Tired2022:
I'm a scientist, so I know I'm clearly addicted. I just had to create this account to stay anonymous because what I'm about to spill is so shameful to me. Even worse, is that I don't know what the end will be because I lack total control of my third leg.

Alright guys, my dick is my only problem right now. In fact I feel so depressed and traumatised.

I have everything going well for me, I make enough money to buy just anything moderate. I have not been to the hospital for over a decade because the need never arised.

So what's my problem? I can't answer that question because I'm so confused. I know I'm addicted to prostitutes and I haven’t been able to tame this dick of mine.

I'm a very shy guy, I find it hard to socialize with men not to talk off the opposite sex. So, I started with masturbation which lasted over a decade. Then I started making good money, I felt masturbation wasn't what I want, that I had to stop it.

I started visiting prostitutes. Its over 5yrs now, and all I want is to Bleep them all. Yeah, that's how I feel. Bleep all the women, yet I can't even approach one. So, I go for the easy way, prostitutes!

My biggest problem right now, isn't that I'm so addicted to prostitutes or spending money (over 70k every month), but I have had 35 prostitutes without protection. I'm so mad right now because I just bleeped a public toilet without protection. It's the only reason I decided to share this with you all. I'm sufferingggg...............

I have decided to get a girlfriend, I wish to marry next year, but I'm so ashamed, I don’t deserve any woman. Apart from the prostitutes I had without protection, I have had sex with 102 prostitutes in total. And I'm just 33yrs. Gosh! I feel so dirty!

I'm so obsessed with women, and I feel masturbation is the culprit. I fear more that I may not stop even if I have the most beautiful girl on earth by my side. I read the story of a lady who claimed her husband was obsessed with prostitutes in Canada, it shocked me so hard.

Is there anyone who has faced same predicament as mine? How did you win? No woman is safe with me, not even minors because I can't control this dick of mine.

Without alcohol, prostitutes are never attractive to me. So, I must take some alcohol to be in the mood.

Last night, on my regular routine, after drinking alcohol, I met this chubby lady. She was so sexy. I told her exclusively, I find it hard having sex without condom, that I only wanted her to give me a handjob. I pay well, so this girls know me already, it's a fight to have me in their room.

She gave me a Mouth Gig which I wasn't okay with, but I felt save to some extent. After giving me Mouth Gig for a long while, I didn't reach climax. I started mastubating, hoping to reach climax. Still it didn't happen. The lady was already like, f××k me without condom, but don’t release inside. I was contemplating in my mind, Gosh! Not again. Eventually, I reasoned, f××k it! I had her without protection and it took less than 5 minutes for me to reach climax.

This is exactly the same scenario that plays out in all my shameful adventures with these women. And I'm so feld up right now.

I can go on and on, but I don't like writing long epistles. Gosh! I have sex evey 2 days! I can't even go just 1 week without sex. Although I haven’t masturbated in the last 5 yrs, addiction to prostitutes is killing me. How do I even stop this whole sh××t? I feel suicidal.

Please note, it took me a whole lot to share my problem here. I won't take it funny with anyone who says this isn't real. I just want your honest opinion (castigation or advice), please state it. If you don't have anything to say, please and please keep your mouth shot.

I want more opinion on my predicament. Thanks!

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First, talk to God about it.

Engage yourself in fasting. This will help you with physical weakness

Get a confidant.

Occupy yourself with meaningful activities like reading of books, bible, watching movies etc.

Desist from watching any romantic or love making movies and books

Having sex with prostitutes makes you one with them. It’s deeper than you think. A prostitute is always having sex with numerous men, and for that, you’ll do same with numerous prostitutes unending. The crave is now on the both sides. To break it down for you, whatever dwells inside a prostitute is now dwelling in you and it gets so strong and wild because you been doing with different prostitutes.


Solution? If you are a Christian, start fasting. Start with 7 days, increase it to 14 days. 6am to 2pm. Do this every month.

Sexual urge is an appetite, it needs sex and also needs food to grow out of control. When you fast, you starve it and it diminishes with time.

When fasting avoid viewing seductive photos, porn, masturbation, don’t entertain sexually active women because the moment you start this journey, “women of that kind” will start chasing you with sex and you relapse. Rid your phone and WhatsApp of all the prostitutes you patronized. Don’t block but delete them. Occupy your mind with God and he’ll clean it from all sexual immoralities.

Try all these and give God the glory. I got saved.

It is not a matter of 'if he is a Christian'. If he want change indeed, he has to the the advice. It was same advise that I gave him before reading your contribution.

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johnfe:


Greetings brother. I grew up in a restricted christain family, never had full penetration, I masturbate most times to relieve myself, currently 25 years old. I stopped masturbation cos I read about porn induced eeectile dysfunction (PIED), how it affects the testerone level and all that. My problem now is, I wan to start patronizing prostitutes cos I heard that it'll help a man to last longer during sex, when ure already used to the whole thing.

Please advice me, what do you think?

My aim is to last very long in bed so that my wife will not be able to look outside, as I'm an only son and will get married early.

I relate, I suffered severe maltreatment from my uncle's wife when I was younger. I think it's the reason I'm socially awkward.

Well, to be very honest with you, the last thing you want to engage in is visit a prostitute. I can assure you, you’ll get addicted to them unless you're social and can mingle with girls. Otherwise, prostitutes will become your last resort to the extent you will feel hopeless.

As for lasting long in bed, prostitutes didn't help me last long in bed. I can last up to 20 minutes in my second round of sex and I think that's enough for me. In my first round of sex, it can be anywhere 5-10 minutes. In fact, of all the prostitutes I banged, a significant number of them were lost in the act. Only 2 girls were bold enough to tell me how good I was in bed. So brother don't even bother about not satisfying your wife. Just stay healthy, eat fruits and exercise well.

With condom on, I can bang for forever which I think is the effect of mastubating for too long. You see mastubating for a long time can reduce the sensitivity of the penis in such a way that you will need raw sex or extra sensitive condom to reach climax. This are all from my experience.

I'll advice you get a girlfriend, that's what I intend doing in the next three months. I need to undergo a series of tests before going into any relationship. If it's too hard to woo a woman publicly, do so online.

I advice you again, do not go the prostitute way, you will regret it. This advice also goes to anyone who just quit mastubating and hoping that prostitute is the answer. No, it's not. Just get a girl, you'll be more fulfilled.

I have come to realise that shy, low-self esteem, social awkward, high level of introvercy individuals are more likely to mastubate and might end up visiting prostitutes since wooing a woman is like a mountain climb.