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Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Brownshoe: 1:05pm On Feb 01, 2022
Which style make i give you
Eyinju112:
This is so deep...
Let me correct an impression, this women don’t love you, they might feel you serve them better than their husband... Truly they love their husband and will never replace them for you... I believe sex is the only reason they’re with you..

Most times, men feel women don’t need sex cause we don’t ask for it, remember we’re living in a society where ladies who always initiate sex are seen as sex animals, whereas we always want our men to cuddle us from behind and give us from the back...we always want them to spank our asses during sex and make us scream, we want to be ate.... some women loves toxic sex like bdsm, and their husband are always taking it cool on them.... they gonna look for guys or boys like you to make their legs shiver...

Men should try different sex not only missionary... All women loves sex, if she’s not enjoying it with her man, then she’s enjoying it with another man

Shalom
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Jman06(m): 1:06pm On Feb 01, 2022
I will never be scared of marriage for fear of being cheated on by my wife.

I won't even lose sleep on account of a cheating wife. I can't torture myself for another's indiscretion.

But one thing is sure, I'll definitely know when my wife starts cheating, and trust me, I'll not be the one to divorce her. But she'll wish she got divorced because I'll happily put her in a condition that's more terrible than being divorced.


Shalom

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Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by suicidesheep: 1:06pm On Feb 01, 2022
odinson1:


The women love their husbands but are cheating on them with other men. What then is the "love" for?

The way you women reason some times ehnnn

Same thing applies to we men. I know of many men that sleep with small small girls and yet they still love their wives or claim to. It goes both ways

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Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Nobody: 1:07pm On Feb 01, 2022
Sanoske:




https://silentbeads.com/im-scared-of-marriage-because-of-the-married-women-i-dated/
Please post your wedding invitation here when you finally decide to marry. On behalf of all of us here and the husbands of the ladies you bleeped, I want to come to the wedding and check something.

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Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Nobody: 1:10pm On Feb 01, 2022
Nonexisting:
Super story. Which campus has seniors and juniors? Even Madonna university the uni-secondary school doesn't do senior and junior students. Mtchew
That one weak me. He started with senior high (secondary) school, later I saw campus / university 3rd year abi 2nd year. This guy dey lie but e dey happen everyday

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Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by MoneyMustBMade(m): 1:20pm On Feb 01, 2022
Eyinju112:
This is so deep...
Let me correct an impression, this women don’t love you, they might feel you serve them better than their husband... Truly they love their husband and will never replace them for you... I believe sex is the only reason they’re with you..

Most times, men feel women don’t need sex cause we don’t ask for it, remember we’re living in a society where ladies who always initiate sex are seen as sex animals, whereas we always want our men to cuddle us from behind and give us from the back...we always want them to spank our asses during sex and make us scream, we want to be ate.... some women loves toxic sex like bdsm, and their husband are always taking it cool on them.... they gonna look for guys or boys like you to make their legs shiver...

Men should try different sex not only missionary... All women loves sex, if she’s not enjoying it with her man, then she’s enjoying it with another man

Shalom

But women should be speaking out... Cos some men don't rlly know thier problem
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Nobody: 1:22pm On Feb 01, 2022
Karma will always be your friend
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by petitejolie(f): 1:22pm On Feb 01, 2022
Then stay single
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by marsup: 1:38pm On Feb 01, 2022
DaddyRochie1642:
Oga so you were busy enjoying the Kpekus of other married women and now you're saying that you're scared and that you don't want another man to enjoy your wife's Kpekus grin grin


Oga continue dreaming, another man will enjoy your wife's Kpekus too, no amount of praying and fasting will stop it grin grin grin
As it is written, so shall it be.
grin
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by tosineolu: 1:44pm On Feb 01, 2022
A married woman almost cost me my three years relationship. God have mercy�

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Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by 4christ4life: 2:07pm On Feb 01, 2022
A man who goes into another man's wife shall not be innocent. A curse already follows such man.
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Unclebee009(m): 2:19pm On Feb 01, 2022
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Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by frozen70(f): 2:27pm On Feb 01, 2022
Sanoske:




https://silentbeads.com/im-scared-of-marriage-because-of-the-married-women-i-dated/

The worst is that you will still cheat on her despite you are scared of marrying her because she will cheat

You have to eat your dish
You tasted other people's own, so yours must be tasted
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by t2luv1: 2:32pm On Feb 01, 2022
4christ4life:
A man who goes into another man's wife shall not be innocent. A curse already follows such man.

What verse in the Bible or Quran was that written? I ain't buying that.
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by elmas(m): 2:37pm On Feb 01, 2022
Jman06:
I will never be scared of marriage for fear of being cheated on by my wife.

I won't even lose sleep on account of a cheating wife. I can't torture myself for another's indiscretion.

But one thing is sure, I'll definitely know when my wife starts cheating, and trust me, I'll not be the one to divorce her. But she'll wish she got divorced because I'll happily put her in a condition that's more terrible than being divorced.


Shalom

By not eating her food?
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Jeon(f): 2:42pm On Feb 01, 2022
SO FUNNY ON HOW PEOPLE DEGRADE THEMSELVES NOWADAYS...

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Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by NOETHNICITY(m): 2:48pm On Feb 01, 2022
My experience is that I've more married women on my pursuit than single ladies. One married female colleague deceived me into visiting her at matrimonial home to fuuuuck me on her matrimonial bed. I never knew she had something for me all along. I had always thought it was just normal casual playing with me. Got to her house that Sunday morning with the expectation of meeting a full house. My heart started beating fast when I realized she was the only one at home, she told me the kids had gone to church. That moment she dropped her rapper tied around a night gown which had no pants underneath. She just grabbed me and started kissing me. All my plea to let us reschedule for a later date outside her home fell on deaf hear. I was scared not to provoke her into screaming 'RAPE'. Since that day I started distancing myself from all female colleagues especially the married ones. But the more I distance myself the more the flock around. Only God will help me

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Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by YinkaGold02: 3:09pm On Feb 01, 2022
Many Chance
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by guychidile: 3:58pm On Feb 01, 2022
Karma must catch up with you....so all these while you where enjoying other men's wife's,it didn't occur to you that as soon as you marry,other men will spank your wifey too....that's karma for you....you can go and confess to their hubbys and ask for forgiveness...gba gam!
We move .
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Holluwhakemmy(f): 3:59pm On Feb 01, 2022
What goes around comes around.
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by DeZoro(m): 4:18pm On Feb 01, 2022
Any married woman, that her bride price is paid, will suffer or her children faces gross consequences if she cheated on her husband. From where I come from in Edo State, no matter the guise of religion you claim, if a married woman cheat and don't confess, the land will always have a way to Judge her. As we know, God will never be happy at anyone who indulge in this that is why the devil will sneak in to execute mayhem on such woman. On the other hand, a man who sleeps with a married woman, knowing fully well that she is with a man, bride price paid; that man will end in a pitiable state if not miserable for life.

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Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by apple30(f): 4:48pm On Feb 01, 2022
odinson1:


The women love their husbands but are cheating on them with other men. What then is the "love" for?

The way you women reason some times ehnnn
wat abt MEN dat love dere wife but still cheat on them in search of pleasure ..eee done reach woman turn ur ear � done stand grin grin
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Iniobong44(m): 5:09pm On Feb 01, 2022
Do to others what you want them to do for you.
Oga so you were busy enjoying the Kpekus of other married women and now you're saying that you're scared and that you don't want another man to enjoy your wife's Kpekus grin grin
Oga continue dreaming, another man will enjoy your wife's Kpekus too, no amount of praying and fasting will stop it
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Afonasa(m): 5:18pm On Feb 01, 2022
Its called karma,e go reach everyone....
The earlier u stop it the better


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Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Jman06(m): 6:06pm On Feb 01, 2022
elmas:


By not eating her food?
The condition I'll put her in may not even permit her to cook food.
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by wealthtrak: 7:42pm On Feb 01, 2022
Eyinju112:
This is so deep...
Let me correct an impression, this women don’t love you, they might feel you serve them better than their husband... Truly they love their husband and will never replace them for you... I believe sex is the only reason they’re with you..

Most times, men feel women don’t need sex cause we don’t ask for it, remember we’re living in a society where ladies who always initiate sex are seen as sex animals, whereas we always want our men to cuddle us from behind and give us from the back...we always want them to spank our asses during sex and make us scream, we want to be ate.... some women loves toxic sex like bdsm, and their husband are always taking it cool on them.... they gonna look for guys or boys like you to make their legs shiver...

Oh babeboy, i blame myself whenever I wake the energetic part of him lmao... baby just so good

Men should try different sex not only missionary... All women loves sex, if she’s not enjoying it with her man, then she’s enjoying it with another man

Shalom
You def know what's up. wink
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by TiglathPILESER: 9:40pm On Feb 01, 2022
Estherqueen50:
Your fear is one of the reason God commanded the marriage bed to be undefiled.
Because God knows how important trust is needed in a relationship.
But because humans are right in our own eyes we do what pleases us.

Imagine we have a society everyone waits to get married before they have sex and also stick to one. What bliss! It means one of the major problems of broken homes and marriages wouldn't even exist.

You don't need to fear I believe you can start afresh by being delibrate about living a Godly life and also leading your wife and children in that direction.

If You and your family becomes genuinely saved then you have nothing to fear.
Don't fear so that what you fear will not come upon you. Ask God for mercy for what youve done in your past and invite him into your home. A man is but limited and can fail but with the help of the Holy spirit your marriage can work out.

I believe things will work out with Jesus at the centre of it, cause He is the custodian of marriage.

Be blessed.
God bless you...
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by emmaodet: 5:51am On Feb 02, 2022
Eyinju112:
This is so deep...
Let me correct an impression, this women don’t love you, they might feel you serve them better than their husband... Truly they love their husband and will never replace them for you... I believe sex is the only reason they’re with you..

Most times, men feel women don’t need sex cause we don’t ask for it, remember we’re living in a society where ladies who always initiate sex are seen as sex animals, whereas we always want our men to cuddle us from behind and give us from the back...we always want them to spank our asses during sex and make us scream, we want to be ate.... some women loves toxic sex like bdsm, and their husband are always taking it cool on them.... they gonna look for guys or boys like you to make their legs shiver...

Oh babeboy, i blame myself whenever I wake the energetic part of him lmao... baby just so good

Men should try different sex not only missionary... All women loves sex, if she’s not enjoying it with her man, then she’s enjoying it with another man

Shalom

Lol
Keep making excuses for yourself.
If you are not happy with the way your man is banging you, what happens to communication? Reason why I avoid immature ladies.
Marriage is meant for matured people and not adult babies who can’t express their minds. You can’t talk with the person you married freely and staying with most times but can tell a new guy or stranger what you want, is that not stupidity? Or should we just say an excuse for cheating.
How about I tell you the reason why am cheating on my woman is because she just lie down like log of wood.
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by Eyinju112(f): 6:33am On Feb 02, 2022
i ain’t making excuses for myself, we all can’t be thesame, when ever my man travels and I watch porn, I screen record the part I love in that porn and send it to him, I’ll let him know this is how I want you to handle me when you’re back.... that is why we been advised to marry our best friend, there might not be this nice bridge of communication between they and their man, we can’t judge cause we don’t know the reasons....

I once dated a guy, we had sex and I saw how he kept his manhoood bush, I don’t know how to talk him I love well shaved dick, after sex the following time , I told him how I feel about him not shaving, could you believe this guy flared up and said I’ve gone to sleep with another guy and because that guy dick is shaved that’s why I’m coming to tell him I need a shaved dick...

See sometimes the way men misinterprete things ehh, so for their husbands not to think they are sex maniac or sex animals they might decide to keep it low
emmaodet:


Lol
Keep making excuses for yourself.
If you are not happy with the way your man is banging you, what happens to communication? Reason why I avoid immature ladies.
Marriage is meant for matured people and not adult babies who can’t express their minds. You can’t talk with the person you married freely and staying with most times but can tell a new guy or stranger what you want, is that not stupidity? Or should we just say an excuse for cheating.
How about I tell you the reason why am cheating on my woman is because she just lie down like log of wood.
Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by ObamaMessi: 8:41am On Feb 02, 2022
Boogyman557:
Holly Gram cool OGA Na ENERGY DRINK u go GIVE me to READ all dis matterz way u Post here...





BUT STILL ON STILL




real matters..




LITE UP my WEED in peace



WTF MAN
Guy I feel your vibes.I'm still laughing.

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Re: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by ObamaMessi: 8:42am On Feb 02, 2022
I swear to Almighty God I'll never marry!

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