny him his conjugal rights for weeks/months, some will even tell their husband if sex is food, especially those who have given birth to their children. In the African context, it's wrong for a woman to cheat and it's almost unforgiven which I don't think is not fair . There many reasons why people cheat, one way or the other we will all cheat, it takes a very strong moral value and Godly inclination not to

It is very simple, men are polygamous in nature especially African men so men can have more than one wife and keep concubine until the coming of white men and Christianity who tried to change it, but for women that is not the case.
Secondly, the men invested on the women, feed them, cloth them, provide shelter etc , so naturally they are expected to be submissive only to the husband in this case and not to have multiple sex partners , this is why even the society frown at cheating wife's

Stargurl20:



I will forgive, Mr. Do u know we humans are worst than devil himself?
As for me, I will forgive and give another chance, however, if the said person misuses that second chance opportunity, I will know I've paid my dues and never look back.

Rest abeg. Once a bitch always a bitch. A leopard does not change its pattern and colour. No matter how a black goat bathes vigorously it will always be black. Once a hoe always a hoe. Cheating bitches are never repentant. Once a man discovers he's dating a bitch best advice is to throw her into the streets where she belongs second chance indeed

A woman that Cheats Can Kill

But

A man that cheats is just Playing to Men's Gallery,
as it were since Scripture time

It's now a choice for a man to decide if to do what mem do or stand out

Stargurl20:
There's something I've noticed about men. They can be so unforgiving when it comes to their wives or gf's unfaithfulness. I'm not justifying this. Trust me, I'm not. But I've seen lot of cases where women would forgive the husband and forget. Why is it hard for men to forgive?

I mean, if God uses all our sins to judge or punish us in this life, I believe no one will remain in existence. Why can't a mere mortal man also develop this forgiving spirit?

It's still cheating in disguise stop giving it another packaging

It's just like you naija girls saying on dating site that youthere for only cruise meanwhile Cruise means no other thing pass coded olosho or hookup or runs cuz by cruising you prone or will or want to deal with different guys

Bad na bad

No such thing as good bad

Stargurl20:
I haven't cheated on any guy, neither am I married. Moreover, I can never put my egg I a basket. That doesn't me I'm cheating. I'm just trying to safe my self from being disappointed

Expect nothing but xtupid illogical responses

Carchoice:
Investments. Men invest heavily on their women. Commitment, finances, etc. spending all that money on your woman to look good and posh and then She goes to open her legs for another man that only gives her N1500 to buy postinor.

I nor Dey spend for women again. I look for someone’s posh girlfriend instead.

Once I approach a lady and She tells me she’s single, I lose interest. You must be in a serious relationship for me to have interest in you. Your oga will be doing the spending while I do the bending.

U be my padi 4 jungle

cococandy:
Expect nothing but xtupid illogical responses

As usual. Talks of how they feed and clothe the woman. As if cheating is dismissed when it is the woman clothing them or they are not even clothing her at all. Mtcheeew.

DSHADOWWALKER:



You people make statements with no iota of logic and believe you have made sense.I guess pornstars and professional sex workers get attached to the men also.And all those one night stands also

but they are logical

pocohantas:


As usual. Talks of how they feed and clothe the woman. As if cheating is dismissed when it is the woman clothing them or they are not even clothing her at all. Mtcheeew.

Gbam!!

from page one to last page. Nothing sensible. Same old illogical, ill thought out and regurgitated responses

Poor souls

After you give me unreasonable hurdles to cross to win your heart? Then your family makes me pay an arm and a leg for bride price / marriage?!
Thereafter, your family & yourself see me as a convinient go-to ATM machine?
You now want to say you are free to cheat just as much as I can?
You go go do that cheating for your papa house!!! Thunder fire you if you dare cheat on me!

Stargurl20:
There's something I've noticed about men. They can be so unforgiving when it comes to their wives or gf's unfaithfulness. I'm not justifying this. Trust me, I'm not. But I've seen lot of cases where women would forgive the husband and forget. Why is it hard for men to forgive?

I mean, if God uses all our sins to judge or punish us in this life, I believe no one will remain in existence. Why can't a mere mortal man also develop this forgiving spirit?

Most men fails in all endeavours the moment wife starts cheating n bad lucks too will befall the house. Men know this so well n that y they find it hard I. Forgiving

Because it's men that spend more in the relationship.

Any relationship where a woman spends more, the guy would not even be allowed to look at another woman talkless of cheating. Such women done forgive their cheating partner.

Please who paid the bride price

Stargurl20:
There's something I've noticed about men. They can be so unforgiving when it comes to their wives or gf's unfaithfulness. I'm not justifying this. Trust me, I'm not. But I've seen lot of cases where women would forgive the husband and forget. Why is it hard for men to forgive?

I mean, if God uses all our sins to judge or punish us in this life, I believe no one will remain in existence. Why can't a mere mortal man also develop this forgiving spirit?

They always use the silly excuse that "men are born polygamist" make dem kuku turn dog.

Women cheating is always a mistake and they always find it difficult to forgive themselves,but men will cheat and be caught then cheat again and again and again and again...no remorse.

TIJAY01:
It is very simple, men are polygamous in nature especially African men so men can have more than one wife and keep concubine until the coming of white men and Christianity who tried to change it, but for women that is not the case.
Secondly, the men invested on the women, feed them, cloth them, provide shelter etc , so naturally they are expected to be submissive only to the husband in this case and not to have multiple sex partners , this is why even the society frown at cheating wife's

As usual,men are polygamous by nature yet they go wacko when they found out that child they thought was their's isn't their's after all
Kekekekeeeeekeeeeeeee

Men cheating and women cheating are two different things, although I condemn the two but somehow somehow, men cheating is little fair than ladies own. Imaging a married ladies cheat and got pregnant, it's 99.9% that she will tame her husband as responsible person for it and that one will be nursing someone else child. And if a married man cheat and he got someone pregnant, she bears the consequence alone.

Stargurl20:


I've heard men are not as jealous as women, yet women still forgive.

Women don't forgive..

Women are naturally sly..

They weigh their options..

They know where their bread is buttered..

And wouldn't want to give up their comfort for another..

' Forgiving '

Is her securing her cash cow..

A man on the other hand invested heavily on the woman..

Why would he forgive easily after all he has invested?

Men, African men (and cultures/religions that allow polygamy) are polygamous by nature; therefore, a man can marry more than one wife. The issue I have though with men who "cheat" is that, they are not interested in a second wife, they just want to have their cake and eat it. C'mon guys, open up, marry as many you fancy and maybe those you self-service at the thoughts of them. Woman on the other hand are inhibited by tradition to be predatory like their male counterparts. Has anyone ever wondered why cheating married women in some cultures end up dead while the cheating male goes scot free? It's a man's world, that's just the reality.

jazon:
Because it's men that spend more in the relationship.

Any relationship where a woman spends more, the guy would not even be allowed to look at another woman talkless of cheating. Such women done forgive their cheating partner.

In relationships where women spend more nko?

Naija guys has the lowest self esteem in this world.

Haven't seen a forum where guys get erection over woman matter like here and other social media.

Make una go challenge your fellow men out there first. Rediscover yourselves and be free from slavery( oh, we are still slaves to uk), then when you talk, your women will know that THIS IS THE MAN.

Tomorrow again, women and toto matter continues

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Cos most men are insecured..and won't get satisfied if they don't pay you back..

If you cheat on me, ill definitely forgive you, because 2kobo you no fit see from my hand whether cheat or not.
Except time for thanks for coming

Stargurl20:
I haven't cheated on any guy, neither am I married. Moreover, I can never put my egg I a basket. That doesn't me I'm cheating. I'm just trying to safe my self from being disappointed

Hahaha.
RIGHTLY CHEATING.

tollyboy5:

If you cheat on me, ill definitely forgive you, because 2kobo you no fit see from my hand whether cheat or not.
Apart from thanks for coming

Thanks for your comment..

descarado:

As usual,men are polygamous by nature yet they go wacko when they found out that child they thought was their's isn't their's after all
Kekekekeeeeekeeeeeeee

What exactly does that have to do with men being polygamous?

A lion is polygamous..

But the first thing it does..

After taking over a pride..

Is to kill off all the rival's offsprings..

So I ask again..

WHAT does what you wrote have to do with men being polygamous?