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Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by Stargurl20(f): 9:34am On Jan 25
There's something I've noticed about men. They can be so unforgiving when it comes to their wives or gf's unfaithfulness. I'm not justifying this. Trust me, I'm not. But I've seen lot of cases where women would forgive the husband and forget. Why is it hard for men to forgive?

I mean, if God uses all our sins to judge or punish us in this life, I believe no one will remain in existence. Why can't a mere mortal man also develop this forgiving spirit?

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by Ethanuella: 9:37am On Jan 25
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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by Kiddogarcia(m): 9:39am On Jan 25
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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by FERNANDEZISBACK: 9:39am On Jan 25
Stargurl20:
There's something I've noticed about men. They can be so unforgiving when it comes to their wives or gf's unfaithfulness. I'm not justifying this. Trust me, I'm not. But I've seen lot of cases where women would forgive the husband and forget. Why is it hard for men to forgive?
I mean, if God uses all our sins to judge or punish us in this life, I believe no one will remain in existence. Why can't a mere mortal man also develop this forgiving spirit?
Cos most men are insecured..and won't get satisfied if they don't pay you back..

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by Totiemide: 9:40am On Jan 25
grin

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by Abovebest(m): 9:43am On Jan 25
For me

I can never cheat on my woman(assuming I have)

So it's a no no for my woman to cheat

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by Nobody: 9:43am On Jan 25
Investments. Men invest heavily on their women. Commitment, finances, etc. spending all that money on your woman to look good and posh and then She goes to open her legs for another man that only gives her N1500 to buy postinor.

I nor Dey spend for women again. I look for someone’s posh girlfriend instead.

Once I approach a lady and She tells me she’s single, I lose interest. You must be in a serious relationship for me to have interest in you. Your oga will be doing the spending while I do the bending.

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by Wawelexy: 9:50am On Jan 25
This one don go cheat on her boyfriend/husband again.... Guilty conscience won't allow her rest, creating a thread to know how men feels if they catches their cheating spouse... Lol... (Eyaah, I feel for that innocent Nigga)....

To the men please, no one should help her curiosity with ur comments, she should go and confess to that Nigga and ask for forgiveness... Let her female comrades help her out( one of them is up there already).

All this bitches ain't loyal.... Spits...

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by Haakeem(m): 9:54am On Jan 25
Stargurl20:
There's something I've noticed about men. They can be so unforgiving when it comes to their wives or gf's unfaithfulness. I'm not justifying this. Trust me, I'm not. But I've seen lot of cases where women would forgive the husband and forget. Why is it hard for men to forgive?
I mean, if God uses all our sins to judge or punish us in this life, I believe no one will remain in existence. Why can't a mere mortal man also develop this forgiving spirit?
I've also seen a lot of cases were the husband would fogive and forget.

op you broke ur bf heart and he refuses to forgive you right? go6d for yougrin

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by Stargurl20(f): 10:12am On Jan 25
I haven't cheated on any guy, neither am I married. Moreover, I can never put my egg I a basket. That doesn't me I'm cheating. I'm just trying to safe my self from being disappointed

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by Nobody: 10:48am On Jan 25
Carchoice:
Investments. Men invest heavily on their women. Commitment, finances, etc. spending all that money on your woman to look good and posh and then She goes to open her legs for another man that only gives her N1500 to buy postinor.

I nor Dey spend for women again. I’m always looking for someone’s posh girlfriend to lash and move on.

Once I approach a lady and She tells me she’s single, I lose interest. You must be in a serious relationship for me to have interest in you. Your oga will be doing the spending while I do the bending.
You've said it all Comrade.

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by Sonnobax15(m): 10:48am On Jan 25
lipsrsealed
Only the thoughts of say One guyman don settle down wear your Banny don suppose give you enough reasons to kain her for street undecided

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by Truvelisback(m): 10:54am On Jan 25
Stargurl20:
There's something I've noticed about men. They can be so unforgiving when it comes to their wives or gf's unfaithfulness. I'm not justifying this. Trust me, I'm not. But I've seen lot of cases where women would forgive the husband and forget. Why is it hard for men to forgive?
I mean, if God uses all our sins to judge or punish us in this life, I believe no one will remain in existence. Why can't a mere mortal man also develop this forgiving spirit?
In the Book of Love Chapter 1:5 it says: Every other sin against man shall be forgiven but the sin of break a man's heart, shall not be easily forgiven.

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by Nobody: 11:03am On Jan 25
OP, are you okay? angry

You expect a man who's taking care of you, taking you outing, providing your needs, giving you money and doing everything for you to forgive you when you cheat on him?

What exactly have you offered him in that relationship that'll warrant him to Forgive you?

If you want to cheat and been forgiven, then provide your needs yourself, take care of yourself by yourself. make your own money and pay your bills yourself. In that way, a man will easily forgive you once you cheat because you're not his responsibility.

No sane guy will who's taking care of you will forgive you once you cheat on him, of course expect he is a SIMP. angry

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by WilsonBright935: 11:47am On Jan 25
FERNANDEZISBACK:

Cos most men are insecured..and won't get satisfied if they don't pay you back..

All

We just pretend to be nonchalant sometimes, whereas we are so concerned about Jealousy as far as relationship is concerned

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by FERNANDEZISBACK: 11:51am On Jan 25
WilsonBright935:


All

We just pretend to be nonchalant sometimes, whereas we are so concerned about Jealousy as far as relationship is concerned
Thanks for being straight..
Blessings to you.

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by fikayormi(m): 12:09pm On Jan 25
Dis one Na mumu thread jare

While am hustling my life out , paying your bills trying to make ends meet , you are there cheating on me and you expect me to forgive u?

Same goes to the woman she is free either to forgive or move on

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by 9ton(m): 12:09pm On Jan 25
Stargurl20:
I haven't cheated on any guy, neither am I married. Moreover, I can never put my egg I a basket. That doesn't me I'm cheating. I'm just trying to safe my self from being disappointed


You're definitely cheating my dear

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by Misterone: 12:13pm On Jan 25
Stargurl20:
There's something I've noticed about men. They can be so unforgiving when it comes to their wives or gf's unfaithfulness. I'm not justifying this. Trust me, I'm not. But I've seen lot of cases where women would forgive the husband and forget. Why is it hard for men to forgive?
I mean, if God uses all our sins to judge or punish us in this life, I believe no one will remain in existence. Why can't a mere mortal man also develop this forgiving spirit?
they say if you want to understand a man, study animals. man is just a civilized animal. a lion that wants to have a relationship with a lioness that has babies will first try to kill the cubs. nature made man to hate other men offsprings. when you sleep with a man's wife, his instinct of self preservation through his seeds is shaken. he starts have doubts whether his offsprings are his. man does not want to take care of another man's offsprings.

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by Stargurl20(f): 12:36pm On Jan 25
9ton:



You're definitely cheating my dear


I'm not. If I were your beloved, would u advise me to put my eggs in a basket?

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by Stargurl20(f): 12:38pm On Jan 25
WilsonBright935:


All

We just pretend to be nonchalant sometimes, whereas we are so concerned about Jealousy as far as relationship is concerned

I've heard men are not as jealous as women, yet women still forgive.

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by Yohans(m): 12:56pm On Jan 25
According to a British Psychotherapist, Philip Hodson, men often find it more difficult to forgive a cheating partner, because it affects their masculinity, and to them, it might signal the end of the relationship.

Hodson, who is also a Fellow of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, said, “Men can forgive themselves for their indiscretions, but they find it much harder to forgive their partners for the same. For a betrayed woman, an affair by the man is an offence against her dignity, but for a betrayed man, a woman’s infidelity is an offence against his manhood. It goes right to the core of his identity.”

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by Susily(m): 1:00pm On Jan 25
Stargurl20:
There's something I've noticed about men. They can be so unforgiving when it comes to their wives or gf's unfaithfulness. I'm not justifying this. Trust me, I'm not. But I've seen lot of cases where women would forgive the husband and forget. Why is it hard for men to forgive?
I mean, if God uses all our sins to judge or punish us in this life, I believe no one will remain in existence. Why can't a mere mortal man also develop this forgiving spirit?


Who did you cheat on??

Don't expect forgiveness, just move on, the relationship is ended and can never remain the same

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by WilsonBright935: 1:19pm On Jan 25
Stargurl20:


I've heard men are not as jealous as women, yet women still forgive.

Men are more jealous than women, we just try to cover with our "strong head"

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by BigDawsNet: 1:50pm On Jan 25
We hav men that forgive their woman for wrongful act...

They are not just common

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by Dliquidmetal(m): 2:08pm On Jan 25
Stargurl20:
I haven't cheated on any guy, neither am I married. Moreover, I can never put my egg I a basket. That doesn't me I'm cheating. I'm just trying to safe my self from being disappointed
you guys would always rationalize grin btw cheating as a woman is different from when a man cheats,the proof is in nature all around you.
You are in my empire and I can even decide to add multiple wives to my empire while you all would abide by my rules and directives because failure to do that would lead to serious consequences.
If you want to cheat then you gotta exit my empire and go look for someone else that'd tolerate that whilst providing resource,security and stability.

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by Dliquidmetal(m): 2:15pm On Jan 25
BigDawsNet:
We hav men that forgive their woman for wrongful act...

They are not just common
They are more common than yout think bros,they are weak men and that abounds this days. They might act tough outdoor but indoor they are pussies,they can not let go,they can not set boundaries,they aren't assertive,they are pseudo-masculine.

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by 9ton(m): 3:09pm On Jan 25
Stargurl20:



I'm not. If I were your beloved, would u advise me to put my eggs in a basket?




If the dude is honest I would dear

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by biafraisdead(m): 4:50pm On Jan 25
Stargurl20:
I haven't cheated on any guy, neither am I married. Moreover, I can never put my egg I a basket. That doesn't me I'm cheating. I'm just trying to safe my self from being disappointed
U think u made sense with @ the bolded? Not putting ur eggs in one basket simply means u are seing many guys, so what other thing is it called if not cheating? The problem is many people think cheating is only when u have sex with someone not ur husband or bf. Even as a married woman, there are discussions u will engage with the opposite sex that amount to cheating.

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by Stargurl20(f): 4:52pm On Jan 25
biafraisdead:

U think u made sense with @ the bolded? Not putting ur eggs in one basket simply means u are seing many guys, so what other thing is it called if not cheating? The problem is many people think cheating is only when u have sex with someone not ur husband or bf. Even as a married woman, there are discussions u will engage with the opposite sex that amount to cheating.

I am not married, sir. If I were, they wouldn't be need of me not putting my eggs in a basket or not.

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by biafraisdead(m): 5:04pm On Jan 25
Stargurl20:


I am not married, sir. If I were, they wouldn't be need of me not putting my eggs in a basket or not.
Even if u ain't married. Having more than one relationship these days is tantamount to having multiple sex partners(cos in the world of today there could hardly be a relationship without sex), so does that(sleeping with many men) not make u look dirty? Secondly, u will never open up to each of the guys u are seeing that u are equally seeing someone else, meaning u will be lying to them all, that is where the cheating is. This is why it is best to abstain from anything sex before u are married.

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Re: Cheating Wife Vs Cheating Husband: Men, Pls, Clear My Confusion. by Stargurl20(f): 5:19pm On Jan 25
biafraisdead:

Even if u ain't married. Having more than one relationship these days is tantamount to having multiple sex partners(cos in the world of today there could hardly be a relationship without sex), so does that(sleeping with many men) not make u look dirty? Secondly, u will never open up to each of the guys u are seeing that u are equally seeing someone else, meaning u will be lying to them all, that is where the cheating is. This is why it is best to abstain from anything sex before u are married.

All right.

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