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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by spiceadole: 11:47am On Jan 27, 2022
Semiaddict:
initially i fell for the trick of people trying to make masturbation look good.

I tried on my own to quit masturbation and the most I've gone is a month. I've been masturbating for almost 5 years now and I'm sick and tired of going back to my own vomit,anytime i finish masturbating i feel stupid and useless.

Masturbation has affected my brain capacity i failed jamb last year and I'm about to rewrite, I think quitting this dangerous addiction of mine is a good start.

Quitting porn couldn't help,
I'm alone i just feel the urge. Anytime i see a woman i only see them as sex objects,even masturbating to some family members which i one of the reasons i feel so dirty.
I need help.

Masturbation is better than premarital sex(with random people).. e get why.

I am a medical doctor.
I masturbated a lot while growing up , deep into adulthood.
I only had 1 sex partner , lasted barely 1 month and I went back to my shell.
I survived sexual tension by masturbating until I got married.
I still masturbate, though.
And I'm completely fine.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by PotatoSalad(m): 11:48am On Jan 27, 2022
Dopamine is a very bad chemical lmao grin
It makes your brain want more, and you end up beating the shít out of your meat.
Even when you decide to quit, one day your brain will be begging you to taste it one more time grin
You taste it and you spend the rest of the week having 3 months dose of flappy jack grin grin grin

Even Thanos said the hardest choices require the strongest wills.

Masturbation isn't bad, problem is getting addicted to it. It's just like having coldstone, you enjoy it, but the more you enjoy it, the more you get addicted to it. You add weight, have risk of developing diabetes or tooth problems, and lose a lot of money.

Find a way to moderate it.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by wisdomkid: 11:48am On Jan 27, 2022
Animegirl:
cheesy

Masturbation can never make you fail exam except you want to fail(so die that talk).

I know is introverts and all these tech guys grin that mostly engage in this kind of sex, maybe you should go out more often.

As for masturbating to your family members, omoh!!! This one na spiritual cleansing.

My advice: if you have money , look for one hot girl and enjoy yourself with her or fast and pray.

It is well my dear.

Lolz... Masturbation makes you lose the will to do anything possible.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by emkz: 11:48am On Jan 27, 2022
I have seen numerous threads castigating masturbation.

I have seen religious posts castigating masturbation. Calling it an addiction bla bla bla.

Please, if there is anyone who has not masturbated, come outside. Even Tiwa Savage mastur...

Instead of blaming masturbation, blame your lack of self control and not getting your priorities right. How can you want to write JAMB exam and you refuse to prepare and you are blaming masturbation? Masturbation helps you to balance your sexual urges and other needs.

Infact, it is safer for many people. I just think we need to stop creating silly threads discussing "Save me from masturbation", "I have been masturbating for ten years and it cost me a lot in life". You find time to masturbate excessively because you consume a lot of pornography. Get busy, read s book, go out, meet people, engage in discussions about other subjects bus sex. Get your priorities right. Masturbation is the climax of you preparing your mind towards it through the media you consume. That is what took your time off studies and you failed.

Masturbation is not the problem. You are.

Refocus.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by TUTU147: 11:50am On Jan 27, 2022
emekachief:
Trash. Get a lover? . Is STI and STD invested kpekus better than masturbation? . Only a foul will take your advice. Hypocrites everywhere
That is just the solution, masturbation is demonic.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by lucky4west: 11:50am On Jan 27, 2022
masturbation is a sin and weaken the victim, everything about you becomes weak even your thinking capacity little wonder your academic performance is weak and soon you will start seeing ur hair fall off early like going bald at a young age, even when you have a lady with you ur erection maybe weak etc...firstly repent from this sin and ask the Holy Spirit to help you, fast and pray because behind every sin and addiction is a demon mandated to keep that person perpetually chain to that sin/addiction thus bringing them to hell fire ...by your power u cant top committing sin so go to your maker the true helper...read your Bible and be fervent in the service of God...the yoke will be broken and you will be set free!
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by Plebian(f): 11:50am On Jan 27, 2022
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

Masturbation ain't bad son

masturbation is not a bad thing

Masturbate if you want.....it is very good

And if you think that are you addicted....the solution is that you need to first stop thinking it is a bad thing....so you won't be feeling guilty after masturbating.....

You know the funny thing
When you stop feeling guilty about masturbations and stop seeing it as a bad thing that is the time you start to limit it without you knowing....
masturbation is not a bad thing
this is the most reasonable advise yet
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by emekachief: 11:51am On Jan 27, 2022
Niggar, I love masturbation more than real sex but I don't masturbate every day. I have two kids arleady and doing very well in my field
TUTU147:
That is the only solution, people takes this masturbation like normal thing.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by emekachief: 11:55am On Jan 27, 2022
If masturbation is demonic what will you call fornication. masturbation is self love but don't do it on daily basis because excess of everything is bad
TUTU147:
That is just the solution, masturbation is demonic.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by Nobody: 11:56am On Jan 27, 2022
Masturbation is a medical prescription if you do it right , very healthy,

Just give 2 days gap , do it once a day, make sure to feed well.
I once caught a so call pastor masturbating in his toilet he was even speaking in tongues while doing it.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by onelovenigeria(m): 11:56am On Jan 27, 2022
Semiaddict:
initially i fell for the trick of people trying to make masturbation look good.

I tried on my own to quit masturbation and the most I've gone is a month. I've been masturbating for almost 5 years now and I'm sick and tired of going back to my own vomit,anytime i finish masturbating i feel stupid and useless.

Masturbation has affected my brain capacity i failed jamb last year and I'm about to rewrite, I think quitting this dangerous addiction of mine is a good start.

Quitting porn couldn't help,
I'm alone i just feel the urge. Anytime i see a woman i only see them as sex objects,even masturbating to some family members which i one of the reasons i feel so dirty.
I need help.
sorry to hear this...i was also use to masturbating before ...that i usually masturbate like 2-3 times day and spend a lot of money eating and resting....mate i did advice you to get a girlfriend and you will stop ....i think people who masturbate a lot have high sex drive and try to have sex regularly as well...it will stop and get busy as you do this...
stay safe
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by Eni25: 11:57am On Jan 27, 2022
Actually masturbation is bad, but allowing the guilt to influence u is bad, in essence try not to feel bad whenever u masturbate. And also stop watching porn, and lastly belcon daily or whenever the urge to masturbate on the holy spirit to help u. Again never feel bad about it and be intentional to stop it. May the Good Lord help u

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by Zaggadhat: 11:57am On Jan 27, 2022
Wetin Benin artifacts no go see for Egypt?

It's your type that one pastor would say one relative is the one causing your life issues and bam! You don dey crime fighters grin

With a mind set like that anyone can limit you!
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by kriss27(m): 11:58am On Jan 27, 2022
Animegirl:
cheesy

Masturbation can never make you fail exam except you want to fail(so die that talk).

I know is introverts and all these tech guys grin that mostly engage in this kind of sex, maybe you should go out more often.

As for masturbating to your family members, omoh!!! This one na spiritual cleansing.

My advice: if you have money , look for one hot girl and enjoy yourself with her or fast and pray.

It is well my dear.
You can help him out babe, their is nothing there. Masturbation is demonic
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by Ishitinyourlife: 11:58am On Jan 27, 2022
You're failing because you're very lazy ,it has nothing to do with masturbation,most men masturbate so it's not a big deal, improve your self esteem first and start applying yourself better.
And to you beating your junk to family members that's due to the family taboo porn you're viewing
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by Leiylau(f): 11:58am On Jan 27, 2022
I masturbate and nothing there

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by phemmyfour: 11:59am On Jan 27, 2022
Semiaddict:
initially i fell for the trick of people trying to make masturbation look good.

I tried on my own to quit masturbation and the most I've gone is a month. I've been masturbating for almost 5 years now and I'm sick and tired of going back to my own vomit,anytime i finish masturbating i feel stupid and useless.

Masturbation has affected my brain capacity i failed jamb last year and I'm about to rewrite, I think quitting this dangerous addiction of mine is a good start.

Quitting porn couldn't help,
I'm alone i just feel the urge. Anytime i see a woman i only see them as sex objects,even masturbating to some family members which i one of the reasons i feel so dirty.
I need help.
Nonsense, You failed jamb cos you are dull or didn't study hard. Masturbation doesn't affect your IQ

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by killerdragon(m): 12:01pm On Jan 27, 2022
Lol masturbation isnt your problem but lack of common sense is.

You're simply covering up your laziness and hiding under the banner of masturbation so righteousness can pray for you and make you feel better.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by Emiejoe007: 12:02pm On Jan 27, 2022
You. can try all you want..but as ling as you don't involve GOD in this struggle of yours...You'll always relapse..
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Semiaddict:
initially i fell for the trick of people trying to make masturbation look good.

I tried on my own to quit masturbation and the most I've gone is a month. I've been masturbating for almost 5 years now and I'm sick and tired of going back to my own vomit,anytime i finish masturbating i feel stupid and useless.

Masturbation has affected my brain capacity i failed jamb last year and I'm about to rewrite, I think quitting this dangerous addiction of mine is a good start.

Quitting porn couldn't help,
I'm alone i just feel the urge. Anytime i see a woman i only see them as sex objects,even masturbating to some family members which i one of the reasons i feel so dirty.
I need help.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by Nisiw365: 12:05pm On Jan 27, 2022
porthouse7:
forget bible my friend, pastor na spirit?
so you this woman masturbate
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by TechspeciaIist(m): 12:05pm On Jan 27, 2022
Ifeedu:
Stop na
.like say e easy?
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by dontrulee: 12:06pm On Jan 27, 2022
The problem with masturbation and other sexual immoralities is because the pleasure you derive from it is not lasting. Hence, you keep falling for it over and over again. The real lasting solution is to get to an energy level greater than that which sex can give. Once you experience this energy, sex becomes almost useless because you now experience a greater pleasure. That's true lasting freedom. Freedom from discipline is a suffering and there is a tendency that you will still fall in certain situations. There are many ways to attain higher levels greater than that gotten from sex. When the time comes, I'll teach some of these ways.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by dettolgel: 12:06pm On Jan 27, 2022
Semiaddict:
initially i fell for the trick of people trying to make masturbation look good.

I tried on my own to quit masturbation and the most I've gone is a month. I've been masturbating for almost 5 years now and I'm sick and tired of going back to my own vomit,anytime i finish masturbating i feel stupid and useless.

Masturbation has affected my brain capacity i failed jamb last year and I'm about to rewrite, I think quitting this dangerous addiction of mine is a good start.

Quitting porn couldn't help,
I'm alone i just feel the urge. Anytime i see a woman i only see them as sex objects,even masturbating to some family members which i one of the reasons i feel so dirty.
I need help.

For the fact that you think that masturbation made you fail Jamb is an indication that you will fail the next one.

You had better sit up draw up a reasonable study plan and stick to it and stop being lazy.

Otherwise if you are academically challenged instead of wasting your time and your parents money you better go and learn a skill and move on with your life.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by Sleyanya1(m): 12:07pm On Jan 27, 2022
First of all, I'll advise you to start by changing how you see yourself. Redefine yourself. You can start by writing in 5 sentences, the kind of Man you want to be and believe that.

Change this your nairaland username "semiaddict"...you gradually become what you say you are especially if you work towards it (Knowingly or ignorantly).

2. Stop relying on your strength alone to fight it. Ask God for help. Be committed to fight it to.

3. Win the fight one day at a time. Don't think you'd stop something you've actively done for 5 years in one day. Follow the process and just make sure you're winning gradually.

4. When you fall back, don't curse yourself or give up. Try to find out why you fell and then tackle it your best way.

5. See yourself as God sees you. He doesn't hate nor condemn you. He hates the sin and condemns it.

He'll help you.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by mario2k(m): 12:07pm On Jan 27, 2022
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

Masturbation ain't bad son

masturbation is not a bad thing

Masturbate if you want.....it is very good

And if you think that you are addicted....the solution is that you need to first stop thinking it is a bad thing....so you won't be feeling guilty after masturbating.....

You know the funny thing
When you stop feeling guilty about masturbations and stop seeing it as a bad thing that is the time you start to limit it without you knowing....
masturbation is not a bad thing



THAT'S A LIE FROM THE PIT OF HELL. MASTURBATION IS DEMONIC AND ITS A MEANS YOUR DESTINY AND FUTURE ARE SWITCHED SPIRITUALLY.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by dettolgel: 12:08pm On Jan 27, 2022
Leiylau:
I masturbate and nothing there

Abeg tell them. Ooh.

Meanwhile can you send a video of you doing it I want to use it for research purpose.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by Emiejoe007: 12:08pm On Jan 27, 2022
So..your advice is for him to change addictions...You stupidity should carry a verified badge..
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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by TechspeciaIist(m): 12:09pm On Jan 27, 2022
paulos8:
Y'all saying it didn't make him fail don't understand. It won't make jim fail but will definitely reduce his performance in the exam because excessive masturbation and porn leads to brain fog and lack of concentration coupled with lack of motivation and procrastination
You're so right bro.
I was supposed to graduate with a first class but ended up with a 2:2.
Masturbation made me reduce my performance, I couldn't even cram well or assimilate like I used to
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by LINTUNE(m): 12:10pm On Jan 27, 2022
Semiaddict:
initially i fell for the trick of people trying to make masturbation look good.

I tried on my own to quit masturbation and the most I've gone is a month. I've been masturbating for almost 5 years now and I'm sick and tired of going back to my own vomit,anytime i finish masturbating i feel stupid and useless.

Masturbation has affected my brain capacity i failed jamb last year and I'm about to rewrite, I think quitting this dangerous addiction of mine is a good start.

Quitting porn couldn't help,
I'm alone i just feel the urge. Anytime i see a woman i only see them as sex objects,even masturbating to some family members which i one of the reasons i feel so dirty.
I need help.
try to be responsible and Carter for yourself, I swear u won't even have much of sexual urge ,let alone masturbate...for this buhari era, guy be like u no get problem grin ...u get mind to control your dick to stand and service ursef , omo u are a strong man o..
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by Tobedated(m): 12:10pm On Jan 27, 2022
Awkabigboy:
Don't listen to these idiots oo op, masturbation is a killer
how can we be sure you yourself aint an idiot
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by hmohammed(m): 12:10pm On Jan 27, 2022
Semiaddict:
initially i fell for the trick of people trying to make masturbation look good.

I tried on my own to quit masturbation and the most I've gone is a month. I've been masturbating for almost 5 years now and I'm sick and tired of going back to my own vomit,anytime i finish masturbating i feel stupid and useless.

Masturbation has affected my brain capacity i failed jamb last year and I'm about to rewrite, I think quitting this dangerous addiction of mine is a good start.

Quitting porn couldn't help,
I'm alone i just feel the urge. Anytime i see a woman i only see them as sex objects,even masturbating to some family members which i one of the reasons i feel so dirty.
I need help.

Get closer to God and don't be too hard on yourself. Get yourself occupied preparing for the next Jamb exams. We have all been through this route. You will be fine
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by tampadollarsign(m): 12:14pm On Jan 27, 2022
Brr no make me post pic we're go triggered your urge too masturbate abi ekun Shea yin which one cum be masturbating courses your failure are you weird

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