I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Sanoske(m): 2:36pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
The first married woman I dated was my classmate from senior high school. When I went to class the very first day, I sat next to her and got her name as Virginia. One beautiful girl. I got connected to her instantly. That day we went for a break together. When it was time for dining, I went with her and sat at the same table with her. The idea was to build a friendship with her first and later propose. But just when I was laying the foundation for a later relationship, a senior walked into her life and swept her off her feet. I was devastated. I felt like crying. To make matters worse, this senior started picking on me. He would punish me for no offense. He would make me lie on the ground and step on me just because he saw me walking with Virginia, my classmate.
The second married woman was a dentist. Married for nine years with three kids. I had issues with my teeth and I went to her clinic. A clinic she owns. She checked my teeth and asked me to come back in a week’s time. I went back and she said, “You’ve done very well for coming. A lot of people come here and you ask them to come back but they don’t. All because they saw improvement after they had left.” She did something to my teeth and gave me her card. She said, “If it starts to get painful in the night, give me a call, I will show you what to do.” https://silentbeads.com/im-scared-of-marriage-because-of-the-married-women-i-dated/ 18 Likes 2 Shares |
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Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by DaddyRochie1642: 2:49pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
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Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Nobody: 3:32pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
Keep away from other men`s wives or they will trap you. 13 Likes |
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Boogyman557: 3:37pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
Holly Gram OGA Na ENERGY DRINK u go GIVE me to READ all dis matterz way u Post here... BUT STILL ON STILL real matters.. LITE UP my WEED in peace WTF MAN 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Thoughty2(m): 3:50pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
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Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Eyinju112(f): 4:08pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
This is so deep... Let me correct an impression, this women don’t love you, they might feel you serve them better than their husband... Truly they love their husband and will never replace them for you... I believe sex is the only reason they’re with you..
Most times, men feel women don’t need sex cause we don’t ask for it, remember we’re living in a society where ladies who always initiate sex are seen as sex animals, whereas we always want our men to cuddle us from behind and give us from the back...we always want them to spank our asses during sex and make us scream, we want to be ate.... some women loves toxic sex like bdsm, and their husband are always taking it cool on them.... they gonna look for guys or boys like you to make their legs shiver...
Oh babeboy, i blame myself whenever I wake the energetic part of him lmao... baby just so good
Men should try different sex not only missionary... All women loves sex, if she’s not enjoying it with her man, then she’s enjoying it with another man
Shalom 160 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Godada(m): 4:16pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
Eyinju112: This is so deep... Let me correct an impression, this women don’t love you, they might feel you serve them better than their husband... Truly they love their husband and will never replace them for you... I believe sex is the only reason they’re with you..
Most times, men feel women don’t need sex cause we don’t ask for it, remember we’re living in a society where ladies who always initiate sex are seen as sex animals, whereas we always want our men to cuddle us from behind and give us from the back...we always want them to spank our asses during sex and make us scream, we want to be ate.... some women loves toxic sex like bdsm, and their husband are always taking it cool on them.... they gonna look for guys or boys like you to make their legs shiver...
Men should try different sex not only missionary... All women loves sex, if she’s not enjoying it with her man, then she’s enjoying it with another man
Shalom Damn...... I want to sign up one on one consultation and counseling. 32 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Exkandayee(m): 4:38pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
But ehh, married women cuntus deh Sweet gan,op no lie,but sex is just fun,if someone is f-**kiing your wife op, nothing come out nah, she's just exploring 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Druggey(m): 4:40pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
thanks 4 the super story 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by mayorofyentown(m): 5:51pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
YAWNS 1 Like |
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by ucheheart(m): 6:13pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
Karma is a bitch and you can't run away from it. If you like marry angel holy Mary. You must reap what you sow a million fold. Better you remain single for the rest of your life if you want to avoid karma. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by flokii: 6:53pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
Wait o.. is this fiction I'm reading or what? @Op only you date married woman with kids still date another dentist married for nine years.. ki wa ni age e gan gan? how old are you? 4 Likes |
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Anyiamaka: 7:00pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
Eyinju112: This is so deep... Let me correct an impression, this women don’t love you, they might feel you serve them better than their husband... Truly they love their husband and will never replace them for you... I believe sex is the only reason they’re with you..
Most times, men feel women don’t need sex cause we don’t ask for it, remember we’re living in a society where ladies who always initiate sex are seen as sex animals, whereas we always want our men to cuddle us from behind and give us from the back...we always want them to spank our asses during sex and make us scream, we want to be ate.... some women loves toxic sex like bdsm, and their husband are always taking it cool on them.... they gonna look for guys or boys like you to make their legs shiver...
Men should try different sex not only missionary... All women loves sex, if she’s not enjoying it with her man, then she’s enjoying it with another man
Shalom You are right 6 Likes |
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by oilmane(m): 7:26pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
Sanoske: I’m Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated The first married woman I dated was my classmate from senior high school. When I went to class the very first day, I sat next to her and got her name as Virginia. One beautiful girl. I got connected to her instantly. That day we went for a break together. When it was time for dining, I went with her and sat at the same table with her. The idea was to build a friendship with her first and later propose. But just when I was laying the foundation for a later relationship, a senior walked into her life and swept her off her feet. I was devastated. I felt like crying. To make matters worse, this senior started picking on me. He would punish me for no offense. He would make me lie on the ground and step on me just because he saw me walking with Virginia, my classmate. He made life miserable for me on campus so I decided to withdraw a little. I stopped talking to her and stopped moving around with her until the senior completed school and left campus. I started pushing towards her with the grand agenda to make her my girlfriend. One night after entertainment, I stopped her in a corner and told her everything; “You see, I’ve had mad love for you since the very first day I set my eyes on you. I was preparing the grounds to tell you how I feel when I realized that senior Magoo had taken over. You were the reason he nearly killed me here n campus. I was patient because I know how this normally ends. Senior complete school, he leaves and forgets about you. Exactly what had happened. I’m here now asking you to give me a chance. A chance to prove my worth in love.” I thought I’d given her Romeo and Juliet lines and was waiting patiently to get a yes from her. She said, “I’m sorry but I’m still with Magoo. Ours isn’t like how you described it. I was with him during the vacation. We live not too far apart so I saw him often. I’m sorry to disappoint you but I still love him.” I didn’t give up. When we were in the third year, I tried again. It was intensive. I was on her every day to accept my proposal but she kept saying no to me until our last day on campus when I couldn’t take the no anymore. We sat behind one of our classrooms. I was begging her to say yes to me. She was not even together with senior Magoo but she kept saying no to me. I looked left and right. Nobody was coming so I held her head, pushed it towards me, and kissed her. It lasted for a second but I believed it would last me for a lifetime. She said, “Why do you have to force it?” I answered, “Because I can’t take it anymore.” We lost contact after school. The next time I saw her she was married. Married with two kids but still looked like the girl I fell in love with back in school. She worked in a hospital I visited with my mother. She took my mom into her care and gave her the best attention she needed. I called her when she was on duty to ask how my mom was doing and she gave me the update. Mom spent a week at the hospital. That gave me the opportunity to see Virginia every day. When my mom was discharged, I met Virginia after her shift just to show appreciation and she said, “Let’s do it better. I’m off this weekend. If you have time we can meet.” We met and it was our time in school that dominated the conversation. I said, “Girl I was madly in love with you.” She responded, “I was too young to understand. You know I still remember that kiss you stole from me?” I said, “How would you forget? It is the mark of the beast.” We laughed. I sat next to her in her car as we look for a good place where I could alight and get a car back to my house. Tension built. I could feel it and I knew if I try I would get her so I tried giving her a peck on her cheek and she met me with her lips. Relationship blossomed. We were together for about two years. I didn’t leave her and she didn’t leave me. As I write this, I believe if I should call her right now to meet me, she would. Was she lonely in her marriage? Was her husband treating her badly? Did she lack attention? The answer to these questions is no. The second married woman was a dentist. Married for nine years with three kids. I had issues with my teeth and I went to her clinic. A clinic she owns. She checked my teeth and asked me to come back in a week’s time. I went back and she said, “You’ve done very well for coming. A lot of people come here and you ask them to come back but they don’t. All because they saw improvement after they had left.” She did something to my teeth and gave me her card. She said, “If it starts to get painful in the night, give me a call, I will show you what to do. I went home and nothing happened. Three days later I called her and she gave the impression of someone who wanted to be a friend. We kept calling each other until we met one Saturday evening. She said, “If you showed me your house and you told me it was ok to visit, then maybe one day I will pass by.” She passed by one day and by the time she left, we were in a relationship. A good-looking woman who smells like a flower garden. I loved her so much at some point I wished she was not married. We spent time in beautiful places. I would be with her and she would be video calling her husband who thought she had traveled for a workshop. They would be doing lovey-dovey stuff right when I’m around but hidden from view. The questions that ran through my head were, “If she loves her husband so much then why is she here with me?” This is a question I couldn’t bring myself to ask her. From the onset, she made it clear that we can’t discuss her marriage. “My marriage is off-topic. I’m with you because I like you genuinely. Let’s keep the conversation around the feelings we have for each other and not my family.” I wasn’t giving her anything but she was ok spending on me whenever we had to spend a night in a place. She would post her family on her status and thank God for blessing her with such a beautiful family. She would doll on her husband all day and later sneak into my arms. That was something I couldn’t understand but couldn’t also talk about because it was a no go area. We dated intensively for two years until we started pulling away little by little from each other. We didn’t draw the curtains on the relationship. I think if I should call her right now and say, “I miss you. Why don’t you come over?” She may come. I’m a man. I need a woman of my own. No matter how good these women were to me, I wasn’t going to own them. They loved their husbands so much they wouldn’t leave them for me so I set out to look for my own. I met Agnes and we’ve dated for four years. I’ve been faithful to her all these years that we’ve been together. When I made a decision to walk away from married women, I made it a point never to look back or look left and right for another woman. It was always Agnes. So far so good. She’s been a good woman. She doesn’t talk too much. She rather shows her love than talk about it. To me, marriage is a value proposition. You marry a woman who brings value to your life the same way you also improve her life. Other than that, I see no reason to be with a woman just because of love. Agnes has the brain of a winner and she uses it at any given point. Anything she touches turns to gold. Gold has value and it’s the reason I’m stuck with her. Recently the conversation has become about marriage. She asks me when we are going to get married. She asks about future plans and even the number of kids we plan to have. All the things women get jiggy about when it’s about marriage. I love her. I would like to marry her but you know what? I’m scared. I don’t trust Agnes to be faithful to me. She hasn’t done anything for me to suspect her but those two married women I dated have given me all the reasons not to trust a woman. Agnes looks happy when she’s with me. Virginia looked happy with her husband. The dentist too. But all the while they were expressing their love for their husband, they were with me doing things they should have done with only their husbands. I think about it and I feel so cold. I even shiver at the thought of it because it happened. And I was there when it happened. I was the one it happened to. So Agnes wants to marry. I want to marry her too but I can’t let go of the thoughts of her cheating with another man. Not because I did it but because I’ve come to believe that women would cheat even when you give them everything they want. They can be happy and smiling with you just when they had returned from another man’s bed. This is the reason I haven’t been able to commit to marriage plans with Agnes. It’s too scary. But I want to do it. I want to bring myself to a place where I can believe and take a step. So my question is, how do I shake this thought off my head and stay positive? I don’t want to marry her and wear the same pant with her. Be suspicious of the little things she does. She wants her freedom after marriage and I would want to be able to guarantee that. How do I do it? Thank God for karma, as magun nor strike you karma will surely pay you a visit, you ain't dodging it. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by muheeb01(m): 7:32pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
You're doing what you can't take to people wives....you can't escape karma bro you don't need to be scared..just accept the fact that what goes around comes back around shikena....it's the gut for me,you can't eat your cake and have it,they must sleep with your wife too,you should remain that single for life o.. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Nonexisting: 7:44pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
Super story. Which campus has seniors and juniors? Even Madonna university the uni-secondary school doesn't do senior and junior students. Mtchew 17 Likes |
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by xcommando(m): 7:55pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
Eyinju112: This is so deep... Let me correct an impression, this women don’t love you, they might feel you serve them better than their husband... Truly they love their husband and will never replace them for you... I believe sex is the only reason they’re with you..
Most times, men feel women don’t need sex cause we don’t ask for it, remember we’re living in a society where ladies who always initiate sex are seen as sex animals, whereas we always want our men to cuddle us from behind and give us from the back...we always want them to spank our asses during sex and make us scream, we want to be ate.... some women loves toxic sex like bdsm, and their husband are always taking it cool on them.... they gonna look for guys or boys like you to make their legs shiver...
Men should try different sex not only missionary... All women loves sex, if she’s not enjoying it with her man, then she’s enjoying it with another man
Shalom This is deep 1 Like |
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Nobody: 7:57pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
How do y'all copy and paste here ? I thought there is limit to words . |
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by odinson1(m): 8:20pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
Eyinju112: This is so deep... Let me correct an impression, this women don’t love you, they might feel you serve them better than their husband... Truly they love their husband and will never replace them for you... I believe sex is the only reason they’re with you..
Most times, men feel women don’t need sex cause we don’t ask for it, remember we’re living in a society where ladies who always initiate sex are seen as sex animals, whereas we always want our men to cuddle us from behind and give us from the back...we always want them to spank our asses during sex and make us scream, we want to be ate.... some women loves toxic sex like bdsm, and their husband are always taking it cool on them.... they gonna look for guys or boys like you to make their legs shiver...
Men should try different sex not only missionary... All women loves sex, if she’s not enjoying it with her man, then she’s enjoying it with another man
Shalom The women love their husbands but are cheating on them with other men. What then is the "love" for? The way you women reason some times ehnnn 23 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Wizywiz(m): 8:29pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
oilmane:
Thank God for karma, as magun nor strike you karma will surely pay you a visit, you ain't dodging it. forget this karma bulshit.....@op u have every right to be worried ooo..me I can't blame you oooo.... 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Eyinju112(f): 8:38pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
You know I might not love you but love the way you Bleep me.... odinson1:
The women love their husbands but are cheating on them with other men. What then is the "love" for?
The way you women reason some times ehnnn 10 Likes |
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by ClassicMan202(m): 8:57pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
Life na circle ..... Na the same way another man go behind camera when you dey video call your wife 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by oilmane(m): 10:12pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
Wizywiz: forget this karma bulshit.....@op u have every right to be worried ooo..me I can't blame you oooo.... If karma is bullshit why then do you think he should be worried? 1 Like |
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by MEGA4BILLION(m): 10:32pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
What goes around comes around |
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by nextdoorpal: 11:07pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
Eyinju112: This is so deep... Let me correct an impression, this women don’t love you, they might feel you serve them better than their husband... Truly they love their husband and will never replace them for you... I believe sex is the only reason they’re with you..
Most times, men feel women don’t need sex cause we don’t ask for it, remember we’re living in a society where ladies who always initiate sex are seen as sex animals, whereas we always want our men to cuddle us from behind and give us from the back...we always want them to spank our asses during sex and make us scream, we want to be ate.... some women loves toxic sex like bdsm, and their husband are always taking it cool on them.... they gonna look for guys or boys like you to make their legs shiver...
Men should try different sex not only missionary... All women loves sex, if she’s not enjoying it with her man, then she’s enjoying it with another man
Shalom This here is the sad truth, been with a few ladies who'll rather leave em dudes n come tell me they wanna get laid till em leg quiver. You just opened up a secret most ladies ain't willing to let guys know cos they think they'll be viewed as hoes. But hey truth be told, some women want to be spanked n made love to real good n crazy in ways em cool dude boyfriend or husbands can't cos they put up that decent guy disposition. 22 Likes |
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Highlyrespected(m): 11:18pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
@o p "What goes around comes around." You just have go for forgiveness, because of your atrocities you had committed in the past and vow before your creator that you won't near to any such thing again. 4 Likes |
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by bluefilm: 12:31am On Feb 01, 2022 |
This is bullshit_ 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by GeneralOjukwu: 3:41am On Feb 01, 2022 |
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Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by fashionale(m): 3:48am On Feb 01, 2022 |
This is one of the burdens of your sins. And it's very wicked of you to expect fidelity from your woman when you yourself is far from it... What I mean is that you're not worthy to have a loyal and faithful woman.... Have an open mind that karma will knock on your door, |
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Wizywiz(m): 4:11am On Feb 01, 2022 |
oilmane:
If karma is bullshit why then do you think he should be worried? he is worried because of the lifestyle of most women being insatiable and not being contented with what they ve got.....and can always cheat despite all you provide for them as a man......not some karma bulshit 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Nobody: 5:09am On Feb 01, 2022 |
Karma bitching you. You are already in the game of marital infidelity, you can live with your wife getting boned 2 Likes |